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shadowcat
Posted: Sunday, February 20, 2011 5:32:54 AM

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I have recently made a lot of new friends through the site. I an 32 and they are all younger (20's). They say that older women are sexy and hotter than women their own age. I wondered if this was really true.
I'm not talking big age gaps just the whole concept of the male being the younger person. The traditional Toyboy i suppose.
Catnip
Posted: Sunday, February 20, 2011 4:57:05 PM

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Interesting question.

nicola
Posted: Sunday, February 20, 2011 5:05:19 PM

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I moved this to the correct forum icon_smile
Catnip
Posted: Sunday, February 20, 2011 5:07:32 PM

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nicola wrote:
I moved this to the correct forum icon_smile

Oh, no wonder I thought I was the one being lost for a second.

shadowcat
Posted: Sunday, February 20, 2011 5:58:06 PM

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nicola wrote:
I moved this to the correct forum icon_smile

Thanks had a blonde moment plus computer melt down (i'm sure its male! )
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Posted: Monday, February 21, 2011 2:05:41 AM

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I think it's more the idea that with age comes confidence*. A trait that is as attractive to men as it is to women.

*not an idea I necessarily agree with

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Posted: Monday, February 21, 2011 4:35:25 AM

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I would have t say depends on the guy I'm 32 and I have always been turned on by the thought of an older woman even now cant explain why but I think whey kid secretly fantasises about getting it on with a milf at some point or a mates mom or teacher thats my thoughts
Orgasmic
Posted: Monday, February 21, 2011 8:05:24 AM

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Age is basically just numbers, it's the maturity level which is important , the reason younger { I mean the matured ones } prefer older { read matured women } is simple, they want someone who knows what a man wants, it's the experience and the grace which charms them
Magical_felix
Posted: Monday, February 21, 2011 8:28:38 AM

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For me it's very very rare to be attracted to an older woman than me. It does happen from time to time but it's rare. It might be that generally I don't attract older women either so I just don't even pay attention.

Also you have to remember the bullshit factor on a site like this. You can say you are 90 years old and stuck in a wheel chair in an assisted living community and you will still get 20 year old studs claiming that you are just their type. It's bullshit.



shadowcat
Posted: Monday, February 21, 2011 8:35:31 AM

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Magical_felix wrote:
For me it's very very rare to be attracted to an older woman than me. It does happen from time to time but it's rare. It might be that generally I don't attract older women either so I just don't even pay attention.

Also you have to remember the bullshit factor on a site like this. You can say you are 90 years old and stuck in a wheel chair in an assisted living community and you will still get 20 year old studs claiming that you are just their type. It's bullshit.


this is more the answer i was expecting.
I have a toyboy of my own at home. we met when he was 19, 10 years ago and i wondered how widespread this was.
lafayettemister
Posted: Monday, February 21, 2011 8:40:33 AM

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My attraction to a woman is no longer dependant on her age. If I like what I see, then I like it. Just on Lush I know several women much younger and several that are older that I find to be extremely attractive. Both mentally and physically.





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Posted: Tuesday, February 22, 2011 7:33:16 AM

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In general there are no set rules. Some men prefer older, younger or same age, or all of the above. It's such a mix of preferences one can't generalise.

And as Felix said, on here, I expect a large majority of the male users will say anything to women of any age to get another friend add, or have some cyber chat!
Glastokink11
Posted: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 1:58:45 AM

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Whilst i wouldn't say all men prefer older women, i think they like the idea of it, the idea of a more experienced woman and they want to try it i agree that on here alot of people will talk wank, but they'rejust probably living out a fantasy, but come on what guy hasn't seen an older woman and thought "mmmm yes i would!!". personally think its pretty natural to like an older woman.
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Posted: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 2:03:56 PM

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I don't really care about their age, as much as do they know what they are doing. They don't need to be a master at anything and had a million partners, but I don't want a virgin that knows nothing either. If she's had a couple of guys and learned a lot, then that's perfect. So age really doesn't play into it.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, February 26, 2011 8:49:59 AM

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I like older women, actually much older is really fun, however I do not prefer them over any other woman. I like them all. Just that an older woman knows what she likes and wants and how to get it. I really like them if they are a Teacher, Secretary or Nurse..oh my a Nurse...
Fenton
Posted: Saturday, February 26, 2011 4:26:18 PM

