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Guest
Posted: Friday, May 01, 2009 8:26:13 AM

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I've noticed a fascination with girls'/women's shoes almost everywhere you look, and obviously I'm talking about for purposes of sex appeal and innuendo here. Almost exclusively, it's high heels (often strappy ones at that).

Guys (and Girls too if you want to answer), what is it about shoes that turn you on? I've even been asked to leave my shoes on, otherwise completely naked, for sex...which seemed wierd, but whatever, I'm willing to play along.

I'm aware of shoe fetishes, but it's safe to say that this reaches well beyond that. I'm curious what the group has to say about this, as it's always made me wonder myself....

All answers welcome! icon_smile
Ghost
Posted: Friday, May 01, 2009 8:50:51 AM

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Shoes do nothing for me. Each guy probably has his thing, remember that it's you, not the "thing" that he likes, but we do like the "thing" on your body a lot. It gives pleasure. As you can probably tell from my stories I'm into skirts, bras, and panties. Panties especially do it for me. I speculate that "leg" guys like the high heels because it lengthens your legs, but they will have to answer for themselves.
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Posted: Friday, May 01, 2009 8:53:25 AM

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They just look sexy!
Guest
Posted: Friday, May 01, 2009 9:05:19 AM

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Thanks for the pic, but c'mon Playmale....explain yourself!
Playmale
Posted: Friday, May 01, 2009 9:36:54 AM

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It's just a combination of conditioning and association. We see the sexiest women wearing fantastic shoes, and associate them. Soon the excitement we feel over the women is transferred to the shoes. For some people it even displaces the feelings for the woman that began the experience. Just like Pavlov's dog and the bell.

For me it is all part of a sexy look, but shoes are just icing on the cake. Bare feet and thigh high boots are both sexy too.

The shoes are a piece of the whole package for me.
OrionTat
Posted: Friday, May 01, 2009 11:38:49 AM

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Maybe I am at a loss here because I am the opposite. It is all real sexy and fun until you have a 4 inch stiletto sicking 2 inches outside of your body because she got lost i the passion and dug in her heels.
Guest
Posted: Friday, May 01, 2009 12:11:12 PM

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It's got to do primarily with the association thing that someone (I think Playmale) mentioned. We see strippers in heels. We see pornstars in heels. We see hookers in heels. Heels, therefore, equal chicks who equal only sex.

There's also something to do with the fact that we know you are doing it just for us. You don't wear 4 inch heels because they are practical, you wear them because they scream "DO ME!" and we like chicks who scream that at us.
Guest
Posted: Friday, May 01, 2009 4:18:56 PM

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I'm sure Zaf and the other girls are just waiting to answer this one. I do like heels on Tech during, but it's not a requirement. She knows that, too. No fetish for it, personally.
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Posted: Friday, May 01, 2009 5:13:46 PM

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I HATE shoes!! Any kind, any style. I know it was a man who had to invent them! LOL

♥ Listen, touch, and look around in the air and on the ground. If you watch all nature's things, you might just see a fairy's wings. ♥
runonwords
Posted: Friday, May 01, 2009 10:22:10 PM

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Is this in the same category as BRA'S Ms Pixie?

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Sheets
Posted: Saturday, May 02, 2009 1:26:21 AM

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Being a Female Dominant who has spoken/played with more than a few males that have had shoe fetishes of one sort or another, I can surely say that the die hard shoe lovers are hiding in the closet and are not coming clean....

Now why don't you boys come out and give this lady a real answer! she HAS asked nice. :)
Catnip
Posted: Sunday, May 03, 2009 3:54:12 PM

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Beats me Lex.
I'm not very impressed with shoes.
Sure, it gives your legs another figure, more curves. .
But I'm so bad at walking in them so people would only look at me laughing or getting ready to call an ambulance as I stumble around.


Monocle
Posted: Sunday, May 03, 2009 5:17:13 PM

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I tend to like bare feet better. I think the association with heels and 70's porn became a turnoff (or at most a "meh") for me long ago.
Lisa
Posted: Monday, May 04, 2009 5:13:01 AM

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I always wear high heels when I go out at night. They make me feel more dressed up, taller, my legs longer. I feel more confident than I would in a pair of flats. The only downside is the next day when I can't walk because my feet hurt.
Birdie
Posted: Monday, May 04, 2009 5:33:07 AM

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Oh, come on people....dont you all think it is hot to be taken while wearing something sexy? I think that is it. I dont wear heels, I dont even own a pair of them (except for my heeled boots). Its fun to play dress up and its fun to wear that stuff while having sex. Plus, later on down the road you will look at that item of clothing and remember what you did while wearing them...
runonwords
Posted: Monday, May 04, 2009 7:09:51 AM

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My love of people especially women , walking with a nice sexy pair of shoes, long legs, confidence and a great smile, Shoes do make a difference in the passing glances, we are lucky we can afford the luxury and opportunity to discuss such topics!
And yes I have kept my boots on during sex!
Ride em often!
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Zafia
Posted: Monday, May 04, 2009 2:12:00 PM

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Well as for me personally. I wear heels because they make me feel good. I just like that I can make a statement with my heels and because they can team up with one's clothes (lingerie, etc.) very well in expressing one's creativity and individuality is a lovely bonus. I think every shoe has its own personality. It especially a great turn on for me during sex. It makes the experience more erotic for me.

I think it's kind of like some guy's obsession with "big boy toys", instead of being something with a motor though, it's shoes for me!

Mostly every woman has a story to tell that may start with any pair of nice heels that made her feel sexy, ravishing and simply beautiful.

I love shoes, always have, always will.

"Love all, trust a few, and do wrong to none."





rxtales
Posted: Monday, May 04, 2009 2:42:08 PM

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This thread reminds me of a photo taken by a photographer I really like; Gennadi Balitski.

http://www.insomniagallery.com/gallery/feya.html
dwoody32
Posted: Monday, May 04, 2009 2:57:48 PM

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I love women's bare feet. Since a lot of heel's seem to be open-toed I still admire looking at them since you are still able to see the woman's toes though I still prefer them bare.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, October 31, 2010 4:36:14 AM

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My wife has a pair of lace up low heeled shoes that belonged to her grandmother they are exquisite.
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