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 I am wondering, do younger women like to have sex with older men? I know personally that I am not dead or dying, I still love to look at and admire younger women, even though I am not what I used to be I would linger on her body just devouring her sounds, smells, movements and facial expressions. I see younger women smile at me in stores but I assume they are being kind......What is your opinion?
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That depends how old you are and the age of the young ladies you're talking about! I am sure there are always younger women looking at older men. I've always preferred mature men since I was a teenager. I'm 31 now, my husband is 43, and I'm currently lusting after a 47-year-old. I'm sure as I get older I'll continue like men older than me.
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Of course we do! Some more than others of course but there are girls out there who like the more experienced man
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My first experience was with a man six years older with me (I know that's not much, but I guess it still counts?). I am still together with him. I haven't experienced any men my age or younger than me. I'm still together with him now and enjoying it. The funny thing is, ever since I entered puberty, I had an attraction for older men. I believe that it is natural for a woman to have an attraction to older men.
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It depends on your definition of "older"... I think when the age difference hits the 20+ mark, the creepy factor starts to emerge. Society pretty much casts the ideal sexualized girl as between 18-25 if we look at magazines or porn, so I can appreciate much older guys will have a certain lust for the younger girls. I'm sure there are some out there, that enjoy a significantly older guy, but I don't think it's the norm... especially if you're talking about girls in their early twenties. If you're a 60 year old guy crushing on a 40 year old woman, it doesn't seem to be as much of an issue compared to lusting for that hot 19 year old.
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Of course at least some girls like it.
Personally I can't date anyone younger than me, and older men have always been what I've found attractive. I try to keep it around 10 years older or less though. Not into guys who are old enough to be my dad though.
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I've always had a thing for older men. My entire life. And before anyone says I must of had daddy issues, absolutely the opposite. I grew up in a household with both of my parents- married, til death did them part.
I would say my attraction to older men extends from my own maturity. I have always been wiser beyond my chronological age. I never felt I had anything in common with men my age as a young lady. Now, I sort of do but still prefer guys older.
My first boyfriend ever was 24 when I was 17. I didn't have sex with him until I was 20 but still.
After him my second boyfriend was 39 and I was 21.
My third boyfriend was 39 when I was 23.
I dated a guy whom I later married (huge mistake but that's another story) that was 30 when I was 25.
My current boyfriend is 32 and I'm close to 30. Closest age difference but we are unique. LOL
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I've always liked older men. I'm 30 and my husband is 46 if that says anything.
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Is the commonality M-O-N-E-Y????
What about the reverse we have a friend and she is 13 years older and they have been married for 47 years!
Every woman would like to be loved like she is.
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God, I hope so. I'm getting lonely. But I'm open for mature women as well.
Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.
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I know a lady that is in her early 20s that is happily married to a guy 30 years older. The only thing is that it has caused a split in her family as the guy is older than her parents and her father doesn't approve.
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I do think that some ladies will go for the older men cause they do take their time and have more experience in life and are more secure and willing to try and make it last. , the young guys just seem to go for it and then move on.
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Lol i love my older man but our age difference isnt that big at all
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My mother was married twice to younger men...my society where I come from does not give a damn who marries who or go out with whom ever they want so long as they are not of the same sex...so age is not a problem for men and women....
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WHR43 wrote:Is the commonality M-O-N-E-Y????
What about the reverse we have a friend and she is 13 years older and they have been married for 47 years!
Every woman would like to be loved like she is. Money is an issue, granted. Until I married and quit my 'real job' and just started working from home I made a lot of money and it was intimidating to the men I met. My husband makes a decent living and at this point is the main breadwinner in the house so things are the way they should be. But I don't think I could have had a successful relationship with a man who was making considerably less than I was for two reasons: 1) Men have egos. 2) While it is not all about money, what a man earns tells you much about what he has accomplished. The fellow who runs the cash register at the petrol station may be a lovely man, but what confidence will he have in society when he's dating someone for whom his month's pay would constitute a frivolous outing at Harrod's? £1500 is not a lot to spend on a dress in London and I have a few of those in my closet from my single and prowling days. Therefore, a man who earns as much as I do was a prerequisite for me.
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I've never ever had a good experience with a younger guy and refuse to hook up/ date anyone younger than me. So needless to say I like older men. There is a 10yr age difference (really not a huge difference) between me and my bf. Sometimes I think that it runs in the family lol. My mother is 43 and my step father 70. There has not been one marriage in my family that has lasted where there hasn't been at least a 5yr difference. For me (i can't speak for anyone else in my family) it has never been about money. I'm a big girl I can take care of myself and I damn sure don't need a man to give me what I need. In fact that is an issue that my bf argue about on a regular basis. I do not want or need for him to pay for anything.
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I did when I was younger. When I was 23 the guy I was hot for and fooled around with was 43 that English accent, blue eyes and tall body drove me wild!
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My wife is 17 yrs. younger than me, I'm 65, she is 48, we've been married 18 yrs. We have 2 daughters toether, ages 17 and 14. My mother-in-law and I are the same age
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I preferr older gentlemen, they are not in a hurry when making love, more generous, and they con't climax as fast.
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A little older but not too much, the 20 year older guy doesnt do it for me
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I have always been with older men.. my ex husband was 8 & a half years older than me....I don't think I would feel comfortable being with a younger man....I feel like younger guys are immature and inexperienced maybe I am wrong...
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Again depends on how older we are talking about xD
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It's not about age to me. At all. I've dated a guy twice my age and my current honey is 3 years younger than me. To me it's about personality, sense of humor, all that jazz WAY more than age.
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Iria wrote:Again depends on how older we are talking about xD well for fuck's sakes...specify, ladies. 6 years older? 8 10 13 You draw a hard line at 3 or 20? We old horny, Cialis chugging bastards have a right to know! You might be too gawddamned young...for some of us.
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WellMadeMale wrote:Iria wrote:Again depends on how older we are talking about xD well for fuck's sakes...specify, ladies. 6 years older? 8 10 13 You draw a hard line at 3 or 20? We old horny, Cialis chugging bastards have a right to know! You might be too gawddamned young...for some of us. Or is 30-35 years older too much? My man needs to know ladies!
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Age is honestly just a number to me, cliched as that sounds...
If I love someone? I love them. As long as everyone is a legal consenting adult? Do what floats your boat :D
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I'm 18 and I have fallen in love with a man older than me here on lush.  He is the best thing that has ever happened to me    I'm so in love and he's 55 years older than me. He's my life. <3
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Eatmenow69 wrote:I'm 18 and I have fallen in love with a man older than me here on lush. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me I'm so in love and he's 55 years older than me. He's my life. <3 You hear that wellmademale? It can happen! I'm still crossing my fingers for that smoking hot wellmade20yearold to cross your path!
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Been there, both ways, and although it may sound cliche, it really depends on the individuals involved and what they are looking for in a relationship. When I was 17, I was with a 30 year old guy for a while. We had lots of fun, and he taught me a lot, but we both knew it wasn't forever, but just for right now. If there is a large age gap, I think it is rare for it to work long term, but even that isn't impossible.
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It is a secret fantasy for a lot of younger women and I must admit I have thought about it a time or too( mostly 35 years or older). I have had older men(30 +) hit on me before but have always been afraid to say yes but the idea is a real turn on. I hope one day, possibly soon, I'm able to conquer my fear and just give in to the thought.
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