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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, September 13, 2011 5:20:16 AM

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Ok! So we often hear the 'nice guys finish last', so in order of importance list the traits that you think are important.
positivetension
Posted: Tuesday, September 13, 2011 9:38:50 AM

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compassionate
honest
intelligent
funny
thoughtful
confident
open-minded
playful
reliable

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, September 13, 2011 4:11:10 PM

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in no particular order...
Intelligent
Versatile
Open-minded
Confident
Integrity
Whit
Citizenship
Compassionate
Strong hands (its a personal thing)
Broad shoulders (physically and figuratively)
Emotionally stable
Warm heart and smile
Patient
Calm
Driven
I can go on but I have to pick up my kid from school.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, September 15, 2011 4:10:37 AM

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Good looking
Smart
Good sense of humour
Confident
Sporty
Mentally and emotionally capable
Dependable
Trustworthy
Socially apt
A man who can make me feel safe
Good with money
A man that can become a family man and be good with kids
A man that can put up shelves is also handy
Open jars, catch spiders, take rubbish out ect
Couldn't concerntrate on this as I seem to have little attention span thismorning
Sorry, I really did try!! You get the jist anyway :)
Magical_felix
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 9:14:59 AM

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Don't be fooled by these ^ answers guys.

everyone knows it's:

Looks
Humor
Power
Money

In that order.



curvygalore
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 12:27:37 PM

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Not for me Felix! Don't give a toss about money or power!

Looks are in the eye of the beholder. But intelligence and humour are absolutely essential. I can sort out spiders on my own, but compassion, integrity and kindness go an awful long way too!

And mutual sexual chemistry is pretty damned important....
Guest
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 12:49:20 PM

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Before I make my list I would just like to say that I don't think nice guys finish last. Guys who lack confidence finish last. I think a lack of confidence is the biggest turn off for me.

Intelligence
Sense of self
Manners
Confidence
Sense of Humor
Articulate
Compassion
Kindness
Healthy
Strength
Active
sexiness
Looks

I think I got everything, that was very hard
Guest
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 12:53:30 PM

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Slow_Curves_Ahead wrote:
Before I make my list I would just like to say that I don't think nice guys finish last. Guys who lack confidence finish last. I think a lack of confidence is the biggest turn off for me.

Intelligence
Sense of self
Honesty
Manners
Confidence
Sense of Humor
Articulate
Compassion
Kindness
Healthy
Strength
Active
sexiness
Looks

I think I got everything, that was very hard
Guest
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 3:27:20 PM

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lack of unibrow
LadyX
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 3:34:37 PM

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Loislane wrote:
lack of unibrow


LMAO
Guest
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 3:38:59 PM

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Okay also no third nipple and snaggle teeth. either.
Guest
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 3:51:58 PM

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Penis size - it's absolutely the most important thing of all

EDIT: Obviously I'm kidding - although, it does help if a man knows what to do with it...

Sense of humour

Physique

Nice eyes

Nice smile

Caring

Kindness

COmpassion

Ability to express emotion

Just a few...
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Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 3:55:03 PM

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mazza wrote:
Penis size - it's absolutely the most important thing of all


I knew it! Must order those pills I saw advertised on that porn website.

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Guest
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 7:18:37 PM

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Confident
Intelligent
Sense of humor
Looks (attraction)
Considerate
Thoughtful
Strength
Kind
Sarcastic
Witty

lfrancis
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 8:26:12 PM

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Sense of humor. Has good, positive, people around him. Genuine and has confidence even if not the guy most women go for at first. Sweet but still a guys guy and someone who just enjoys their life. Men who have this, get better looking in every way. Hot! Totally hot!!! oh, and of course make the girl/woman a priority. Let them no you are thinking about them... NO GAMES!!!!
Buz
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 8:47:08 PM

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[quote=mazza]Penis size - it's absolutely the most important thing of all

There is a doctor in Miami who specializes in penis enlargement...(I think his name is Dr. Dong)




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Lisa
Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 5:15:31 AM

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For me it's:

Loyalty
Intelligence
A quick wit and the ability to laugh at himself
Sexually compatible
Kind
Spontaneous
Affectionate

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Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 7:05:06 AM

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rockstar81 wrote:
in no particular order...
Intelligent
Versatile
Open-minded
Confident
Integrity
Whit
Citizenship
Compassionate
Strong hands (its a personal thing)
Broad shoulders (physically and figuratively)
Emotionally stable
Warm heart and smile
Patient
Calm
Driven
I can go on but I have to pick up my kid from school.


Citizenship? Never heard that one before...some of you gals have a pretty big list here...

Not like if you ask guys what they look for in a woman...

It's usually something like..."two legs"..."pulse"...

And some of us are even a little flexible there...happy8


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cokeheadbarbie
Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 8:58:17 AM

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Money
Looks
Ambition and success
Ability to travel the world
Intellectuality
Loves cute animals
Kinky




Guest
Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 6:15:18 PM

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DirtyMartini wrote:
rockstar81 wrote:
in no particular order...
Intelligent
Versatile
Open-minded
Confident
Integrity
Whit
Citizenship
Compassionate
Strong hands (its a personal thing)
Broad shoulders (physically and figuratively)
Emotionally stable
Warm heart and smile
Patient
Calm
Driven
I can go on but I have to pick up my kid from school.


Citizenship? Never heard that one before...some of you gals have a pretty big list here...


I know sounds odd, but I value someone who makes a positive impact in their community. i want someone who is concerned about others and whom is giving. Someone with morals whom is not afraid of a little hard work for the betterment of others.
SubKitty10
Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 11:40:11 PM

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For me personally
He must be honest.
Faithful.
An alpha male.
Compassionate.
Intelligent.
Romantic but not in an overbearing way.
He must be a good hugger. Hugs
A good kisser.
Empathetic.
Stable.
Strong willed.
Protective.
Oh and being cute doesn't hurt either =)

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