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I have always wondered why guys in porn hit women in the face with their p*nis...and the whole spitting in the v*gina thing..if that happened to me in real life I'd get a bit upset...do men really do this in real life ? Is it a turn on and if so why?
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If hubby slapped my face with his cock I'd bite it off!
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I know this is a girls ask guys question, but here goes (if you want more answers, I'd post it in "The Lounge" instead).
I'd guess it's because 99% of porn is aimed at men, and 99% of people who produce porn are men, and treat women like objects to be used.
How much porn have you ever seen where a woman is treated with respect and tenderness?
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nicola wrote:I'd guess it's because 99% of porn is aimed at men, and 99% of people who produce porn are men, and treat women like objects to be used.
How much porn have you ever seen where a woman is treated with respect and tenderness? or the woman actually coming instead of getting a face full of come...
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nicola wrote:I know this is a girls ask guys question, but here goes (if you want more answers, I'd post it in "The Lounge" instead).
I'd guess it's because 99% of porn is aimed at men, and 99% of people who produce porn are men, and treat women like objects to be used.
How much porn have you ever seen where a woman is treated with respect and tenderness? That's why I can't watch porn. I've tried, but it's not for me. The woman's pleasure doesn't seem important at all. Also, the over-the-top noises and facial expressions make me cringe a bit. I'd rather read a good erotic story.
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sweet_escape wrote:That's why I can't watch porn. I've tried, but it's not for me. The woman's pleasure doesn't seem important at all. Also, the over-the-top noises and facial expressions make me cringe a bit. I'd rather read a good erotic story. Very true Sweet. And one of the main reasons I set this site up initially
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I've never slapped a woman in the face with my cock.
Are you saying the guy is spitting on her vagina, while he's inside her, for more lubrication? I've seen that before.
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I watch porn, but yes, there is something more real about reading these stories as they are down to earth. I am new to this site, but I love it and sharing our thoughts so openly with one another.
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SE, I heard years ago there's supposed to be a company run by women that made porn directed toward them. Can't remember the name of it. Supposed to be nice and sexy.
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Jenna Jameson started her own company years ago. She made " Conquest " and many others. She dscided that it was better to control her movies then let let other tell her what to do.
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chefkathleen wrote:SE, I heard years ago there's supposed to be a company run by women that made porn directed toward them. Can't remember the name of it. Supposed to be nice and sexy. Chef the name of the company you are thinking of is Femme productions Only reason I used to work at a video rental store and we carried thier movies never watched any but supposed to be more sensual then real porn
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Thanks BB. I've never seen one either but heard they were supposed to be good.
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Yes - former porn actress Candida Royalle started the company to make films better suited to women's tastes. I have only seen one of her films years ago and I enjoyed it.
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Thanks, Chef, BB and Ali. Those movies sound better suited to me. I'll have to check them out.
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I have to say though SE that some time just for shits and grins you should get your girlfriends together with some wine or whatever and watch one of the other kind. The kinds we don't like. I never laugh so hard as when I have a couple glasses and then rip one of those movies apart with my girls. Laugh at the wallpaper, the clothes, what he says, etc.
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chefkathleen wrote:I have to say though SE that some time just for shits and grins you should get your girlfriends together with some wine or whatever and watch one of the other kind. The kinds we don't like. I never laugh so hard as when I have a couple glasses and then rip one of those movies apart with my girls. Laugh at the wallpaper, the clothes, what he says, etc. Yes - it can be fun!
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chefkathleen wrote:I have to say though SE that some time just for shits and grins you should get your girlfriends together with some wine or whatever and watch one of the other kind. The kinds we don't like. I never laugh so hard as when I have a couple glasses and then rip one of those movies apart with my girls. Laugh at the wallpaper, the clothes, what he says, etc. I could definitely handle that situation. Sounds like a good laugh.
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Candida Royalle? Is that with cheese? Also sounds like a terrible case of fungus growth. Thanks for the info!
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Something else we do is compare how many old BFs said some of the same cheesey lines.
