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Rank: Advanced Wordsmith
Joined: 4/9/2011
Posts: 79
Location: United Kingdom
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I love to chat, and cyber so they all apply to me.
I can live out my fantasies and wilder side online
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 11/19/2010
Posts: 153
Location: Washington
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I love cybering, sexting and phone sex. I'd do it any time. XD
The bear in the top hat! Here's my facebook if anyone wants it: http://www.facebook.com/kungfujimmyd
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 7/3/2011
Posts: 41
Location: Boston New York
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cybering is anawesome way to get as nasty as u wanna b
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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 12/11/2010
Posts: 2
Location: im not telling, United States
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i cyber all the time with women girl hit me up when ever you want some fun ;)
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 7/16/2011
Posts: 41
Location: Port Elizabeth, South Africa
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Cybering becomes addictive and a mind bender. Reality and fantasy blend and boundaries warp. Anytime.....
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Rank: Advanced Wordsmith
Joined: 7/23/2011
Posts: 66
Location: United States
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I like cybering. It keeps my libido in check. I usually don't develop much of a connection, though.
From,
Emimeni
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 8/3/2011
Posts: 309
Location: United States
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I have found cyber is better if I have a connection..
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 8/18/2011
Posts: 14
Location: Clermont-Ferrand
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Never done it so do not know if nice or not. But would like to try some time as I,m up for any thing new 
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 327,286
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i do it mainly for fun.. But if the connetion is there it feels way better..
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 8/18/2011
Posts: 18
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I think if I really knew what it was I might like it... I'm such a social media rookie/virgin!
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 6/8/2011
Posts: 864
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Look me up, sometime, sweetheart - I'll give you some lessons for free! ;)
Please have a look at my "Humour Month" Competition entry - hope you enjoy it! http://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-poems/pyramus-and-thisbe.aspx
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 327,286
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I do it for fun. I'm not looking to have a connection with anyone
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 7/13/2011
Posts: 22
Location: northern, United States
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It's a lot more fun if you're a virgin.
I don't really get into it... and it tends to come off as silly most of the time to me. That's why I've said on my profile I don't want to cyber. It's like... giggle-inducing right now for me for some reason.
When I did do it, I never got very connected to them at all.
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 327,286
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Has to be a connection. How can you talk good sex if you know nothing about that person? Good cyber talk starts by getting to know that person, getting to know what turns them on, their fantasies and their desires. Only then can the chat move to the next level imo.
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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 9/27/2011
Posts: 8
Location: Greenwood
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There has to be a connection for me. I want to know the person, what they are like. I have to feel something for the person I'm cybering or sleeping with. With the right person though it can be extremely intense and rewarding. It's only happened a few times, but finding someone I can be that close with is incredible for me.
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Rank: Advanced Wordsmith
Joined: 9/12/2011
Posts: 86
Location: Kansas City, United States
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when my wife died last year, leaving myself and 2 children, cybering with some I have a connection with has really helped me cope with dark lonely nights! Still hoping to find a wonderful trusted woman to cyber with and enjoy adult conversatons with without being judged!
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Rank: Smart ass OMD expert
Joined: 3/31/2010
Posts: 87
Location: tiptoeing through the tulips, United States
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The problem with cybering is the illusion it creates for some. When I did cyber, I seemed to fall in love easily. I did it for excitement.
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Rank: Purveyor of Sweetness
Joined: 9/10/2011
Posts: 2,009
Location: the sweet, sunny south, United States
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i do cyber.... i have found that it has to be someone who engages my imagination and who has an imagination themselves.... this requires more than a cock.... humor, sensitivity to mood, & something genuine in a personality are required. is that a connection?
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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 9/28/2011
Posts: 2
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Cyber (IM, chat, sexting--all of which I'm always up for) is definitely better when there's a connection, but there are always exceptions to the rule. Of anything else, however, good grammar is a definite must. I don't need impeccable punctuation and capitalization, but if she typz lyk dis, then I just can't get it up.
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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 10/7/2011
Posts: 3
Location: United Kingdom
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I think mixed with our imagination the written or spoken word can be very erotic. If you turn on the mind the body will naturally follow. To me good sex involves both mental and physical stimulation. I am seeking a woman who also enjoys being turned on via mental stimulation. Please PM me
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Rank: Story Verifier
Joined: 5/21/2011
Posts: 754
Location: The Naughty Mansion, Australia
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i need a connection, easy conversation, imagination and humour, tick these boxes and if I can see myself with that person in the real world, then it will sometimes naturally lead to a flirty dance that I love. Without these things its just plain boring
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 10/19/2011
Posts: 737
Location: where bugs die
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i love to cyber...i admit it...i get off on getting guys....off...
i think it is a power thing....
but i have always found words to be erotic...that is why i joined this site. The words....
plus i am always in the mood for sex
great question!
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 10/5/2010
Posts: 2,326
Location: United States
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Cybering is so much better with a connection. I don't cyber w/just anyone....anymore. Maybe its just me valuing my time and friends.
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 327,286
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Cybering ..... It is the words. (whether it is online/txting/emails)
The love of the language, the way a word makes you "feel" it, "taste" it, "want" it.
It is the connection you find with someone, and the journey begins. You may want to share those words, and be taken away with it all. Some call it a "glorious mindfuck"; and in some cases, it can be just that! Amazzzzzzzing!
Seduce my mind, and my body follows.
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Rank: Clever Gem
Joined: 7/17/2011
Posts: 2,011
Location: Exactly where I should be!, United Kingdom
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Hmmm, I have often found myself rolling my eyes at the screen, in a bad way. So i am particular, if I do it at all.BUT, when you find that needle in the haystack! Oh my! A connection like no other. If the tension can be that good without even ever meeting, you know what crosses the mind, and yes its all about the mind! The cyber falls into place naturally , progressively, not contrived, just a part of the natural evolution of the game.
Now with audio!!!!
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 327,286
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I normally build up a connection but I have cybered with one person and then developed a connection after so it can happen.
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Rank: The Linebacker
Joined: 3/2/2011
Posts: 3,302
Location: Atlanta, United States
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There is a strong rumor going around Lush that a huge percentage of these "lesbians" posting "women only - no men" are actually men pretending to be women just to cyber with women. I have wondered if there are any cases of two men cybering with each other thinking that the other person is a woman. I bet that has happened often.And I think that is pretty funny myself! I do not cyber at all.
Please check out my newest story: "10 Items Or Less"http://www.lushstories.com/stories/milf/10-items-or-less.aspxOr my previous story: http://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/in-the-land-of-salvation-and-sin.aspx
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Rank: Story Verifier
Joined: 5/2/2009
Posts: 1,012
Location: United States
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When I first joined I met some great people and had fun, yes cybering! Realized shortly after I would rather have a connection with one than share myself with multiple people, strangers at that. I love to flirt and enjoy talking about sex, but always make my intentions known and for me that means no cybering.
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 8/10/2011
Posts: 16
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It's a 'connection thing', with me, as it has to be with any relationship.
It certainly wasn't the goal, it developed. No real idea why - must be the connection! - but it has been so VERY good! (you know who you are.........!)
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 327,286
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 APOLOGIES if I just burst your bubble - LOL ...but on second thoughts; think I might just pass on cybering for the moment
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