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This might give away the fact that I'm way behind here, but why would you ask him to do things that you don't actually want him to do?
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Catnip wrote:lafayettemister wrote:Catnip wrote:Why do you do what I ask you to do, when you know I want you the way you are?
Is one thing I would ask. I only got one question? I'll throw in another one...
Why wont you let me change you? Ok... I didn't really plan on chiming in yet, but here is one of those guy/girl things. You say.... "...you know I want you the way you are". Great stuff love that. But then you say "Why won't you let me change you?" That is part of our confusion as guys... which do you mean? Do you like me the way I am or do you want to change me? Because the two seem contradictory to me. Well, the both things go hand in hand. I want to change the way he's changing to fulfill my everydream. See I want him the way he is. Not the way I tell him to be. But he can't help but do all the things I tell him to do, cause that's the way he is and I don't want that.. No wonder I'm never satisfied. I have absolutely no idea what you just said. lol
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Cause I'm crazy..
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I kinda get what catnip means. But in the very nature of a relationship where each partner is committed to the other, lies inherent change to please one another. While catnip is actively seeking to be pleased, the 'side effect' is that her partner is changing the way he is (or was). The way he was is what made her initially fall for him, so now she wants to change the change caused by her own appearance and longings. This vicious circle perfectly shows the human nature! 
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thepainter wrote:I kinda get what catnip means. But in the very nature of a relationship where each partner is committed to the other, lies inherent change to please one another. While catnip is actively seeking to be pleased, the 'side effect' is that her partner is changing the way he is (or was). The way he was is what made her initially fall for him, so now she wants to change the change caused by her own appearance and longings. This vicious circle perfectly shows the human nature!  Oh, nice way to put my mind. This could indeed be what I meant. I'm not sure though...
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The number one thing that baffles me is... why do they wait so long before they cut their toe nails?
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What baffles me, is why guys tell you one thing, then like 10 mins later they say something totally different that hurts you. Then they come back and apologize and say they were wrong. Then they do it all over again a few times.
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smoothwetkitty wrote:What baffles me, is why guys tell you one thing, then like 10 mins later they say something totally different that hurts you. Then they come back and apologize and say they were wrong. Then they do it all over again a few times. because most guys are either idiots or cowards, gives the rest of us a bad rep.
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Kimasa wrote:The number one thing that baffles me is... why do they wait so long before they cut their toe nails? Three answers to that are: 1) We don't think about it much until they start catching on our socks. 2) We're lazy about that kind of thing. 3) We like to pretend we are velociraptors with those toe-claw things.
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smoothwetkitty wrote:What baffles me, is why guys tell you one thing, then like 10 mins later they say something totally different that hurts you. Then they come back and apologize and say they were wrong. Then they do it all over again a few times. Because they are using throwaway lines. Just saying something so that you will think they are conversing with you. Since they didn't care much about what they said the first time, they don't remember it, hence saying something different the next time.
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MMonroe wrote:"Why its so easy for some guys to lie and hurt someone they are ment to love and who obviously adores them"
THIS!!!!! ^^^^^^^^
And also, how they can mess girls around for weeks and not even care, yet expect us to go crawling back and worship his cock when it suits him best. Gggggrrrrrrrrr!! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Why do guys do that? It's a total mindfuck!! 
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sammielove wrote:MMonroe wrote:"Why its so easy for some guys to lie and hurt someone they are ment to love and who obviously adores them"
THIS!!!!! ^^^^^^^^
And also, how they can mess girls around for weeks and not even care, yet expect us to go crawling back and worship his cock when it suits him best. Gggggrrrrrrrrr!! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Why do guys do that? It's a total mindfuck!! like i said earlier, some guys are thoughtless asses who think with the wrong head
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Why is it that some guys are super sweet and nice before they get you, but become total douchebags when you're together?! Oh wait that's just me, I somehow manage to find all the assholes...
Ooh one famous thing I hear is "you deserve so much better, I don't wanna hurt you..." or or "I don't wanna ruin our friendship." ugh if only I could get 100% honest answer to those questions..
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That they cant read a ruler! They all think it reads 12 inches!
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What baffles me is how they can just fall asleep within minutes of their first orgasm. It just revs me up and makes me want more and they are snoring.
As far as all of the moods and personality stuff...guys are just guys and I don't let their words or actions define how I see myself.
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Sw33tAng3l wrote:Why is it that some guys are super sweet and nice before they get you, but become total douchebags when you're together?! Oh wait that's just me, I somehow manage to find all the assholes...
Ooh one famous thing I hear is "you deserve so much better, I don't wanna hurt you..." or or "I don't wanna ruin our friendship." ugh if only I could get 100% honest answer to those questions.. it's a simple answer, they act nice and caring to get you then once they do they revert to their real personality. i'm sure there are plenty of girls who do the same, mind you, not that either way is acceptable
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PartyGirlMolly wrote:What baffles me is how they can just fall asleep within minutes of their first orgasm. It just revs me up and makes me want more and they are snoring.
As far as all of the moods and personality stuff...guys are just guys and I don't let their words or actions define how I see myself. Because there done with all the stuff that males are made to do: 1) They have hunted/gathered (I'm hoping he bought you dinner first.) 2) They have found shelter (Inside, in bed.) 3) They have mated. Done, done, and done. ZZZZZZZzzzzzzz....  
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How guys can shoot hoops, hit a tiny baseball with a bat, have great aim with a gun, and brag about their hand-eye coordination, but they still can't make it into the toilet.
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ChelseaSmile wrote:How guys can shoot hoops, hit a tiny baseball with a bat, have great aim with a gun, and brag about their hand-eye coordination, but they still can't make it into the toilet. now that's a thinker, it's ok i like a challenge :)
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It's not baffling... What girls don't understand, is that there is a man code; My hearing is impared, while holding TV remotes I like to go around and flip up all the toilet seat lids Leaving little collections of dishes around the house is much fun Collecting "sorry I forgot your" anniversary, birthday etc. cards is a must! Guys also should go into the washer and dryer to remove random socks and stockings, and throw them away Televised sports, IS almost the most important thing in the world sheesh I don't pretend to understand anything about the hair salon, shoes or oprah ROTFLMAO
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