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positivetension
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 10:38:16 PM

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Just curious if you guys have a preference...

Would you like to be surprised by your girl wearing a new tiny outfit or lingerie? She might show up to meet you somewhere or just be waiting and ready in something skimpy and seductive. It would be unexpected and you would know that she felt sexy.

OR

Would you rather pick out something you'd really like to see her in? You could go shopping for lingerie together or send her some pictures so she knows what you really like. Then you would get exactly what you want and know she only wanted to please you.

The fear and the yearning
It's gonna eat you alive
Awesome_Xlover
Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 12:16:54 AM

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Can't speak for all guys but for me it's definitely being surprised.

It's no fun when I already know what shes going to wear.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 4:42:09 AM

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i would rather it if my girl surprised me. she has a nice collection of lingerie and she has good taste so i know she will be sexy for me.
Leo031
Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 5:10:05 AM

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I really dig being suprised. It's way more fun to be spontanious.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 6:30:17 AM

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suprised for sure!
realz
Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 6:48:44 PM

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Actually much more interesting then bedroom clothing lingerie is when she wears sexy outdoor clothes in public... devilishly short dress or lightweight top that really shows her braless boobs... that is what I like.
tkdvrman
Posted: Saturday, September 17, 2011 6:51:46 PM

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Let her suprise me. sometimes i buy it for her but i never know when she will wear it.
acicuc
Posted: Sunday, September 18, 2011 3:02:26 AM

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Suprises definitely work on me
AGreyFoxxx
Posted: Sunday, September 18, 2011 4:44:54 AM

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Most definitely.....Surprise me!! It's like Christmas anytime of the year! A few years after we were married, my wife arrived at my office wearing lingerie under a trench coat.....it was an interesting ride home!
positivetension
Posted: Sunday, September 18, 2011 11:31:19 AM

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There's clearly a consensus! I had expected there might be guys into the control of making their girls wear something revealing. But I see the idea of a nice sexy surprise sounds more fun to everyone.

Thanks for the input!

The fear and the yearning
It's gonna eat you alive
Guest
Posted: Sunday, September 18, 2011 5:34:51 PM

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definitely be surprised. that whole aspect of being surprised just takes it to a whole new level and as a guy I can tell you there is almost nothing better than coming home to your girl all dressed up and waiting for you to have your way with her
Guest
Posted: Sunday, September 18, 2011 10:26:46 PM

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I have had both, and love both equally. variety is the key, always surprising and never boring
indyguy1990
Posted: Monday, September 19, 2011 11:41:32 AM

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Essentially, I would like to be surprised with something that I know she feels sexy in. In my experience, when the woman feels sexy, she is much more enthusiastic about pleasing me; having said that, I think women feel most sexy when they wear something that they KNOW will turn their man on
Red_Dragon
Posted: Monday, September 19, 2011 11:46:12 AM

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love9 I totally agree with the Majority I loved to be surprised by the woman

John
Posted: Sunday, September 25, 2011 5:20:20 AM

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I like to pick her outfits out for her. Perhaps it's a male control thing but I live to pick out everything down to lipstick and ear rings.

I feel dissapointed when she does not dress the way I asked.


sometimes she picks out my clothes but it does not seem to do as much for her.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, September 25, 2011 7:21:48 AM

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id rather her to be wearin g a nice dress ect and the peel it off to show the sexy underwear
sexy pair of french nics n lacy bra
WellMadeMale
Posted: Sunday, September 25, 2011 7:46:02 AM

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I'd like her to drive to and then pick me up at the curb @ the airport, wearing nothing but a mischievous smile and a mid-thigh length fur coat. In heels.

I'd enjoy escorting her to VS to let her pick out an assortment of comfy panties and brassieres. She's the one wearing them, after all. If they are not comfortable, what good are they. Besides, it's the woman who makes the clothing sexy.

She's just as smoldering in a pair of comfy jeans, a pull over t-shirt and running shoes as she is, dressed to the nines in nightclub wear or some sheer teddy she has selected.

I've heard that most men would rather be caught baking a cake, then inside a lingerie shop (with or without their girlfriend/wife). I am not in that category of men.

I bake a mean cake, too.

If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
Guest
Posted: Monday, September 26, 2011 2:57:56 AM

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prefer her to surprise me
roamer
Posted: Monday, September 26, 2011 3:15:57 AM

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Surprise and variety also work for me.
Makavelli
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 10:24:27 AM

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I rather my woman surprise me.
CB447
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 1:39:11 PM

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Surprise definitely.
DLizze
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 4:19:39 PM

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I love a surprise. And there is none better than her showing up to meet me somewhere after work, wearing her normal work clothes - the "power suit" - or her "casual Friday" outfit, and discovering she is not wearing panties. OMG! What a turn-on!

"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
vickiejoe
Posted: Friday, October 21, 2011 7:29:00 AM

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l go shoopping togehter so we both know what l like to see her dressed in...l might even have to get something for myself, my collection of lingerie is never finished...Besides have you ever been in the same dressing room helping her slip into the lingerie that may be purchased....carefull though you might buy more than you thought you would...l usually do
stephanie
Posted: Friday, October 21, 2011 7:52:36 PM

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I buy her a lot of stuff and we both enjoy that...... Every now and then she surprises me by wearing stuff she's picked out herself and that ALWAYS delights me more!!!!! xx SF

"I'm a writer... Honesty is not my first language..." (Stephen Flashman)
ArtMan
Posted: Friday, October 21, 2011 9:46:55 PM

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I like the SURPRISE!


....lingerie and a hand gun are always fun!




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Guest
Posted: Monday, November 14, 2011 12:04:08 AM

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Surprise me!!
HK4167
Posted: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 5:08:59 PM

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Definitely the surprise!

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mercianknight
Posted: Wednesday, November 16, 2011 8:21:37 AM

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Definitely like the idea of being surprised by her wearing some sexy lingerie when I walked in through the door - oh yeah! dancenude

"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
2706ali
Posted: Wednesday, November 16, 2011 8:37:58 AM

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"to be surprised by her,is surely the ultimate compliment,and should be rewarded"
RobHarper
Posted: Wednesday, November 16, 2011 10:23:03 AM

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Both!!! For my birthday we went into the store and looked through the naughty outfits together, then my girl made me leave while actually bought the outfit. She teased me about it for rest of the day, which only made it that much better when she showed it off. The build-up made for a very intense orgasm.
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