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Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 1:17:20 PM

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This is my first topic. I'm kind of new to Lush Forum so maybe there is a topic like this somewhere dontknow

Still here it is.

I recently read somewhere -- "finally a video I liked .. not the usual degrading bj"


Do you consider giving a bj degrading ... If so why?

wetpanty
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 1:30:12 PM

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no, not all all. sharing a loving moment. i lick to receive also !!!
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Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 1:33:07 PM

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It may be from a feminist viewpoint of witnessing the act.

If you look at it when a woman is on her knees in front of a many standing, them maybe.
I don't see it as submissive or anything degrading.

I think of a man or woman "servicing" each other sexually is a grand thing!
Oral sex whether it be "giving head" or "eating out" is very sexy!

Kisses!

Steph
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Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 3:40:59 PM

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Oh, I'd love to do it but am afraid, need some help doing it, once I do I think it would come naturally
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Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:18:31 PM

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In certain circumstances and positions (such as on your knees or being coerced into giving him a quick BJ without receiving anything in return) I see as submissive actions and I enjoy that role very much.

Degrading no, I don't see it in that way.

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
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Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:57:38 PM

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Giving a blowjob is the same as eating a woman. Both can be acts of beauty and can deliver great orgasm.

Of course, we see women jacked in the face often and rarely see men forced or handled roughly in this manner. Bummer because not only is it a turn-on to watch a woman stick her sweetness in a face and work it hard but also, it's great to watch a emotional dick sucking.

Imagine a mouth drenched dick and balls. So hard and slippery it slides down a relaxed throat as the balls hard become an extension and are allowed in the mouth as well. Then she strokes with her hand the places the mouth missed. After a while his blood red cock begs for the softness of the mouth and then the roughness of her hand. Shoving, he screams in a low manner as she sucks and then jerks the cream to his head and spills it over him to see the whiteness and then has to have the sweetness and eats it.

With a towel she wipes the wet and mess from him and wishes for more.

A blowjob is sex. It can be wonderful to receive him with your mouth as you should your vagina or your ass : )





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Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 11:21:11 AM

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They are only degrading if she has a good girl complex

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Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 12:02:27 PM

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No it's not degrading at all! I don't feel that way if I'm on my knees or laying on a bed! In fact I love it because I feel as though I'm in control regardless; if done right he will do anything you want him to!
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Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 1:30:50 PM

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Degrading? Not as long as it is consensual with someone you like. Then it's great fun! And fun when he reciprocates!!!!
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Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 1:36:30 PM

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So, if a man is on his knees licking/sucking his woman's crotch is that considered degrading too? I think not. Political correctness at it's worst. Keep that shit out of the bedroom.





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Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 1:57:04 PM

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Nothing is degrading if your doing it of your own free will and you are enjoying it.

And as far as "Good Girls" dont do those things, I enjoy Anal, Oral, Kinky Sex and a few other things I wont mention, but I think Im a "Good Girl", at least when it matters. LOL!

I am so sick of everything having to be politically correct. Its like the people who say stripping is degrading and exploits women. But in reality wouldnt the guys who are giving all their money to the dancer and then leaving horny and broke be the one who is exploited?
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Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 1:57:36 PM

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I dont find it degrading at all, when it comes to oral i love giving and receiving!

I can understand why not every woman like to watch oral on a porn, must of the times girls are just been mouth fuck and gagging and tearing and make up all over her face. Not my favorite thing of porns either.

But i have never felt degraded or felt like im degrading someone during oral!!
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Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 2:02:13 PM

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latinfoxy wrote:
I dont find it degrading at all, when it comes to oral i love giving and receiving!

I can understand why not every woman like to watch oral on a porn, must of the times girls are just been mouth fuck and gagging and tearing and make up all over her face. Not my favorite thing of porns either.

But i have never felt degraded or felt like im degrading someone during oral!!


That is because 99% of porn is made by men for men. If you ever see a porn vid made by a women director,or a vid made for couples enjoyment, the scenes are much more passionate and take the woman's pleasure into account too.
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Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 2:03:44 PM

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latinfoxy wrote:
I dont find it degrading at all, when it comes to oral i love giving and receiving!

I can understand why not every woman like to watch oral on a porn, must of the times girls are just been mouth fuck and gagging and tearing and make up all over her face. Not my favorite thing of porns either.

But i have never felt degraded or felt like im degrading someone during oral!!


Just my opinion here... but I see a difference between a blowjob and skull fucking.





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Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 2:04:28 PM

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No, it's not degrading.

There are certain cultures that do see it as degrading and prefer not to subject the 'wife' to giving BJ's (better to use the dirty hookers for that kind of thing).

Positions are also not degrading in themselves... it's just a play on dom/sub which every sex act can be labelled as. There is plenty of porn out there where the female is using a guy's face as a fuck-toy as well.

