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Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 10, 2010 8:41:07 PM

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I have always been into the slave master, bondage, whipping, and rough stuff like that. Do men really like to do that? Is it sexier to have a submissive or a dominant? please and thanks <3 dontknow
mercianknight
Posted: Thursday, February 11, 2010 6:55:19 AM

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Location: whispering conspiratorially in your ear, Bermuda
Depends on my mood. It's nice to have a lady take the lead at times, but, mostly, I tend to conduct the orchestra.

spank

"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
whysoserious
Posted: Thursday, February 11, 2010 10:15:03 AM

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Joined: 2/3/2010
Posts: 261
Have only tried soft dom with partner, but have visited mistress and found it big turn on to be severely dominated by a woman clad in leather. Although she didnit go as far as i would have liked because of the time, i would definitely be going back for more one day.
haverchuck247
Posted: Tuesday, February 16, 2010 8:39:28 PM

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Joined: 1/11/2010
Posts: 2
Location: New York
It depends on my mood sometimes I'm dominant, sometimes she is dominant. I guess in the end if you get off that's all that matters.
toetag
Posted: Wednesday, February 17, 2010 1:31:50 PM

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Posts: 4
I LIKE TO SWITCH BETWEEN SUB AND DOM

TOETAG
Head
Posted: Wednesday, February 17, 2010 4:47:08 PM

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Posts: 297
Location: CYMRU AM BYTH
If i did not take the lead with my partner i would never have sex.Boo hoo!
notlooking5
Posted: Tuesday, February 23, 2010 10:40:26 PM

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Joined: 9/13/2009
Posts: 13
Location: New York, United States
U know what they say if ur not the lead dog the view never changes . Dominant is the only way
SydneySlut
Posted: Sunday, February 28, 2010 5:24:22 PM

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Posts: 2
Location: Sydney
i'm definitely submissive. i tried being dominant once with a man who was very anxious to fnd out what it was like to be controlled and used by a fem dom. it wasn't good for either of us .... such that we never had sex again. now i know better than trying to be something that's not in my inner core. i don't always want to be submissive or play a slave role, but i know i'm not mistress material!
inyourass
Posted: Monday, March 01, 2010 11:19:12 PM

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Joined: 7/21/2009
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it depends on how dominant, and what she wants.
DamonX
Posted: Monday, May 03, 2010 7:20:57 PM

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I like to be both dominant and submissive, although I tend to be dominant. Most women I've been with like to be submissive. (Actually, I think all of them liked to be submissive). I'm into rough, dirty sex, but I'm not into pain (giving or receiving). A little bit of humiliation or degradation can be hot, as long as it involves actual sexual contact. After talking to BDSM lifestylers, I've realized that many of the things that they like do may not always involve actual sexual contact.

You'll find out that most men enjoy rough sex, but we all have different preferences for how rough and what types of things we like. If you are referring to the BDSM "lifestyle" then you'll find fewer people that are into it, although it still seems to be a popular fetish. Although most men tend to be dominant and most women tend to be submissive (and yes, I said "most" and that doesn't mean "all" for those of you what will no doubt bitch about me making "generalizations") but as a guy, it is refreshing to have the woman switch things up once and a while and take a dominant role.

I have noticed that BDSM interests seem to be more prevalent among females than males though. Or maybe males are just less open to talking about it...
WellMadeMale
Posted: Monday, May 03, 2010 10:42:58 PM

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Joined: 9/30/2009
Posts: 10,299
Location: Cakeland, United States
DamonX wrote:
I like to be both dominant and submissive, (and yes, I said "most" and that doesn't mean "all" for those of you what will no doubt bitch about me making "generalizations")





"Learning, I see you are...Padawan."

“Powerful you have become, the switch side I sense in you.”


If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
HaileSelassie
Posted: Tuesday, May 04, 2010 4:02:51 PM

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Joined: 4/23/2010
Posts: 18
Dominant sadist reporting in.
dirtyoleman
Posted: Thursday, June 23, 2011 1:06:32 PM

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Joined: 5/27/2011
Posts: 94
Location: Midstate IL
I find it most exciting to have a lady that is submissive. However, I'm not one that believes in inflicking anything other than minor pain.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, June 23, 2011 3:01:19 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
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Personally, I am more submissive and find women dom's extremely sexy. Me beingn her slave and having her balacning me somewhere between pleasure and pain for hours on end. mmmm. Doing things to me that have never been done to me. Taking advantage of me and humiliating me. So sexy. Thanks Dom ladies. Me being dominant doesn't suit my personality but, I am making efforts to change that

Forever your humble servant.

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Shibui
Posted: Thursday, June 23, 2011 3:13:40 PM

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Joined: 12/22/2010
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Location: Nesteled in your arms, United States
I've never had the opportunity to do either. I would like to be able to experiment in this area. If I found a willing Sub, it would be fun to be the "Lead Dog" for a while.
shaddy
Posted: Sunday, July 31, 2011 2:12:40 PM

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Location: Birmingham, United Kingdom
im definatly a sub, i like females telling me what to do, its such a big turn on
master117
Posted: Thursday, August 04, 2011 9:03:03 AM

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Location: United States
I'm primarily a dom, but that doesn't mean I always have to dominate (if that makes sense)
sluttykitty85
Posted: Sunday, August 07, 2011 11:43:22 AM

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Joined: 8/6/2011
Posts: 534
Location: Charleston, United States
I'm a switch, but I tend to favor my submissive side. Being dominated by a partner, told what to do, dirty talk, being able to let everything go and just feel, and taste and enjoy without having to worry about guilt or judgement, because after all you aren't in control.


Really, sex and laughter do go very well together, and I wondered - and I still do - which is more important.
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