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Just curious if you guys have a preference... Would you like to be surprised by your girl wearing a new tiny outfit or lingerie? She might show up to meet you somewhere or just be waiting and ready in something skimpy and seductive. It would be unexpected and you would know that she felt sexy. OR Would you rather pick out something you'd really like to see her in? You could go shopping for lingerie together or send her some pictures so she knows what you really like. Then you would get exactly what you want and know she only wanted to please you.
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Can't speak for all guys but for me it's definitely being surprised.
It's no fun when I already know what shes going to wear.
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i would rather it if my girl surprised me. she has a nice collection of lingerie and she has good taste so i know she will be sexy for me.
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I really dig being suprised. It's way more fun to be spontanious.
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suprised for sure!
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Actually much more interesting then bedroom clothing lingerie is when she wears sexy outdoor clothes in public... devilishly short dress or lightweight top that really shows her braless boobs... that is what I like.
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Let her suprise me. sometimes i buy it for her but i never know when she will wear it.
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Suprises definitely work on me
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Most definitely.....Surprise me!! It's like Christmas anytime of the year! A few years after we were married, my wife arrived at my office wearing lingerie under a trench coat.....it was an interesting ride home!
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There's clearly a consensus! I had expected there might be guys into the control of making their girls wear something revealing. But I see the idea of a nice sexy surprise sounds more fun to everyone. Thanks for the input!
The fear and the yearning
It's gonna eat you alive
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definitely be surprised. that whole aspect of being surprised just takes it to a whole new level and as a guy I can tell you there is almost nothing better than coming home to your girl all dressed up and waiting for you to have your way with her
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I have had both, and love both equally. variety is the key, always surprising and never boring
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Essentially, I would like to be surprised with something that I know she feels sexy in. In my experience, when the woman feels sexy, she is much more enthusiastic about pleasing me; having said that, I think women feel most sexy when they wear something that they KNOW will turn their man on
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 I totally agree with the Majority I loved to be surprised by the woman
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I like to pick her outfits out for her. Perhaps it's a male control thing but I live to pick out everything down to lipstick and ear rings.
I feel dissapointed when she does not dress the way I asked.
sometimes she picks out my clothes but it does not seem to do as much for her.
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id rather her to be wearin g a nice dress ect and the peel it off to show the sexy underwear
sexy pair of french nics n lacy bra
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I'd like her to drive to and then pick me up at the curb @ the airport, wearing nothing but a mischievous smile and a mid-thigh length fur coat. In heels. I'd enjoy escorting her to VS to let her pick out an assortment of comfy panties and brassieres. She's the one wearing them, after all. If they are not comfortable, what good are they. Besides, it's the woman who makes the clothing sexy. She's just as smoldering in a pair of comfy jeans, a pull over t-shirt and running shoes as she is, dressed to the nines in nightclub wear or some sheer teddy she has selected. I've heard that most men would rather be caught baking a cake, then inside a lingerie shop (with or without their girlfriend/wife). I am not in that category of men. I bake a mean cake, too.
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next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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prefer her to surprise me
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Surprise and variety also work for me.
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I rather my woman surprise me.
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Surprise definitely.
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I love a surprise. And there is none better than her showing up to meet me somewhere after work, wearing her normal work clothes - the "power suit" - or her "casual Friday" outfit, and discovering she is not wearing panties. OMG! What a turn-on!
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l go shoopping togehter so we both know what l like to see her dressed in...l might even have to get something for myself, my collection of lingerie is never finished...Besides have you ever been in the same dressing room helping her slip into the lingerie that may be purchased....carefull though you might buy more than you thought you would...l usually do
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I buy her a lot of stuff and we both enjoy that...... Every now and then she surprises me by wearing stuff she's picked out herself and that ALWAYS delights me more!!!!! xx SF
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I like the SURPRISE! ....lingerie and a hand gun are always fun! 
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Surprise me!!
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Definitely the surprise!
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Definitely like the idea of being surprised by her wearing some sexy lingerie when I walked in through the door - oh yeah! 
"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element "If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
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"to be surprised by her,is surely the ultimate compliment,and should be rewarded"
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Both!!! For my birthday we went into the store and looked through the naughty outfits together, then my girl made me leave while actually bought the outfit. She teased me about it for rest of the day, which only made it that much better when she showed it off. The build-up made for a very intense orgasm.
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