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Do you think its okay to watch porn as a couple? do you think it can have negative and positive effects on the relationship? let me know 
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sarawr wrote:Do you think its okay to watch porn as a couple? do you think it can have negative and positive effects on the relationship? let me know totally beneficial and rewarding as long as no one gets too weird about it, and ladies you know what I'm talking abut here. Porn stars are fantasies, they are not reality... kinda like Lush. Watch, learn, enjoy and get off!
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I've watched porn with a couple of ladies in my life. When I was younger my lady friend wanted to do everything we saw on the video. That was pretty cool. My ex would watch it but it did nothing for her , she would always end up going down on me, and shortly after i wouldn't be watching anymore. The real thing is always better. She liked to make them more than watch them.
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I had a husband who collected and could not get off without it. In those days I was 25 years old and probably was hotter than most of the girls we were watching. I watched and learned a lot then and more since. Later, I found out there is lots of kinds of porn. More than the women bashing stuff he loved. It really wasn't any one act but that all the scenarios contained sexual abuse. And so, I was eventually turned off until I searched and found the lighter porn a huge turn on and of course there is so much to learn from the study. The Man I'm with now uses porn alone every once in awhile, and as well, I do too. On occasion, he will watch a man fuck a girl while I blow him which is good because he gets a little more aggressive with his selfishness at these times, which I like. It does my heart good to see his 60 yrs excited like he was a kid : ) About a year after we were together when his grandson came to live with us, he gathered up his little collection and through it out stating he did not need it now that he has the real thing anyway. That's what I'm talking about. I love this Man and he loves me : ) sweet sweet
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I've always loved porn. I consider it kind of like sexual research. Watching it as a couple has been part of most of my relationships. Even now, there are still things I'll watch and go... wow, I've never seen that done before. Or hmm... I wonder what that would be like. Now if you know me and my stories, you'll appreciate how obscenely dirty some of the porn I've been watching these days must be if it still has an element of shock value for me.  But since the dynamics of sexuality interests me as a whole, I can't imagine not wanting to watch porn. And if you have a good sexual connection with someone, why wouldn't you want to watch it together and incorporate it into your own fantasies or sex lives? I've never felt intimidated by porn or the objectification of these women. For the most part it's a fantasy. I actually did play with a real porn star once (a fairly well known one). To be honest, I didn't think it was all that great anyway. But then she wasn't really my type. It was just something I did with my boyfriend at the time who was desperate for a threesome and the opportunity just came up kind of unexpectedly. Even bringing her from (his) fantasy into our reality as a couple didn't really unnerve me very much. I think I objectified her just as much as he did. Overall, I think as long as you're sexually confident in yourself and your connection with your partner, porn can enhance a relationship. I don't see it as a negative thing unless you have a partner that's addicted to it.
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i love watching porn with girl friends. a big turn on. makes them freaks in bed
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We LOVE watching porn together! Have for many years and it never gets old, just keeps getting better and better!
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as long as both are happy watching it then yeah can be great.......can inspire and excite
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As long as both are watching it freely and both get a bit turned on then I think its great.
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Porn with girlfreinds rox... they turn into raving nymphos and go for oscars and do the works... lol
everyone likes porn, they just don't admit it..
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I think every couple should experiment with filming themselves while they are having sex. Then force themselves to watch the results.
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WellMadeMale wrote:I think every couple should experiment with filming themselves while they are having sex. Then force themselves to watch the results. This would allow more people to have appreciation for the art of pornography. Its not as easy as it might seem at first glance! Personally I do love me some good dirty porn whether its starring me or not. I have yet to meet a red-blooded man that wouldn't want to hold my hand and eat popcorn while we watch "Night of the Giving Head". It's so much better than "The Notebook". Giggles. xx B.
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Absolutely!!!
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Watching porn together helps share fantasies. It lets you show your partner "see, that's what I had in mind", or at least give you a context in which to better describe your fantasy, "well, like that but....". Even if it's generic and neither one is sharing a fantasy, it can be interesting to see the ideas that come up like "hmmm, I never thought that would work for me but, things certainly seem to be stirring here". You can't beat the fact that touching your partner and having them touch you during the movie is so much better than watching alone.
