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Posted: Thursday, January 06, 2011 7:49:10 PM

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Ladies of lush please help...
What's a bigger turn on. When a man cooks a nice dinner at home with candles and flowers or a night out at a fancy restaurant being waited on hand and foot???
Lisa
Posted: Thursday, January 06, 2011 7:57:50 PM

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I'm not really into fancy restaurants. I'm a simple person, in many ways!

In the past when I've been at work and he's had the day off, he's had dinner waiting for me when I've walked in the door. That was always a nice surprise.

I much prefer casual over being waited on. The idea of someone standing beside our table playing the violin while we dine would make me want to use my fork for things other than eating.
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Posted: Thursday, January 06, 2011 8:10:37 PM

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Definitely a nice dinner at home. I can dress however I want or not at all.
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Posted: Thursday, January 06, 2011 8:16:56 PM

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I prefer having a nice cooked meal at home, flowers and candles are optional. I can still dress up or down and feel more comfortable.
The effort and attention to detail that my guy has gone to and created in a meal is way sexy and trumps going out to a fancy restaurant.
I like being taken out to dinner but I prefer places that are cozy, warm, inviting, intimate and the vibe is laid back.
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Posted: Thursday, January 06, 2011 8:36:37 PM

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I just love a fancy restaurant with great food and wine, with elegance and service.

But nothing equals a man that cooks for you.

Even if it is not perfect, but the effort shows there is an interest in you other than what is between your legs.

Movies and Television always shows a man cooking for his lady preparing Pasta. Not always true, my man could cook at a level near that of a celebrity chef and there are many other men out there with equal
skills
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Posted: Thursday, January 06, 2011 9:14:26 PM

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Ladies, THANK YOU!!! For the good advice.
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Posted: Thursday, January 06, 2011 11:23:04 PM

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To have a man cook for you...is just perfect, regardless of what is cooked...the food tastes so much better when made especially for you...that would certainly melt my heart...and just think of the dessert *giggles*
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Posted: Thursday, January 06, 2011 11:37:14 PM

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A nice meal cooked just for me by a nice man.
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Posted: Friday, January 07, 2011 1:16:06 AM

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nice cooked meal, it adds love into the food:) and its cute and romantic, and completly personal<3
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Posted: Friday, January 07, 2011 4:12:07 AM

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Home cooked meal!

While I like fancy restaurants, I sometimes feel a bit out of place! And how lovely is it for someone to go to the effort to cook for you!

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Posted: Friday, January 07, 2011 8:15:11 AM

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There is nothing like the personal touch. Much prefer when someone takes the time to do something nice for me!! So home cooked meal for sure. And it will pretty much guarantee that I will supply the dessert!!!
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Posted: Friday, January 07, 2011 8:43:13 AM

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my man knows how to cook one dish (taco dip) : ) it is a treat for sure and i second that i'll take care of the desert no problem : )

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Posted: Friday, January 07, 2011 9:52:33 AM

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PartyGirlMolly wrote:
Definitely a nice dinner at home. I can dress however I want or not at all.


I couldn't have said it better myself Molly xxxxx
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Posted: Friday, January 07, 2011 10:31:43 AM

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RockhardRides wrote:
Ladies of lush please help...
What's a bigger turn on. When a man cooks a nice dinner at home with candles and flowers or a night out at a fancy restaurant being waited on hand and foot???


Its the thought that my partner puts forward that is a turn on. Life tends to fluctuate and so does my needs and desires. A lover that can bend, move and adapt with me is the biggest turn on.
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Posted: Friday, January 07, 2011 11:44:27 AM

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Dinner at home! Its more modest, less showy offy, 'look how much money i have' and shows he's actually put thought, effort and attention in, not paid someone else to do it for him



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Posted: Friday, January 07, 2011 9:45:29 PM

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It shows so much more love and care if he puts out the effort himself, whereas it's just signing a credit card slip otherwise. He cooks for me now and again, and even if it's not the best cooking, the love he puts into it is the best sauce in the world! I think he's actually wanting to learn more stuff in the kitchen so he can make our little one grilled cheeses, mac and cheese and other kid favorites!