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I prefer the woman to be my age or younger.
TheCritic
Posted: Sunday, February 27, 2011 5:17:13 PM

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First time I've been with a woman over a year older than me, and can say it feels no different apart from the obvious individuality of the person. The only thing that reminds me is that she calls me her cub fairly often. :P

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BicycleBum
Posted: Sunday, February 27, 2011 9:47:58 PM

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Depends on the person more than the age factor. If the person jives with you, doesn't matter if they're older or younger.
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Posted: Monday, February 28, 2011 6:08:01 PM

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When I was young and my wife and I were into swinging, every single partner/couple we found attractive was 10+ years older than us (we were swingers in our 20's and early 30's). Now that I'm in my mid-fifties, I find younger ladies more attractive.
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Posted: Tuesday, March 01, 2011 5:29:54 AM

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Like everything it has to do with the personal preference of what turns you on. Here it is basically one specific type of women, in this case older(or mature), in the same way that some guy like short women and other guys like big women. It's all a personal preference.

If you go into why, I would suspect it has something to do with when we were teens. Every guy has either had a hot teacher or a friend with a really hot mom that he has fantasised about. As we get older, we think more about experience, and also more that odds are women in their late 30's and 40's are very often divorced, last years they may have had a pretty boring sex life and now want to experience and experiment with new things or simply just relive what they did before their sex life became missionary 5 minuters without foreplay, and they want it as soon as they can before they become "too old"(of there is such a thing) to really be sexually active.

Of course, this is just my theory and I need the other guys in here to confirm or deny my view.dontknow

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Posted: Sunday, March 20, 2011 8:19:13 AM

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younger or older a sexy lady that steals your attention is always worth attentin. Yes even older!
Guest
Posted: Sunday, March 20, 2011 1:02:56 PM

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I love dancing in gold shiny micro briefs for women decades older than me. Female lap dancers dance for older, uglier, and larger waistlined men. The age gap is such a taboo, and you imagine the appreciation and the "hunger". That is a sexual aspect though. You dance for them, but you wouldn't date them. Some types of men in their teens or twenties would like older women, but not too much older. An experienced, knowledgable tiger-ess type.
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Posted: Sunday, April 10, 2011 3:02:40 PM

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I do... and find them a turn on,,,,,
Squirthero
Posted: Sunday, April 10, 2011 3:07:51 PM

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I would say (although im a bloke and I see we get bad press allot on sites) that you mght want to re adjust things a little. In that I can quite imgine that many guys will promote thmselves as much younger than they actually are. Therefore you might find that you are talking to people of similar or older in age more requently than you think. Sure we guys like older women for many attributes, but let no overboard huh..
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Guest
Posted: Sunday, April 10, 2011 6:33:14 PM

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I dont know about this. I get hit on mor than my mom when we go out for drinks together.
BicycleBum
Posted: Sunday, April 10, 2011 10:25:37 PM

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Why not?
Guest
Posted: Monday, April 11, 2011 4:53:15 AM

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Yes, I very much prefer older woman. They are less likely to play games and are more likely to tell you what they are really thinking and want.
Wholelottarosie
Posted: Monday, April 11, 2011 7:48:51 AM

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Let's be honest, you have to say what it is you prefer to do with us. You don't want to date, take us home to meet mum and dad, or marry us and ask us to have your babies.

Or maybe since I'm on the guy's side of the Forum, all of that was implied in the word "prefer".
SallyRAnne
Posted: Saturday, September 10, 2011 2:18:57 AM

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Younger men certainly enjoy time with me
SirSpanksAlot80
Posted: Saturday, September 10, 2011 10:27:18 AM

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GREAT question :) I have been asked this question by a friend I was chatting with once she has some years on me n I'm 31. I didn't have an answer right away but thought about it n THIS is my thought. I think it's cuz (PLEASE don't take this the wrong way ladies:)) The older they are the more experience they have & they know what they want. You can teach use youngsters how to please you correctly, I for one want to learn more then I already know. I've personally never been with an older lady but it does turn me on SO that means A LOT of MILF porn hehe.
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