I think that the fear is that you'll be 'outed' somehow. That your partner will see something on the screen (say anal) and assume that's what you want. More threatening still is if you find yourself aroused by something unexpected (say clown sex or something) and your partner finds out. But a good partnership involves communication and exploration so, if you have that, the porn is just the means to a particular end.
Break open some wine (or other libation of choice), dim the lights, get naked, and go for it!
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Before engaging in our nightly sessions (YES, I said nightly) we bathe together and I put on a dab of a light scented fragrance perfume which always turned him on. Often it was a masturbation only night. I had a good library of porn videos I liked to watch when I was alone. This night I had a new one entitled "The Masseuse". I watched it as soon as it arrived so I knew what my husband's reaction would be.
I turned down the sheets before we got into bed and told him this was to be one of our special "Cum with me" masturbation nights and I had a new video for us to masturbate to. We propped up a few pillows and I turned on the video. Of course, as you can guess he was already semi-hard. Aren't men always when they know we are?
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She said, "Hello, I'm Samantha, is this your first time here?" He said, "Yes, it's my first time for a massage too". She said, "I'm sure you'll enjoy it. You will be with me for about thirty minutes so just relax and enjoy it". She stared from his legs and slowly progressed upward. She skipped his buttocks and moved to his back. She then said, "Relax, you're way too tense".
However, she could tell by his almost silent moans he was becoming aroused. Finally she raised the towel and said, "It's time for you to turn over now so I can do your front side".
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As he gently squeezed her breast he could tell she was beginning to enjoy his touch. He then reached up and began unzipping her top. She said, "It's getting hot in here anyway so I might as well take it off". She was now only wearing a lovely designer bra. He then gently squeezed her breast and she closed her eyes so he slipped the strap off her shoulder and pulled down her bra cup and began to stimulate her nipple. In seconds it was hard and as she began to moan she reached back, released the clip and removed her bra.
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I told my husband, "Get ready, we're about to watch him cum!"
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She then took the towel, cleaned him up and they began to get dressed. As he opened the door to leave he turned to her and said, "I'd like to see you again next week if it's OK with you". She smiled, winked and said, "You can cum again anytime".
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The lesson to my story: When you do masturbate together talk with each other and time it, as we do, so you cum virtually simultaneously. It doesn't get much better!”
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Me and my bf both watch porn so i think it would be really hot to watch with him
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I love soft porn with a lot of sensuous making out and slow undressing but having sex while you know it is being recorded is what I enjoy.
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i don't think it will give negative effects because base on my experience more on positive outcomes, my partner become more aggressive and horny when we're in bed
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I have enjoyed watching porn for a number of years , mostly I have found that girlfriends found it disgusting . My present wife enjoys watching Porn ; we watch it together and then start to simultaniously do everything that they are doing on the screen , it's like having a foursome , but in private .
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I enjoy porn and have tried watching it with my wife. But it didn't work out for us. I think that we were both just too embarrassed. On top of that, I tend to like videos that include at least some woman-on-woman action, but this is a big turn-off for my wife.
To me it seems like an ideal, an important part of us to share: fantasies acted out on the screen.
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I don't mind watching porn as long as it's not over the top. So with a partner, even better.
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i like watching porn alone the best. i do watch porn with my hubby. it isn't as good as the real thing tho. and the damn tv is a huge distraction for him, so we turn it off pretty quick.
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I don't have a problem with. Its gets old if you do it a lot, but that's true for just about everything.
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i love watching gay porn with my bf
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I say if you both like it... why not do it.....!!!
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negative effects of porn?
enlighten me please??
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thesilkyknot wrote:negative effects of porn?
enlighten me please?? What Silky said!
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lol .. i am serious... i want to know...
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Me and Kitty have watched porn a couple of times together, as well as watching the same video while on webcam together. It's pretty fun once we get into it although she always jokes about ruining it for me- "Why are they doing it at the top of the stairs? That's not very safe!"  But I don't really mind, I find it quite funny. The negative effects of porn can be numerous- she could get jealous and insecure, he could get obsessed and addicted. You could find one thing perfectly normal to watch and your partner find it horrific. Buuuut to all of these things can be overcome, if you have good communication going on. And personally, I think it's really hot.
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My Wife and I just started watching porn together and it has added a lot to our sex life, we both enjoy it now.
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