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mxxx
Posted: Saturday, October 02, 2010 7:20:08 PM

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I would be flattered. Age is just a number. As long as I am attracted to her who cares how old she is.
Ned2522
Posted: Friday, October 22, 2010 10:07:20 AM

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I am 52. If I wasn't in a committed relationship, I would welcome the attention. It would be difficult to have a serious relationship with someone who was more than10 to 15 years younger than me. But sex? Way cool.
Rontre
Posted: Friday, October 22, 2010 9:38:52 PM

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I am 60 years of age & would certainly be flattered but for me that's way too young. However, if I could talk her into joining me & my partner who is 17 years younger than me then that might be a different story........... Just kidding.......... We both agree that she has to be at least 30 years old.
Tiepinkraider
Posted: Friday, October 29, 2010 3:34:33 PM

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She's a hooker.
She wants to meet my friend.
She's blind.
She wants money.
She's lost.
She's my friend's daughter and wants a ride. (in my case, granddaughter)
She's really not 18. (she's 14). Yikes!

Doesn't matter, I think there all in love with me.
Then I wake.

Now, the 40 somethings, that's another matter.
SouthernerEroticer
Posted: Friday, October 29, 2010 3:46:46 PM

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I'd be honoured, and my blood would flow between my legs!
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Posted: Saturday, October 30, 2010 11:11:30 AM

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Gently advise her to fish for someone younger unless she just wanted friendship then that would be fine. This situation often happens in schools and colleges sometimes it gets into the news.
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Posted: Saturday, January 01, 2011 1:07:52 PM

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Eutopia wrote:
When you are..."approached" by a younger female, I mean young, but still of legal age, what are your thoughts on the matter?

Do you feel Flattered?
Do you think they're flirting with you because they're gold diggers?
Are you in that cliche' slump of thinking "is this really happening?!" over and over again?
Maybe all the blood in your body flow straight between your legs?
Or do you all think of something completely different?


I'd love to know, just incase I attempt to stray along the mature lines next time I'm on the prowl. ;D



One qualifying question please....does my wiener still work?
Guest
Posted: Saturday, January 01, 2011 1:53:30 PM

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...i'm a little under you target demographic at 32, but as a rule, I don't hook up with girls younger than mid twenties...for me, it's all a mental thing...i have 17 years of sexual experience...i need someone who is at least in that ballpark, and no offense intended, but 18 year old girls aren't even playing the same sport...it isn't their fault...we were all 18 once...but i have no desire to go back to 18 now...there is a confidence and maturity that you can only get with experience, and that's what I gravitate towards.
Curious123
Posted: Saturday, January 01, 2011 11:22:16 PM

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I agree with swollen...age is sooo relative to who is asking and who is being asked...but if you ask me, a 44 year old "old guy", I would be flattered....;)
DirtyMartini
Posted: Saturday, January 01, 2011 11:59:12 PM

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Hey, I'm a 49 year old guy who keeps himself in pretty good shape...
Have I had younger women come on to me? Yes...
Do I think it's flattering? Yes...I think all guys do to some extent...that old "I still got it" attitude...

Would I really want to get with a 20 year old girl? No...honestly...
Reminds me of a friend of mine who I've known since third grade...a few years ago, he married a 22 year old...he was 44, exactly twice her age...he was just younger than her father...by a year, I think...
Frankly, I couldn't stand her...the girlfriend he had before I thought was lovely...she was a few years younger than us, but apparently they had their "differences"...
Btw, his marriage to the 22 year old lasted all of six months...

I'm 49 and I'm going out with a 53 year old gal. We like/remember the same music...she doesn't speak in "text language"...I don't have to help her with her homework...etc...

Again, is it flattering when a young woman comes on to an older guy? Yeah, but not shockingly so...I remember when I was in my teens/twenties I certainly found older women attractive...and so did most of my friends...
Heck, I had another friend of mine from high school who had such a crush on my mother he wouldn't accept a ride from her one time because "he couldn't trust himself" being in the car with her...

My mom and I laughed about it for some time later...


