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ricinatl
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 9:46:56 AM

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If an unknown man walks up to you and says;

You have a beautiful ass.

You have a great body.
MMonroe
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 12:33:59 PM

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Who is he?
How old is he?
Is he creepy or charming?



*Uncomfortable silences. Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshit in order to be comfortable?*



Guest
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 1:13:24 PM

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I depends on where and how it is done. At a funeral, work, church.....offensive. Cat calls across a parking lot.....offensive. Touching, leering, or drooling.....offensive. If, you smile nicely and tell me that I have shapely backside, that is a compliment. And, I love compliments!
Nikki703
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 1:26:59 PM

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Slow_Curves_Ahead wrote:
I depends on where and how it is done. At a funeral, work, church.....offensive. Cat calls across a parking lot.....offensive. Touching, leering, or drooling.....offensive. If, you smile nicely and tell me that I have shapely backside, that is a compliment. And, I love compliments!


Totally agree. It depends on the situation. Although I would be more impressed if he/she said something like I have a beautiful smile than saying I have a great ass.
lafayettemister
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 1:33:50 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:
Slow_Curves_Ahead wrote:
I depends on where and how it is done. At a funeral, work, church.....offensive. Cat calls across a parking lot.....offensive. Touching, leering, or drooling.....offensive. If, you smile nicely and tell me that I have shapely backside, that is a compliment. And, I love compliments!


Totally agree. It depends on the situation. Although I would be more impressed if he/she said something like I have a beautiful smile than saying I have a great ass.


Hi Nikki. Have I mentioned you have a great vertical smile? That work?





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Guest
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 1:37:40 PM

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quite frankly, I'd not be impressed.

coffee
ricinatl
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 1:42:12 PM

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If a guy said that at a funeral he probably would be a bit creepy, but how many funerals do you go to.

Let's say he is the average Joe (35-50 yrs old) . He was standing behind you in the elevator and as the crowd exits he simply says "excuse me miss but I just wanted you to know you have a great ass."

As a guy, if a lady said that to me I would love it. Do you ladies feel the same?
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 1:42:58 PM

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It would totally depend on the setting...

My reaction could equally be a smile or a 'fuck off'

And if they mentioned a vertical smile they'd get a slap for sure!
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 1:51:40 PM

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ricinatl wrote:
If a guy said that at a funeral he probably would be a bit creepy, but how many funerals do you go to.

Let's say he is the average Joe (35-50 yrs old) . He was standing behind you in the elevator and as the crowd exits he simply says "excuse me miss but I just wanted you to know you have a great ass."

As a guy, if a lady said that to me I would love it. Do you ladies feel the same?


still not impressed.

coffee

some things should not be said ......

though, I know for sure, there are LOTS of women under 30 that it would appease their skank-ness.
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 2:02:31 PM

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Yahtzee wrote:
ricinatl wrote:
If a guy said that at a funeral he probably would be a bit creepy, but how many funerals do you go to.

Let's say he is the average Joe (35-50 yrs old) . He was standing behind you in the elevator and as the crowd exits he simply says "excuse me miss but I just wanted you to know you have a great ass."

As a guy, if a lady said that to me I would love it. Do you ladies feel the same?


still not impressed.

coffee

some things should not be said ......

though, I know for sure, there are LOTS of women under 30 that it would appease their skank-ness.


Very eloquently stated! ;) No wonder I like you so much! evil4
Kimasa
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 2:04:12 PM

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I wouldn't be offended I would hitch up my skirt, rip off my knickers and ping them at him and say "I can't resist that chat up line, fuck me big boy"

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
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Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 2:12:00 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:
Slow_Curves_Ahead wrote:
I depends on where and how it is done. At a funeral, work, church.....offensive. Cat calls across a parking lot.....offensive. Touching, leering, or drooling.....offensive. If, you smile nicely and tell me that I have shapely backside, that is a compliment. And, I love compliments!


Totally agree. It depends on the situation. Although I would be more impressed if he/she said something like I have a beautiful smile than saying I have a great ass.


I definately agree, that was one of the things that attracted me to the bf. He ignored everything below the neck. He told me I had beautiful eyes, lips, mind, smile, and hair. He even said I have a cute nose and ears. He never said a word about my body until we were intimate. Most men have never looked above the boobs.
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 2:18:42 PM

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ricinatl wrote:
If a guy said that at a funeral he probably would be a bit creepy, but how many funerals do you go to.

Let's say he is the average Joe (35-50 yrs old) . He was standing behind you in the elevator and as the crowd exits he simply says "excuse me miss but I just wanted you to know you have a great ass."

As a guy, if a lady said that to me I would love it. Do you ladies feel the same?