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nicola wrote:Candida Royalle? Is that with cheese? Also sounds like a terrible case of fungus growth. Thanks for the info! Check it out: www.candidaroyalle.com
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I remember Candide or Candida Royale. I didn't know she went into producing. Jenna's made a porn empire.
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Both are a turn off, if I am watching porn and that happens I stop it.
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nicola wrote:How much porn have you ever seen where a woman is treated with respect and tenderness? Those kinds of movies are not called porn. They are called chick flicks.
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There's porn and, then, there's porn. Different strokes for different folks, as the saying goes and when it comes to porn one's enjoyment, or repulsion, is as individual as fingerprints. In general, however, men enjoy the visual; women the written word and that maybe because women are more discerning.
As regards to respect shown, or tenderness given and/or received, that's not the point of porn. It's basis is to get the viewer hot. For some it's intercourse, for others BJs and, as one of my favorites, cunnilingus. Now whether or not the "actress" is faking her orgasms if she does a good enough job so that I can't tell, I'm satisfied, but if she can't, the film is a failure.
One of the things I most enjoy about porn are still photographs and artistic renditions. Some of the earliest porn (not all liked, but nonetheless interesting) is the Femdom Art of Bernard Montorgueil, which treat men as the sex objects of women. He drew these pictures to illustrate his written pornography at about the turn of the nineteenth to the twentieth centuries. Before him, of course, is the notorious Marquis De Sade and following him, at the close of WWII, are renditions supposedly of enema art, but, actually, depicting woman pedophiles abusing boys (if having all manner of sex with them is called abuse). No doubt, these latter illustrations were born from a sharp decline of men in Europe and most particularly Germany following the war.
The latest, or one of the latest sets of illustrations are the outrageous behavior of women toward males in their efforts to sissify them. Amusing, but quite outrageous.
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The only male tenderness I've ever seen displayed to a female in porn was in a henti. I've never been able to find actual porn where they were having sex rather than just fucking.
"Think left, think right. Think low, think high. Oh, the thinks you can think up if only you try!" ~ Dr. Seuss **** "O brave new world," he repeated. "O brave new world that has such people in it. Let's start at once." "You have a most peculiar way of talking sometimes," said Bernard, staring at the young man in perplexed astonishment. "And, anyhow, hadn't you better wait till you actually see the new world?" - Excerpt from Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
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Good point, Loislane.
I have never spat into a woman's vagina, but I have slapped a woman in the face with my penis ... at her request. When my sex partner specifically and emphatically asks me to do something, I do it. Now, a lot of people (me included) would say "That's weird, that's disrespectful, that's abusive ..." and so on, but how weird/disrespectful/abusive is it when you are honoring a request?
Porn vs. Real Life: Watching pornography to learn about sex and relationships is like watching "The Flintstones" to learn about dinosaurs. For informed adults who are seeking stimulation or entertainment, you're going to get it. For the uninformed who are seeking information, you are looking in the wrong place. The sex you see in porno is rarely fun or comfortable or practical in real life. The sex you see in porno is visually interesting.
I like porn. I watch my share of it. But it needs a disclaimer at the bottom: THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ACTUAL RELATIONSHIPS or possibly that old stand-by PLEASE DON'T TRY THIS AT HOME.
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"Think left, think right. Think low, think high. Oh, the thinks you can think up if only you try!" ~ Dr. Seuss **** "O brave new world," he repeated. "O brave new world that has such people in it. Let's start at once." "You have a most peculiar way of talking sometimes," said Bernard, staring at the young man in perplexed astonishment. "And, anyhow, hadn't you better wait till you actually see the new world?" - Excerpt from Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
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I’ve let a guy slap me with his dick (he did ask first though) and I don’t see anything wrong with that. I’ve also had a guy spit on my cootchie for extra lubrication; I guess it really depends on how each person feels about those things… Well in the spirit of talking about porn; I have to admit something… I love watching porn (by myself) I don’t enjoy watching it with other people, it makes me uncomfortable. May be it’s because I enjoy “hardcore” porn; I really enjoy watching girls get treated like shit. Why? Who knows I just do… (don’t hate me)
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