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I did a few times. I came to Lush to write stories, not cyber. I don't go in the chatrooms, because of that reason. Some of the guys think because of the stories I write that thats their opening to be a complete douchebag. After the first few "I want your ass" and "You make me so horny" I quit answering them. Some of the mail I'd get were interesting, but I ignored them too. It's the ones that would try to make you feel guilty for not answering them though that really pissed me off. I'm not here to be manipulated or pressured into talking with someone that won't take the time to have a conversation. Its a one way ticket to getting blocked and never being spoken to again.
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some days i'd think it would be eye opening to have a day during which all the women aggressively harass the guys, just to give them a little taste of what it's like. personally, i do use the chat rooms, only i use them to talk to friends, not to hook up with guys, and no matter what i (or any of the other girls) put in their bios, there is always someone pestering them to chat pvt - it's really mostly harmless, but it does get annoying at times, and omg, i hate that i have reverted to be invisible and away most of the time i am actually on line, but does anyone have any idea of what it's like to try to post in forums coherantly while getting bombarded with IMs and pokes? and please, don't get pissy at me if i am ignoring you - YOU try to be pleasant to 9 or 10 people at once IMing you at different rates - if i lose you, or don't get right back to you like right now, just cool your jets, capiche? especially if all you have to say is "i'm bored and horny" the worst ones are when i've been signed on for all of 2 seconds and i get like one person continuously poking me - now, if you're a good friend that i chat with all the time, that's cool, i'm pretty easy going, but if you're some guy who thinks i'm hot cause you saw the picture of Rapunzel that i use as my avatar and you read my KG stories? say hi, but don't keep poking me! omg, so, i'm in private room last night with my Mistress, and i needed some alone time, and yeah, you guessed it, chat request from the same guy, must have been 5 or 6 in the course of less then an hour. *sighs* if i ignore the first one, damn straight i am ignoring the others! oh, and the ones that kind of make me laugh are the messages i get asking if people can watch! if i wanted to be watched, i wouldn't make it password accessible only, believe me! to end with a positive note, the chatroom mods are my heroes - always seem to there when you need one, and very attentive if someones bothering you - it's not an easy job, i imagine, but they do it with grace and style. thank you. all of you.
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sprite wrote:have a day during which all the women aggressively harass the guys I vote for Dec 2nd 
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sprite wrote:oh, and the ones that kind of make me laugh are the messages i get asking if people can watch! if i wanted to be watched, i wouldn't make it password accessible only, believe me! Oh um.. I guess I should stop sending you those messages.
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sprite wrote:some days i'd think it would be eye opening to have a day during which all the women aggressively harass the guys, just to give them a little taste of what it's like. personally, i do use the chat rooms, only i use them to talk to friends, not to hook up with guys, and no matter what i (or any of the other girls) put in their bios, there is always someone pestering them to chat pvt - it's really mostly harmless, but it does get annoying at times, and omg, i hate that i have reverted to be invisible and away most of the time i am actually on line, but does anyone have any idea of what it's like to try to post in forums coherantly while getting bombarded with IMs and pokes?
and please, don't get pissy at me if i am ignoring you - YOU try to be pleasant to 9 or 10 people at once IMing you at different rates - if i lose you, or don't get right back to you like right now, just cool your jets, capiche? especially if all you have to say is "i'm bored and horny"
the worst ones are when i've been signed on for all of 2 seconds and i get like one person continuously poking me - now, if you're a good friend that i chat with all the time, that's cool, i'm pretty easy going, but if you're some guy who thinks i'm hot cause you saw the picture of Rapunzel that i use as my avatar and you read my KG stories? say hi, but don't keep poking me!
omg, so, i'm in private room last night with my Mistress, and i needed some alone time, and yeah, you guessed it, chat request from the same guy, must have been 5 or 6 in the course of less then an hour. *sighs* if i ignore the first one, damn straight i am ignoring the others!
oh, and the ones that kind of make me laugh are the messages i get asking if people can watch! if i wanted to be watched, i wouldn't make it password accessible only, believe me!
to end with a positive note, the chatroom mods are my heroes - always seem to there when you need one, and very attentive if someones bothering you - it's not an easy job, i imagine, but they do it with grace and style. thank you. all of you. Im So Sorry, I Promise Ill Stop!!!! HAHA!!
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Callisto wrote:
Oh um.. I guess I should stop sending you those messages.
wait, wasn't it my turn to harass you this week?
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Nikki703 wrote:
Im So Sorry, I Promise Ill Stop!!!! HAHA!!
not after it took me this long to get you started, Nikki! 
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TheDevilsWeakness wrote:I vote for Dec 2nd LOL - i just put it on my calander! 
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carmen_has36 wrote:!st indication of discomfort with a member... contact Lush.