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Blkwlstorm
Posted: Monday, January 03, 2011 1:18:47 AM

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I find younger women such a turn on. Age is a number. If she's legal and willing, why not?
Fenton
Posted: Monday, January 03, 2011 1:23:18 AM

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I am not a good looking man. If an attractive young woman approached me, I would be very suspicious
Unlaw
Posted: Monday, January 03, 2011 4:16:57 AM

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I have to say that I'd be curious as to why a younger female wouldbe approaching me?? I'd be asking her some pointed questions.If everything were on the up and up, well... we'd be doing the up and up... I may be older but I'm not a fool to pass up any female....younger or my age.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 04, 2011 7:14:36 AM

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would have that little thought in the back of my mind why is she talking to me but hell while she is lets enjoy it
SirLoin
Posted: Tuesday, January 04, 2011 8:52:03 AM

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When it happens, I'll let you know.. btw I may be older, but rarely referred to as a Gentleman!
swollen
Posted: Tuesday, January 04, 2011 12:03:11 PM

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SirLoin wrote:
When it happens, I'll let you know.. btw I may be older, but rarely referred to as a Gentleman!


Apparently mature, well-hung meat is the best !!! x
2706ali
Posted: Wednesday, January 05, 2011 5:30:14 AM

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always been playfull,so age is unimportant,making someone feel comfortable with you,is essential.........and thats to key to having younger friends !!!
kharrisma
Posted: Friday, January 07, 2011 5:52:23 PM

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I've always been a proponent of the "older guy / younger gal" (he's a GUY, what'd you THINK he'd say...) but not for the reasons you might think.

As someone mentioned earlier in this thread, younger girls with younger guys of their own age or very close don't always have the nicest introduction to sex; probably 98% of these young guys just wanna mount, pump, come, and roll off and smoke a cigarette. The gal probably is hurt, both physically and emotionally, and as if that weren't bad enough, left high and... er, ... wet.

Younger guys are: A, all about themselves; B, in a hurry - - get in, get off , get out. Very rarely do HER needs fit into this equation. Unless she's severely in lust and able to get herself off on whatever he's dishing out, she's probably in for a disappointing first time, and subsequent times for an indeterminate period. Generally they're not so sure of themselves to put on the brakes and issue directions to ensure that they get theirs, too, and even if they were, how many young guys want to take such directions?

Whereas an older gent, such as, say, ME, has long since worked all that hurry up me me me nonsense out of my system long ago. A gorgeous young thing is the closest thing to heaven on this earth, and is not to be gulped down in a quick bite; it's to be savored, bit by bit, inch by inch, driving her crazy every second of the way; finding out what makes her squirm and playing all around with that to see just how far it can take her before moving on, maybe to revisit this a little later, or as a workup to round two. From my perspective, it's all about her, start to finish. I'll certainly get more than I can deal with along the way; no way in hell I or any man can match what most women can take (and want, but rarely get.)

Isn't something like that a much nicer break-in than the quick grope, slam, and it's done that she's most likely to receive from her male peers? It'll start her off on the right foot, so to speak, and she'll have a baseline to work from, knowing just how good it can get, and may be able to teach these youngsters something to boot.

If I'm full of it, I'll take my lumps like a man. Fire away!

And if they're older, but still much younger than me, I kinda have to cast my lot with the others who have said, in effect, "flattered, ego stroked, nice source of fantasy material (or stories!!), but kinda waiting for the other shoe to drop... what's the catch? Where's the hook?
ChaCha
Posted: Monday, January 10, 2011 2:06:41 PM

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Well said kharrisma, that is why, through my twenties, I longed for and most often got much older men........the rest are just boys!
symes4u
Posted: Tuesday, January 11, 2011 10:03:15 PM

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As an older gentlemen I have found the supply of younger women is an ever increasing commodity. However the percentage of that number that want to do a geezer my age is an ever decreasing commodity with each year I add to my tenure on this here rock. So when opportunity knocks I ain't doing no survey of motivations. Life is too short.



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Posted: Tuesday, January 11, 2011 10:07:23 PM

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47 year old "gentleman" here.

