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Paige42985 wrote: why are males so obsessed with anal sex. Most men I I know love it and I have to wonder why. That is the one act I refuse to do! It hurts and it is something I won't do! I am just curious Not all men....have never done it...thought about it...but never have even asked my partner..."hey let's try this!"
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cherryrebel wrote:Because secretly they have gay tendancies Damn Cherry, you found me out! lol
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Where did you get that idea from? They aren't. Only about a fifth of men are interested in it, not obsessed.
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Some women had a bad experience the first time and a reluctant to try again. Some guys to love anal sex, but so do some of us girls. As others have said lots of lube is necessary and you need a gentle and considerate partner.
You first timers or those who are willing to revisit a less than wonderful experience may want to be in the control position, therefore as you relax you will be able to accept penetration as you body is most able to allow.
I love anal and if the guy does not suggest it I most likely will. Not every time but more often than not. I like it rough and hard and times I think I can not get be all that I want. Adding a mini Vib to use on your clit will add to the effect
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VanGogh wrote:MMonroe wrote:If a guy can stick his cock in it, chances are he will omg .... laughing!! Good one!!
and .... as my friend E has repeated ... "Unless you're relaxed and well lubed" you will NEVER enjoy it!!
Van  This just made me crack up. Nicely put. For myself - not obsessed at all. It was the missus that asked to try it the first time, and since then we have followed da rules and thoroughly enjoy it on the occasions we indulge. Pussy is still my favourite though.
"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element "If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
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I have never had anal. :( Want to try though.
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Very tight! My wife decided she wanted to try it at one point, and I was a little curious myself. Initially she said it was painful and she couldn't keep going. Then she decided she wanted to try another time and with a little preperation and some lube it ended up being amazing! It's not something you do everytime, but occasionally can be an awesome orgasm for both!
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Paige42985 wrote: why are males so obsessed with anal sex. Most men I I know love it and I have to wonder why. That is the one act I refuse to do! It hurts and it is something I won't do! I am just curious Hi, as in previous post (Re Fisting) not all guys are obsessed with anal...well this one isn't..so I think that qualifies for "not all guys" lol As is the theme in many posts here, it's all about choice, if the people involved are ok with it then that is fine and dandy. if one party isn't keen, then its for those parties to discuss and work out a compromise. Intersting post! with lots of good well informed advice.
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Cant stand anal. The last thing I want is shit all over my beautiful cock. LOL
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yea, i am really obsessed with the ass hole because it is so tight and grabs my hard tool so fast....lubing the hole for a while is also so exciting before the digs....
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To me I think the reason that guys like it is bc of the tightness but I'm just speaking for my bf lol idk about others. I have had anal sex before and have had some pain but like others sd with enough lube it can be so pleasurable ;) I've came many times from anal I wouldn't do it all the time but I would do it again
[[size=8]I'm a little sick and twisted but I wouldn't have it any other way ;) [/size
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it's a nice feeling put your hard dick to a tight ass, getting harder and harder when in and out of it  another thing safe to cum on ass than pussy 
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I don't care for the idea. I've never done it and don't find the idea appealing.
On the other hand, pun intended, offer me a vagina, and I'll happily play in it all day long and far into the night.
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ive always joked about it, but wanted to try it. its weird though cuz im good with the main entrance or a bj, maybe its just the idea of the forbidden... like when you see a do not touch sign and cant help yourself
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Because it is exciting and different. If the woman enjoys it, it can be pleasurable to both, but sometimes it can be painful to the woman which should make it a turn-off for a real partner. Most guys just want to try it because it is considered taboo.
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Don't like anal that much - little picky on smell ...
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I dont understand how people can have such massive different experiences in this, me and my g/f have tried it twice, once i came, the other just didnt work, said it hurt too much.
However she loves having something in there a little way, like some booty beads or a finger, makes her orgasm quicker.
What advice does anyone have to get her to try it again, a the moment theres just no way were doing it she says.
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When done right between two people with passion and sexual chemistry in an erotic lust filled state it never, ever hurts. It is beautiful, sensuous, extremely intimate and another way of expressing a couple's love, trust and passion in a way that only two people with a deep understanding and trust in each other can communicate.
Ps. The reason some women and men love it is because it gives the most direct access to a woman's G-spot and a male's prostate resulting in some of the most powerful orgasms they have ever had!
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My boyfriend and I go for anal at times. Fortunately, anal never hurt for me. But at the same time, it wasn't something I find stimulating for myself. I just enjoy the fact that my partner finds it pleasurable.
When I asked him why he likes anal, he says it's about feeling of power and domination over the woman. I'm still baffled by it though.
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whatever... i am gonna do it for my guy.... whatever he says..
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Not obsessed..... but if you ask me about licking ^^her^^ pussy then I am absolutely obsessed......
Rubber Ducky your the one, you make my life so much fun
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i am curious lol
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MMonroe wrote:If a guy can stick his cock in it, chances are he will Amen to that!
You must give up the life that you had planned, in order to live the life that is waiting for you..
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thesilkyknot wrote:whatever... i am gonna do it for my guy.... whatever he says.. AAWWW how sweet, you'll do it ......FOR ME!!!!!! LOL
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aalily wrote:MMonroe wrote:If a guy can stick his cock in it, chances are he will Amen to that! Not so, that is a stereotype....... Not all men are like that......
Rubber Ducky your the one, you make my life so much fun
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As I always say to my friends, the vagina is designed to take a penis. I think anal sex between heterosexual people is unnecessary and I do not enjoy watching it or reading about it. Nor can I imagine ever wanting to do it.
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Yes, I'm obsessed by it. When I first got into anal sex it was very taboo. Getting a woman into bed was one thing, but getting to take to the next level as in anal sex was a completely different animal.
For me, it's the ultimate sex act for her to let me fuck her ass. It shows me she trusts me not to hurt her. I've had lovers tell me they weren't into it or had a bad experience with it in the past. Once I got them past the negative thoughts they had, they were begging for it.
Yes, the back door is tighter and great to fuck. But for many it's still taboo. What I'm surprised about is that the younger generations have experienced it and do it more often than us older folks. Although, it's the older generations that seem to enjoy it more...
It's All Good! :-)
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I know i shouldn't judge it because i have not tried it but...
But before i explain let me say this first, I am a very sensual guy. I love to feel connected with someone. AND NO I AM NOT GAY! I would rather eat my own vomit than have a guy do something to me or me him. I think it is wrong and disgusting.
That being said, I do think anal is absolutely awful. Something I never want to try.
For one, I do not see how it can be pleasurable. 2ndly, it seems like it would be too tight. 3rdly, i prefer (but dont always follow this) positions where i can look at my partner. Another thing it makes me feel gay, which is a major turnoff. I would much rather have regular sex with my partner.
The only good thing i would enjoy about anal sex, is that i wouldn't have to wear a condom/wouldn't have to worry about getting the girl pregnant.
I think it is utterly disgusting and I will never want to do it.
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first: it is different hole to be fill in second: it is nice to be inside in a tight ass third: it is a great cum inside the ass
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