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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 5/17/2011
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I cum very fast, within 30seconds at times LOL  when i wank how can i extend it? at times i get wet very fast too, even before girl has grabbed my cock...
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Practice practice practice....
Start with a looser grip. Stroke until you feel things getting a little too good, then slow down or stop. Yes, it's mean and yes, it's not easy to do, but you want to get a feel for what the edge feels like and learn to step back from it. With practice, you'll be able to control the intensity and keep from going over the edge when you're masturbating. Once you get the stamina up, try going with tighter grips, faster strokes, different sensations and learn to control your arousal under a range of conditions. Note that this is all solo practice. Now, when you're with a partner, the key will be to do the same thing and back away from the edge when you feel it coming on. It's more difficult, of course but, you will have the advantage of lots of fun bits to distract yourself with and can use that for control. If you just focus on how you're feeling, it's probably all over, so focus on her (good advice in general).
The simpler and more common approach is to 'empty the chamber' before going out with a girl. The second (and subsequent) orgasms take more effort and generally last longer.
Have fun!!! (just not too much fun ;) )
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Rank: Constant Gardener
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It is probably just the twisted, hedonistic pervert in me showing here, but I'm curious what part of you is becoming wet, before some woman grabs your cock.
 The best thing you can do for your fellow,
next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 5/17/2011
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LOL wet as in my dick gets wet, i think its called pre cum or sumfin? boxers and all gets touch wet loool
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Rank: Alpha Blonde
Joined: 2/17/2010
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Yank down on your balls, pinch your perineum (between your scrotum and your asshole), or squeeze just below the head of your dick. And yes, those are actual techniques that have been suggested as helping to delay male orgasm... I'm not just giving mean tips to be a beyotch (as tempting as it might be).
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Rank: Cogent Sensualist
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Yup, pulling down on the balls works. Just hard to do when you're fucking or getting oral or even hand pleasure from a partner.
Good luck whatever you decide to try.
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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 6/14/2010
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Location: Sydney
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I follow two procedures, first is to masturbate around 2 hours before sex with my misses,
second one is to take it slowly when you push it in try to push it all and keep it in and just move your hip on top of her in the missionary position keep like this for around three to five minutes and then switch to the woman on top position and do the same let her take it all in and just let her dance on it without taking it in and out, both of you will enjoy it and it will last longer.
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Joined: 5/23/2010
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Location: United States
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I focus on "her" by making sure she pleased by enjoying as many orgasms as possible before I have one. That's the mental side of things. Dancing Doll touched upon the physical things you can do.
It's All Good! :-)
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Joined: 10/27/2009
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Location: United States
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Just pretend like you are fucking Rosie O'Donnell. Problem Solved.
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 3/14/2011
Posts: 283
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masturbate first is the best solution to lessen the free cum and same with to prolong to cum so quick
mrgay
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