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Posted: Saturday, January 08, 2011 1:04:52 AM

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Wow, am I the lone dissenter? The only woman who would rather dress up, have a nice drink at the bar while we wait for the table- so long as he can order for me of course, then enjoy great service and food for the next hour or two? If he picks a decent restaurant, then good service and at least decent food is predictable, as opposed to his cooking, which will probably suck, then I'll have to pretend to like it until I can either wash it down with whatever wine he's got on hand or sneak away to mix in some mouth wash.

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Posted: Saturday, January 08, 2011 1:23:52 AM

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One over the other?? I'd have to go for a nice meal in the comfort of our own home. My man is a great cook and he wooed me with that part of himself when we first met. Was so sexy and sweet, in my opinion :). We both share the duty though, as far as that goes these days, being that we both work.

However, an occasional night out, just us, at a table for two in a nice restaurant is a great escape from the norm. We do this about once a month or so.
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Posted: Saturday, January 08, 2011 6:11:24 AM

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I must admit I am pleasantly surprised! I would never have predicted the Home-Coocked outcome in this day and age of conveniance and a world awash in cheap money. Is it just that I misjudge human kind, or have we writers ( and appreciaters of writers) just the same values?
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Posted: Monday, January 10, 2011 12:07:18 PM

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dinner at home with candles please
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Posted: Monday, January 10, 2011 3:04:28 PM

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My family is in restaurant business. So any break from that is good. If a man is sexy and can cook then he just got sexier! :D

ChaCha
Posted: Monday, January 10, 2011 7:00:58 PM

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I fell in love with my bf over food and we love to cook....at home can be really sexy and fun. BUT, I love to try new food and new places, I really think it depends on the occasion.
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Posted: Monday, January 10, 2011 7:33:08 PM

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LadyX wrote:
Wow, am I the lone dissenter? The only woman who would rather dress up, have a nice drink at the bar while we wait for the table- so long as he can order for me of course, then enjoy great service and food for the next hour or two? If he picks a decent restaurant, then good service and at least decent food is predictable, as opposed to his cooking, which will probably suck, then I'll have to pretend to like it until I can either wash it down with whatever wine he's got on hand or sneak away to mix in some mouth wash.

"Sir? Madam? Your table is ready."


Sweet, sweet music.


umm no you're not. Ruth's Chris here we come...and ill take the 21 year old scotch too...mmm thank you ;)
Guest
Posted: Monday, January 10, 2011 8:52:07 PM

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ahhh, littlemiss and lady, my hedonist lushies.

Live to eat damn it, don't eat to live. Well, at least once in a while. Linen table cloth, martini straight up, conversations buzzing around, hors d'oeuvres served while choosing a nice bottle for the meal. The only thing better, I guess, would be good home grilled BBQ during a great party.

Kimasa
Posted: Friday, January 14, 2011 4:36:05 PM

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A meal at home, be it a nice dinner, BBQ in the summer or breakfast in bed after taking a shower (smoked salmon and scrambled eggs with a bucks fizz followed by lots of dirty sex) He or she makes the breakfast, not me

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sexywife104
Posted: Friday, January 14, 2011 11:58:15 PM

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fancy restaurant, without a doubt.

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Posted: Wednesday, January 19, 2011 5:13:35 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:
There is nothing like the personal touch. Much prefer when someone takes the time to do something nice for me!! So home cooked meal for sure. And it will pretty much guarantee that I will supply the dessert!!!


Oh Nikki you will always be the dessert even at a Broadway Hot Dog Stand!!!
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Posted: Wednesday, January 19, 2011 5:28:33 PM

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RockhardRides wrote:
Ladies of lush please help...
What's a bigger turn on. When a man cooks a nice dinner at home with candles and flowers or a night out at a fancy restaurant being waited on hand and foot???


When a man cooks me a nice dinner at home with candles and flowers (and lube and dildos)... yeah, far preferable to fancy dining. Besides, who says I can't be waited on hand and foot at home?


AngelHeart01
Posted: Wednesday, January 19, 2011 6:03:39 PM

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If a man were to cook the dinner ... that's a turn in of itself. When the candles, flowers and wine are added ... it's an extra bonus.
When dessert is done with imagination or passionately .. or wild and sloppy ... THAT'S the LOTTERY baby ♥
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Posted: Tuesday, February 08, 2011 4:14:37 PM

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TBH my vote is on something more active like dancing but dont waste all the energy save it for home ;) LOL
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