First of all, this has never happened. If it did, my first thought would be she must be lost and wants to ask me for directions.
computergeek400
Posted: Wednesday, January 12, 2011 3:22:55 PM

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53 Yo gentleman here. I'm not sure I'd believe her. Although it has never happened to me. I'd assume she had too much to drink. I could be convinced she was serious, but I'd be asking her why she was interested in an 'old fart' :)

CG400
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Posted: Sunday, March 20, 2011 7:14:08 PM

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I am over twenty five, does that class as old? If a good looking eitheen year old came on to me, I would make very sure indeed she was over eighteen. Then I would wonder what on Earth her game was. I would check my wallet was still there, my car keys, and all sorts, suspecting some sort of set up or con. If you really want to get off with an older man, do not come on to him to strong all of a sudden. I am afraid you will have to make friends with him first, and be like a very good friend for about a hundred days. That's how long it will take to calm his suspicions, and for you pass some of his safety tests. Then you could ask him if he thinks age matters in a relationship, and questions of that sort. Then finally make your move. But please be careful, men can seem like the nicest men in the world, and invite you round for coffee. Be very careful about that word "coffee", it means sex.
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Posted: Tuesday, March 22, 2011 6:42:07 AM

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Eutopia wrote:
When you are..."approached" by a younger female, I mean young, but still of legal age, what are your thoughts on the matter?

Do you feel Flattered?
Do you think they're flirting with you because they're gold diggers?
Are you in that cliche' slump of thinking "is this really happening?!" over and over again?
Maybe all the blood in your body flow straight between your legs?
Or do you all think of something completely different?


I'd love to know, just incase I attempt to stray along the mature lines next time I'm on the prowl. ;D


All of those thoughts you mention above..run through your mind...sadly I'd probably be thinking...Oh I know what this is...it's a game, the young ladies gonna win £10/$10/10 other currency....for picking up the oldest geezer...

Perhaps in Eutopia it might be different....{hopeful sigh}

Fantastic post.
BicycleBum
Posted: Thursday, March 24, 2011 12:44:30 PM

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I'm 41 and last summer a girl in her early 20's offered me her phone number and asked if I would like to go out sometime. I politely declined. I have children that are about that age. I wouldn't feel comfortable dating someone that much younger than me.

Do you feel Flattered? Yes, I felt flattered.
Do you think they're flirting with you because they're gold diggers? No, I know her casually from the grocery store (she's one of the clerks).
Are you in that cliche' slump of thinking "is this really happening?!" over and over again? No.
Maybe all the blood in your body flow straight between your legs? No.
Or do you all think of something completely different? See above. Though I should have introduced her to my oldest son who is about her age.
tubby1961
Posted: Thursday, March 24, 2011 11:55:09 PM

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pb69 wrote:
Conny-sure wrote:
I imagine that any male, be he 20 to 90, would be flattered by any woman coming onto him - but of course; the older the guy, the younger the woman, the bigger the ego ...I suppose. Just take a look at which older men have the younger women on their arms ...and then evaluate their egotistical nature.


There is a "gentleman" that I know who is older than me who proudly dates girls just out of high school (whom he happily explains are just a few years older than his own daughter). I don't know how much the girls are getting out of the relationship, but he's clearly getting his ego stroked. I don't know what their attraction might be towards him, either. He's grossly obese and balding and dresses relatively poorly.

I will admit to a smidgen of jealousy for my part, but I'd also like to know what causes them to be attracted to him. Think


It looks like there is hope for me yet as I fit the description in red. I personally would be wondering if it was a dare or something if a very young lady started to chat me up as it would be a first for me, being chatted up by a young woman that is.


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fifer382
Posted: Sunday, December 30, 2012 11:43:29 AM

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Feel and hope oh yes love teaching younger women to fuck, could maybe even learn a trick or two.
If old enough cannot see the problem, age is only a number.
JohnC
Posted: Tuesday, January 08, 2013 10:22:54 AM

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I don't look my age, so not only yes... but hell yes. ;) Young turns me on... but so does all ages. LOL

JWillie
Posted: Monday, March 18, 2013 10:03:40 PM

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Flattered but married and faithful.
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Posted: Monday, March 18, 2013 11:12:02 PM

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PussPuss wrote:
maybe everyone who has posted has made very fair points but what about seeing past the age thing and just enjoying the fact that here is someone interested in whatever makes you 'you'?
if she feels there's connection worth exploring and possibly developing why not 'go with it'? two people sharing time and space together is not to be taken as anything other than just that
until it is mutually felt and further progress is desirable. altho' i do understand why people have reservations, just go a bit slower than you normally do and enjoy wherever it takes you.
well, that's my opinion. feel free to ignore it! :)



I agree completely. Couldn't have said it better.
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