If it is innocent no harm.
If it escalates they already have been informed and are here FOR us not against us.
Use them. These administrators are very smart and helpful. I wouldn't do this on the first indication of trouble. I'd delete/block people who are harassing me, then I'd contact Lush if there is further trouble. I'd probably confront the person if I think the other person believes there was a relationship beforehand, which is probably the case if I have to contact Lush. The way I see it, Lush has given me tools to deal with harmlessly creepy types, and I owe it to them to prove that it's beyond that.
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Occasionally yes but I'm good at using block and delete buttons :P
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Yes Especially by one... she kept on messaging me if i didn't reply To her immediately She would get so over dramatic and start to Message me why i wouldn't talk to her or give me guilt feelings for not talking to her when i'm busy with University or Real world stuff.
It was such an annoying 3 weeks with her But i stayed a True friend and talked to her stayed up countless nights listening to her problems tried to cheer her up almost every day all to have her Delete me tell me i wasn't a "Good Friend" Because i actually had a life outside of helping her with her drama the entire time.
It Became a main reason i keep status to invisible as she would poke me the second i came online That and to hide from most people that i dont have the strength to delete or block
But Most of the time if it's someone i dont know or Someone who Constantly sends me messages after i repeatedly told them to stop or someone who Just says "Hey want to cyber?" It's plain and simple Delete there message and block them and if It's someone who i'm friends with i'll just Keep my status to invisible and hide from them.
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I suspect that most men would say no, but I worry about about the intrepid ladies who brave the content on here. Some of the guys in the chat rooms are chauvinistic pigs with hard-ons, and I cringe at some of the conversation threads. Go private may be the two most used words in the chat rooms, and for the women maybe the scariest.
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Joined: 3/2/2011
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Location: Atlanta, United States
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hmmmmm. Should I consider it a problem that the women are constantly sending me pictures of their breasts and vaginas with messages that say stuff like, "I am so wet for you, I want to ride your face like its the Kentucky Derby!" 
Please check out my newest story: "10 Items Or Less"http://www.lushstories.com/stories/milf/10-items-or-less.aspxOr my previous story: http://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/in-the-land-of-salvation-and-sin.aspx
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Buz wrote:hmmmmm. Should I consider it a problem that the women are constantly sending me pictures of their breasts and vaginas with messages that say stuff like, "I am so wet for you, I want to ride your face like its the Kentucky Derby!" You poor, poor thing, Buz. You must just feel so gosh darn violated. Like a piece of man meat!!
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oh hell yes!! that curlygirly keeps sending me such weird pictures on my wall  but damn i love them and her. 
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slutpuppy wrote:oh hell yes!! that curlygirly keeps sending me such weird pictures on my wall but damn i love them and her. You know I love harassing the shit out of you, SP.  That tattoo with the nipple penis was phenomenal. Admit it!! Who else sends you lovin' like that??
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Curlygirly wrote:You know I love harassing the shit out of you, SP. That tattoo with the nipple penis was phenomenal. Admit it!! Who else sends you lovin' like that?? oh yes it was phenomenal and only you send me love like that, why i love you so but still  I'M KEEPING MY EYE ON YOU
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nope. never. i love the people at lush. its why im here :)
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littlemissbitch wrote:nope. never. i love the people at lush. its why im here :) Damn, I need to up my game if you aren't annoyed yet. I must be slacking?
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
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Have I ever been annoyed by someone on here, YES.
But mostly everyone is wonderful!!! xo xo xo
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I think we all have at some point. its those that don't read bio and send request, or maybe they do and don't care. have had couple comments in forums that can sometime bring a retort. haven't had reason to block anyone yet, but someone will step up for it. have t gone to chat rooms so that keeps that off radar.... most are friendly after getting to know you
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lafayettemister wrote:
Damn, I need to up my game if you aren't annoyed yet. I must be slacking?
aww LM i like how you annoy me. its best when you and dudealicious do it at the same time ;) (omg i get my name back and suddenly im naughty)
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I'm mostly just set to hidden these days...
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i do sometimes, especially as soon as i come online i get a poke, then a chat request, then an online message or 2, then another poke.
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Buz wrote:hmmmmm. Should I consider it a problem that the women are constantly sending me pictures of their breasts and vaginas with messages that say stuff like, "I am so wet for you, I want to ride your face like its the Kentucky Derby!"  Post of the week winner!
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Hide and they go away....
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I'm always kind of confused when someone messages me because I'm usually only checking the forums quickly, or I have the forums open in another tab and I come back to all these pokes and messages.
I don't mean to be rude ignoring people, but I'm still new to the forums and I'm not used to such instant prodding when I just want to check new topics.
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Could somebody abuse me please? I'd like to know what I'm missing
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