I go to a lot of funerals and have had that experience at them. To answer your other question, not really liking the use of the word "ass" coming from a stranger.
Beckey
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 3:08:00 PM

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If he said I had a beautiful body, under most circumstances I would be flattered.

If a stranger told me I had a nice ass, I would be turned off. Very out of line for a strainger.
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Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 4:50:17 PM

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I wouldn't be offended. Its always nice to be complimented. But I may not be particularly impressed either because its not very imaginative and as already noted above the time and place matters. But sometimes its nice to get a simple compliment, even if he doesn't really mean it :)
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Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 6:58:24 PM

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Impressed no, flattered of course! If he was handsome even better!
LauraLee_sugah
Posted: Wednesday, October 19, 2011 5:14:16 PM

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i would smile sweetly, open my fan and fan myself, then walk away....

sometimes i have to watch....

read my masturbation story, Isla
DLizze
Posted: Wednesday, October 19, 2011 8:54:20 PM

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I was in line at the grocery store several weeks ago behind a woman who was positively beautiful. (And, yes, her pencil skirt clearly showed off a beautiful ass). Her car happened to be next to mine, so when we were in the parking lot loading our cars, and there was no one else around, I said to her, "Begging your pardon, Ma'am, but I just want to tell you that I think you are drop-dead gorgeous."
She looked at me, and positively BEAMED, then said, "Thank you,"and got in her car and drove off. It felt good to think I had maybe bightened someone's day a little. (Now, I must admit, I was thinking ,"What a great ass!", but I would NEVER say that to a total stranger. (And if someone said to me, "You have a beautiful lump in your pants", I would be equally offended.)

I believe there are certain rules of civility that shoiuld be maintained in all situations, and complimenting strangers is one of them. Keep it honest, clean, and private. That shows a little restraint, and a little respect.

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Posted: Wednesday, October 19, 2011 11:57:20 PM

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DLizze wrote:
I believe there are certain rules of civility that shoiuld be maintained in all situations, and complimenting strangers is one of them. Keep it honest, clean, and private. That shows a little restraint, and a little respect.


If I got dressed in my sluttest short skirt and most revealing top to go out to the clubs and pick up men (or women), then I would be patting myself on the back.

Otherwise, what DLizze said.

When I was High School, the weirdest comment I ever received was a stranger coming up to me while I was at the mall, and complimenting me on my small feet. He stared (and stared) at them in wonder and awe - a good four (very long) minutes. I was somewhat confused and a little flattered. Now a little wiser, knowing that he must of had a foot fetish, I would feel just a little creeped out. There is a time and place for everything - one, I was UA and secondly, I was shopping! No-one should ruin a woman's day of shopping. Never! LOL evil4
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Posted: Thursday, October 20, 2011 3:06:24 AM

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I would say thank you, smile sweetly and walk away hoping he doesn't try to pounce on me as soon as my back is turned.
belle
Posted: Thursday, October 20, 2011 5:18:16 AM

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id take it as a compliment!! man i worked for that ass bates
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Posted: Thursday, October 20, 2011 10:23:53 AM

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DLizze wrote:
I was in line at the grocery store several weeks ago behind a woman who was positively beautiful. (And, yes, her pencil skirt clearly showed off a beautiful ass). Her car happened to be next to mine, so when we were in the parking lot loading our cars, and there was no one else around, I said to her, "Begging your pardon, Ma'am, but I just want to tell you that I think you are drop-dead gorgeous."
She looked at me, and positively BEAMED, then said, "Thank you,"and got in her car and drove off. It felt good to think I had maybe bightened someone's day a little. (Now, I must admit, I was thinking ,"What a great ass!", but I would NEVER say that to a total stranger. (And if someone said to me, "You have a beautiful lump in your pants", I would be equally offended.)

I believe there are certain rules of civility that shoiuld be maintained in all situations, and complimenting strangers is one of them. Keep it honest, clean, and private. That shows a little restraint, and a little respect.


wow. that was really pretty much perfect. that would totally make my day. what a perfect way to handle it. :)
blazestcyr
Posted: Thursday, October 20, 2011 11:49:25 AM

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never offended


and never mind a good whistles too


when they stop whistling...then i will be offended



what a good no and an eye full of mace ..works wonders
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Posted: Thursday, October 20, 2011 12:09:11 PM

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Kimasa wrote:
I wouldn't be offended I would hitch up my skirt, rip off my knickers and ping them at him and say "I can't resist that chat up line, fuck me big boy"


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Posted: Thursday, October 20, 2011 12:13:30 PM

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Chance would be a fine thing LOL, but I think I would be offended or I would burst out laughing depending on the man.
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