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Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 11:47:59 AM

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i love to cuddle<3 i like the way it makes me feel, but i have had a boyfriend who says he feels akward cuddling, but i have others who have loved it...

so do you like to cuddle?
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Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 1:19:16 PM

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I love it. Both in a sexual and non sexual way, depending on the moment. Can't stand sitting or lying apart for too long without a cuddle.
Magical_felix
Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 1:23:53 PM

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I have to be in the mood. Say me and my girlfriend, after a nice Sunday together out and about and a nice meal come home and get in lounge about clothes. Then we might get in bed and watch a movie. That's definitely the time to cuddle for me. Sometimes in the morning while deciding what to do for the day is a nice time for it too.(morning breath permitting)

I dislike cuddling in almost all other situations though. I hate cuddling when trying to sleep. I toss and turn too much. I also don't like cuddling on the couch or anywhere besides a bed.

Also sometimes outdoors in the cold if we are waiting in line for something. Does that count? But thats the only time I can think of outside of the bed.



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Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 1:30:48 PM

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Magical_felix wrote:
I have to be in the mood. Say me and my girlfriend, after a nice Sunday together out and about and a nice meal come home and get in lounge about clothes. Then we might get in bed and watch a movie. That's definitely the time to cuddle for me. Sometimes in the morning while deciding what to do for the day is a nice time for it too.(morning breath permitting)

I dislike cuddling in almost all other situations though. I hate cuddling when trying to sleep. I toss and turn too much. I also don't like cuddling on the couch or anywhere besides a bed.

Also sometimes outdoors in the cold if we are waiting in line for something. Does that count? But thats the only time I can think of outside of the bed.


C'mon Felix, we all know you're really a closet-cuddler. I can tell from reading your romantic lovey-dovey stories.
Magical_felix
Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 1:34:13 PM

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Shhh



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Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 1:49:28 PM

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My boyfriend is a cuddler most of the time, which is just perfect for me. We cuddle whenever we are sat on the sofa, in bed watching a dvd, when he comes home from work, when he leaves for work, when im falling asleep, when were out an about. He always knows when to give me a cuddle, he always knows if i need a little squeeze or to be held against him or if i just want him snuggled up to me.

The only time he doesnt cuddle me and the one time i want cuddles more than any other is after sex Boo hoo! sex
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Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 4:25:17 PM

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I love cuddling - having a warm body next to mine is great. Sexual or non sexual, it doesn't matter... I just love having a woman in my arms.
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Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 5:05:53 PM

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Ladies love to cuddle. If you love the ladies, by default, you love to cuddle ;)




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Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 5:22:14 PM

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Smooth Shads



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Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 5:26:11 PM

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WickedShads wrote:
Ladies love to cuddle. If you love the ladies, by default, you love to cuddle ;)



]HAHAHHAHAH<3
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Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 5:35:32 PM

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MMonroe wrote:
Smooth Shads


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Posted: Tuesday, December 14, 2010 8:53:34 PM

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I love to cuddle. And it doesn't always have to be about getting close and horny. There are a lot of nights where i just want to rent a movie, eat some popcorn, light a candle and get close with someone special.
The tricky part is to know when I'm aloud to go any farther. lol

maliboy
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Posted: Thursday, December 16, 2010 6:11:32 AM

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cuddling is great that feeling of being close is the best
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Posted: Thursday, December 16, 2010 6:44:53 AM

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I love to cuddle, not just after sex either.. I find it's easier to fall asleep when I have her in my arms. I listen to her breathing and it helps me fall asleep very quickly. And as shooter said the feeling of a womens warm body next to you is amazing.

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Posted: Thursday, December 16, 2010 9:50:52 AM

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i like to cuddle up on the sofa and watch a good film or just cuddle and talk
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Posted: Thursday, December 16, 2010 9:55:25 AM

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cuddling is great, sometime i have to convince her to cuddle, i like holding the person that i love.
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Posted: Thursday, December 16, 2010 8:25:17 PM

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I think cuddling is important at times both before and after sex. Sometimes it leads to sex and others it is the desert after. The time, mood and place all play into weather to cuddle or not.
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Posted: Thursday, December 16, 2010 9:19:29 PM

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justinebaby wrote:
so do you like to cuddle?




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Posted: Friday, December 17, 2010 6:10:48 AM

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WMM .... that was funneeee!

But I still like to cuddle. geek

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Posted: Friday, December 17, 2010 7:43:39 AM

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WMM, that was hilarious... Well done! evil4


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Posted: Friday, December 17, 2010 7:45:12 AM

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Cuddling is good. How can I not love naked skin on skin contacy. As close as you can get. A naked lady in my bed and arms is always welcome.





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Posted: Friday, December 17, 2010 10:21:04 AM

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LMAO, WMM...that should definitely go into the annals of priceless vids posted here on Lush.

Carry on with this illuminating discussion, gentlemen. icon_smile
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Posted: Friday, December 17, 2010 11:21:50 PM

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iv never had a bf that likes 2 cuddle , i love 2 :)
Magical_felix
Posted: Sunday, December 19, 2010 8:31:35 AM

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I was thinking about this and cuddling for guys reminds me a little of exercising. Most people don't like exercising but they do it anyway because they know that eventually they are going to lose weight. Some may exercise a lot and grow to enjoy it as long as those pounds keep coming off... Guys will cuddle because they know it will lead to sex. Stop rewarding them with sex and the cuddling might stop. I know I wouldn't cuddle with a friend of mine all the time just to cuddle and talk about feelings if I didn't have a sexual relationship with her.



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Posted: Sunday, December 19, 2010 8:53:50 AM

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Magical_felix wrote:
I was thinking about this and cuddling for guys reminds me a little of exercising. Most people don't like exercising but they do it anyway because they know that eventually they are going to lose weight. Some may exercise a lot and grow to enjoy it as long as those pounds keep coming off... Guys will cuddle because they know it will lead to sex. Stop rewarding them with sex and the cuddling might stop. I know I wouldn't cuddle with a friend of mine all the time just to cuddle and talk about feelings if I didn't have a sexual relationship with her.


You're basically suggesting than men don't really enjoy cuddling. I'm not sure that's true for all men.
Magical_felix
Posted: Sunday, December 19, 2010 9:03:57 AM

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SweetPenny wrote:
Magical_felix wrote:
I was thinking about this and cuddling for guys reminds me a little of exercising. Most people don't like exercising but they do it anyway because they know that eventually they are going to lose weight. Some may exercise a lot and grow to enjoy it as long as those pounds keep coming off... Guys will cuddle because they know it will lead to sex. Stop rewarding them with sex and the cuddling might stop. I know I wouldn't cuddle with a friend of mine all the time just to cuddle and talk about feelings if I didn't have a sexual relationship with her.


You're basically suggesting than men don't really enjoy cuddling. I'm not sure that's true for all men.


It's an accuired taste... For some men.

Like hunting. Some guys still do it (small %) but most would prefer to just go to the store to buy a steak.

Sorry, it's an analogy filled sunday morning icon_smile



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Posted: Sunday, December 19, 2010 10:45:52 AM

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I like cuddling...cuddling is good...

I like steak too, btw...steak is good...


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Regello77
Posted: Sunday, December 19, 2010 8:25:03 PM

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Yes , I love to cuddle at any time , dressed or undressed . Isn't cuddling the essence of physical loving ?
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Survey sample of one....it's a must! Love it!
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