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Posted: Tuesday, October 12, 2010 3:48:20 PM

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LadyX wrote:
DamonX wrote:
As an addendum for the females:

If you were to ask your guy about his number....Would you be hoping it was low? High? or about equal to yours?



As long as it's more than 0, I think I'm good not knowing. How good he can work it is what matters, not how many he's worked before me.

But if I found out it was a lot, then we could probably have a good time swapping some stories. ;)


Xuani if we are going to ask, I am sure we want someone that has been down the path enough times to take us where we want to go.

But then if he/she is really at zero, could be a lot of fun being the tutor. A lot of fun if their 0 also comes with a young age.
Woman
Posted: Thursday, October 14, 2010 8:19:57 AM

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mercianknight wrote:

The moral? If it's love, we don't give a hoot about how 'used' you might be. It's just a number.


Bravo!!!! I agree!!!!!

With Chinese men... I just smile coyly and flat out refuse to answer. They will feel inadequate enough when most of them finish, I sigh, roll over and grab a toy to finish the job.

With someone I actually care for, I honestly do not know if I would answer or how I would, it has never come up in a conversation with someone I truly care for. What is in the past, is the past. They lead me to him. And he gets the benefit of the experience. So what is not to like about that?

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Posted: Friday, October 22, 2010 8:31:38 PM

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Cincinnati Bow tie, just looked it up....nice!
Rontre
Posted: Thursday, October 28, 2010 12:55:27 AM

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I think the past should stay in the past if all is well in the relationship. My girlfriend insists that I know just about everything about her & this is information that she volunteered on her own. I didn't care about her past, but she sure is interested in mine It's not that I'm intentionally holding anything back but I grew up in the 60's & 70's & well, need I say more? What matters is what kind of person I am now...
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Posted: Thursday, October 28, 2010 8:36:56 PM

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I say who really cares. If you care about her it doesn't matter. If she cares about you it doesn't matter. I guess the don't ask don't tell thing mentioned earlier is probably good? I just don't think it should really be an issue.
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Posted: Tuesday, November 16, 2010 1:50:41 PM

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Well if you ask my boyfriend he thinks I've only ever slept with him. LMFAO. Way back when we first started dating after meeting at church I knew that he would be the kind of guy that a girl marries so I didn't want to screw it up. So I told him that I broke my hymen while I was horseback riding on my friends ranch when I was younger but I still made sure to moan and whoop it up alot to make it seem like I was a virgin when we first fucked and he totally believed it. I just always figure that the real number of how many guys I have sex with it between me and God and nobody else really needs to know. What does it even matter anyway its just sex not love! Plus guys get real sensitive about that kind of thing and trust me ladies they don't really want to know how many guys you've been on your hands and knees for. Guys can't handle the truth! They always want to think they are marrying a lady so let them think it cause it sure doesn't hurt anybody.

As for my real number I'll never tell... Shhh
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Posted: Tuesday, November 16, 2010 5:00:30 PM

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There really is no answer for this, so I'm going to go back to reality now.
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Posted: Wednesday, November 17, 2010 9:44:23 AM

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i've never asked my wife this and its only recently its started to 'bother' me dont know why though, i wanna ask the question but dont want the answer dontknow
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Posted: Wednesday, November 17, 2010 1:24:03 PM

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Johnmoore wrote:
i've never asked my wife this and its only recently its started to 'bother' me dont know why though, i wanna ask the question but dont want the answer dontknow


Don't ask the question then John. You don't want the answer so leave it in the past.
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Posted: Wednesday, November 17, 2010 3:08:41 PM

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i think what bothers me most is if she said ''whats yours?''
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Posted: Wednesday, November 17, 2010 3:11:08 PM

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I think I would hope the subject would die then. Or say something like, "What does it matter anyway Darling? No one is as important as you."
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Posted: Thursday, November 18, 2010 2:19:14 PM

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chefkathleen wrote:
There really is no answer for this, so I'm going to go back to reality now.


Damn...you know things are bad when reality is starting to look good...


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Posted: Thursday, November 18, 2010 2:35:48 PM

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Notches on a belt, really doesn't matter. I could care less how many women he's been with as long as he know's I'm the best he'll ever have.
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Posted: Friday, November 19, 2010 6:55:14 AM

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sexualcircus wrote:
Notches on a belt, really doesn't matter. I could care less how many women he's been with as long as he know's I'm the best he'll ever have.


