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So basically on 5th November it will be exactly a year since my boyfriend and I first had sex, and I'd like some ideas to try out for fun ;)
1. Sex music? Whats the best music to listen to while having sex?
2. Positions? We usually do a combination of the following; missionary, doggy, girl on top, spooning, sat up, on a chair or over his desk. Any more we can add?
3. Any little things I could do to turn him on before hand? Ways I can tease him?
4. We're going out for dinner- what should I wear!?!?!?!????? Needs to be sexy but fairly decent haha.
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I think these are all questions that you should reflect on in the weeks leading up to the date. What music works for you, for him. Was there a concert you went to or a song playing at a club during a memorable night out? Having that close connection to a moment you shared is far greater turn on than just putting on the Teddy Pendergrass and getting to business. Be spontaneous. Is there something you have always wanted to do, but have been afraid to try? Your arousal is a more powerful aphrodisiac than any "Cosmo" tip.
You obviously care very deeply about your guy. Let that come through and it will surely be memorable.
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clum wrote:Barry White.
That is all. BW has definitely works some magic on a good many people .... Al Green too .... oh, and Marvin Gaye .... ooooooooh yessssssssssssssssssss
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R. Kelly's music is great for lovemaking too!
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wildside wrote:So basically on 5th November it will be exactly a year since my boyfriend and I first had sex, and I'd like some ideas to try out for fun ;)
1. Sex music? Whats the best music to listen to while having sex?
2. Positions? We usually do a combination of the following; missionary, doggy, girl on top, spooning, sat up, on a chair or over his desk. Any more we can add?
3. Any little things I could do to turn him on before hand? Ways I can tease him?
4. We're going out for dinner- what should I wear!?!?!?!????? Needs to be sexy but fairly decent haha.
Wear a nice short dress. Be sure he opens your car door for you when you get in. Flash your panties to him when you get in. On the drive, put your hand on his thigh and rub. At dinner go to the restroom and take your panties off and give then to him when you get back to the table. He's eyes and his crotch will bulge. After dinner when he opens your car door, flash your bare skin when you get in. By the time you get home he'll be ready to pounce.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
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all of Voodoo, by D'Angelo.
mmm.
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Yahtzee wrote:clum wrote:Barry White.
That is all. BW has definitely works some magic on a good many people .... Al Green too .... oh, and Marvin Gaye .... ooooooooh yessssssssssssssssssss Yes, Yes, and YES!
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Tie him up and fuck his brains out while blasting Slayer. 
Insert typical super smart ass comment courtesy of thepainter here.
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In the back of a car on some dark street... Or wherever it was that you first had sex. That's what I would do. If it's still possible, revisit that place when you first made the 'connection' and try to better that first experience.
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I was waiting for this to evolve .... and I have sat on my hands being a good girl ....  yup ..... good girl Yahtzee!
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Yahtzee wrote:I was waiting for this to evolve .... and I have sat on my hands being a good girl .... yup ..... good girl Yahtzee! Sitting on your hands with your fingers pointing upward and stuck inside holes A and/or B doesn't qualify as a good girl. It qualifies as a great girl.
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lafayettemister wrote:Yahtzee wrote:I was waiting for this to evolve .... and I have sat on my hands being a good girl .... yup ..... good girl Yahtzee! Sitting on your hands with your fingers pointing upward and stuck inside holes A and/or B doesn't qualify as a good girl. It qualifies as a great girl. sssssssssssshhhhh ....  whispers thanks baby!
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A nice bath together could be good.
Try sending him naughty messages or pics all day.
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thanks for all your comments guys!! got some good ideas :P xxx
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You seem to be doing fine!!!!!!
One suggestion........
If you're going out for dinner, at some point go to the bathroom and remove your panties.... Ball them up in your hand and as you sit back at table pass your damp panties to your partner......
(He'll be shocked for a second...... Then He'll love it!!!!!)
xx SF
(Just noticed that LaFayetteMissus was way ahead of me!!!!!!)
"I would do anything for love, including the thing Meatloaf won't do... (In fact, I sometimes insist upon it...)"xx SF
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Surreptitious touching under a table would be good I think and try the position where both are lying on sides facing each other- especially good if the woman has some pubic hair as it scratches the male very erotically in this position.
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Haha! I have no pubic hair to speak of...
Itwent very well actually- one of the best nights I've ever had! x
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First of all, congratulations!!
Teasing ideas:
1. Take a bubble bath together with wine and candle light, it's quite sensual.
2. Sensual massage with soft music and dim lights. You two can take turn massage each other, just take it slow, no rush and enjoy the connection.
Position:
1. By one top, I'm not sure if you tried reverse cowgirl. The feeling is different from the normal cowgirl.
2. How about stand-up positions like against the wall.
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