I hear that!!!





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Posted: Friday, November 19, 2010 9:12:12 AM

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DirtyMartini wrote:
chefkathleen wrote:
There really is no answer for this, so I'm going to go back to reality now.


Damn...you know things are bad when reality is starting to look good...


Egg-zackly.
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Posted: Monday, October 03, 2011 3:00:43 PM

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Buz
Posted: Monday, October 03, 2011 6:34:12 PM

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Nothing wrong with a little mystery.

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Posted: Wednesday, October 05, 2011 9:42:29 PM

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I don't care much about his past relationships. If I ask the question and he answers honestly, I'll be glad he's honest. I won't judge him, it's the past. As long as he's faithful to me then I really don't care, it's none of my business. If he feels uncomfortable answering that question then he can say so and let it be a mystery (just as long as he doesn't get fed up when I don't answer, fair is fair). People shouldn't dwell on the past, just move ahead and try not to make the same mistakes.
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Posted: Tuesday, October 18, 2011 9:34:17 PM

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Anything that happened before me is none of my business unless there's a story attached......

I've worked in the music business all my life and we're not known for being inexperienced or virginal.....

Everyone's got a past......

I'm in my late 40's now.......

(My experience and hers not withstanding, I STILL approach a new partner with a certain..... Well, 'shyness' isn't the right word, (particularly if it's a passionate encounter,) but there is a certain trepidation..... The first time you do it with a new person, (if it's not just a quick fuck) might as well be the first time you've ever done it......)

The numbers don't matter.....

Some years ago, a girlfriend who I knew well of old and who ended up living with me (and we were fond of each other) were lying in the afterglow of a rather steamy session and I happened to mention that the first time I'd had her had been really memorable for me..... A VERY experienced girl, I thought our first time was rather special......

"REALLY," she said..... "I thought it was really average and it was ages before I got into it......"

Looking at my ashen expression she giggled........

"It's FINE now," she murmured, and cuddled, and I think she did something nasty then to distract me.......

Couldn't care less about numbers.......

The first time I have you is the first time you have me....... What happens after that is the interesting bit...................

xx SF

(Just to make the point, when I was 36, (over 10 years ago) an Eighteen Year Old girlfriend of mine asked me if I could remember the names of every girl I'd ever slept with...... When I got to 185 names she asked me to stop......) True Story.



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Posted: Thursday, November 03, 2011 9:53:31 AM

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if you actually like the girl, don't ask her until you are both very committed. I asked my boyfriend after dating him for about a year, and he was my first, he told me hes done it with 10 other girls..made me feel less special, and hes a guy! imagine what the girl feels like when you ask her for her "number"!
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Posted: Monday, November 14, 2011 1:50:29 AM

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Number of how many partners should stay in the past. Asking a girl, she can lie or she can be truthful. You will never honestly know. So why ask? It's nice to know about the experience... but why not find out for yourself? She will tell you when enough is enough. She will tell you when she wants more or how she likes it. No need to ask for experience. If i asked a guy for his number and it is super high, i would consider him to be "dirty". Its just what comes to my mind. so i have to weigh the options if its worth it or not. I prefer not to know. because past is the past and the future is the future but today is what im living. Not the past.

Love always,
Country Cutie

P.S. Even if she did tell you her number.. if its high or low.. it doesnt determine her experience. My number is low. But yet i dated someone for almost 3 years. having sex all sorts of different ways about 5 times a week for 3 years. and that was just one person... Does this make me not experienced if i was only with one person? I dont think so. I know damn well what i am doing. :)

Love Always,
Country Cutie
realz
Posted: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 4:11:27 AM

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I've dated girls with a wide variety of numbers, never bothered me one way or another. I never pushed for an answer.

I didn't ask for my (now) wife's number, but early on it came out when we were filling out some fun survey. I think she watched me to see my reaction, but I had no problem with it. After that she was a bit more relaxed with me.


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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 8:59:46 AM

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Who cares? As Miles Davis so succinctly put it, "That was then; this is now."

"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
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