If it's consensual, then it's not degrading. There are many people that enjoy degrading/humiliation overtones as part of role-play but you've got to understand that it's just sexual role-play, not a statement about who those people are in their non-sexual lives.


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Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 2:08:30 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:


That is because 99% of porn is made by men for men. If you ever see a porn vid made by a women director, the scenes are much more passionate and take the woman's pleasure into account too.


You should watch some porn by the female director, Mason. You'd probably be shocked. Personally I think there is plenty of passion/pleasure in her films but she definitely takes the more raw route in this interpretation.

It's a little known fact that some of the most extreme porn out there is actually made by female directors. Yeah I know... it surprised me too!


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elainehoney
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Well I'm convinced that it's OK to give blow jobs, just gotta wait for the right opportunity.
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Posted: Thursday, December 15, 2011 4:25:53 AM

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To take my man's lovely velvety cock into my mouth - in whatever position. To see the look of ecstasy I'm inducing, written all over his face. To know his whole being is responding to my ultimate stimulus. To receive the hot flush of his deepest and most intimate body fluids and to commit it to its digestion within me. And finally, to know a part of his flesh is to become ultimately a part of my flesh. How the hell can that be degrading???



PS I'm reliably informed B/J's or oral sex along with anal sex was an illegal act here in UK forty years ago. Punishable by jail in some cases. Thankfully I'm a girl of today or I'd have a prison record as long as my arm.
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Posted: Thursday, December 15, 2011 10:45:52 PM

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I don't think the general act of giving a blowjob is degrading...it's the way it's done that can make it become degrading. when it's extra rough and there's a lot of unnecessary force added by the guy (i.e. making the girl gag, holding her nose, getting so rough that she ends up drooling all over the place, etc.) that's when it can go from something hot to something kinda gross. everybody has different levels of sexual comfort...some like it rough while others prefer slow and passionate, so what i would consider degrading could be another girl's biggest turn-on. to each its own, i suppose
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Posted: Friday, December 16, 2011 10:46:16 AM

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it's totally degrading. in fact, all sex is. sex should be for making babies, not for pleasure. that's how god intended it. all you people are going to burn in... *bursts into giggles*

actually, my first impulse was to say 'if it WAS degrading, i'd be doing it more!' - being degraded is kind of a turn on too, if you're in the proper mood. ok, you tell me, is 9 am too early to be drinking? drunken

yeah, i know, i need to take these questions more seriously. Hey, Nikki! seriously, if i was making porn, it would make most guys blush! want to make some porn with me? we'll have Doll direct! omg, it's gonna be scary! *giggles*

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/hardcore/west-coast-games-part-one-the-beach.aspx
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Posted: Friday, December 16, 2011 11:00:34 AM

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sprite wrote:
Hey, Nikki! seriously, if i was making porn, it would make most guys blush! want to make some porn with me? we'll have Doll direct! omg, it's gonna be scary! *giggles*


Just direct, not participate? I couldnt think of 2 hotter, more sexually adventurous open minded women than you and DD!! You have me a little frightened, but very excited too, LOL!!

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sprite wrote:
it's totally degrading. in fact, all sex is. sex should be for making babies, not for pleasure. that's how god intended it. all you people are going to burn in... *bursts into giggles*

actually, my first impulse was to say 'if it WAS degrading, i'd be doing it more!' - being degraded is kind of a turn on too, if you're in the proper mood. ok, you tell me, is 9 am too early to be drinking? drunken

yeah, i know, i need to take these questions more seriously. Hey, Nikki! seriously, if i was making porn, it would make most guys blush! want to make some porn with me? we'll have Doll direct! omg, it's gonna be scary! *giggles*


Sprite! What time should I come over for 'making-babies' practice?

PS. I like to blush!!!! I can see Dancing_Doll giving directions!!!director

sprite
Posted: Friday, December 16, 2011 1:01:34 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:


Just direct, not participate? I couldnt think of 2 hotter, more sexually adventurous open minded women than you and DD!! You have me a little frightened, but very excited too, LOL!!



yeah, i get that a lot, but really, i am not that scary! and you know, if you don't mind, we could add Magic Felix as our token man, cause i have it from reliable sources that he's a kinky MF too. oh, and yeah, can you imagine Doll directing?

No! that's not how you do it *smacks actress across ass with her crop* THIS is how you do it! Jeez, do i have to do EVERYthing myself? :D

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/hardcore/west-coast-games-part-one-the-beach.aspx
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Posted: Friday, December 16, 2011 1:02:42 PM

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Buz wrote:


Sprite! What time should I come over for 'making-babies' practice?

PS. I like to blush!!!! I can see Dancing_Doll giving directions!!!director


i am open 24/7, Buz! take a number at the door and take a seat in the waiting room - bring a book, though, the line gets kind of long at times. drunken

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/hardcore/west-coast-games-part-one-the-beach.aspx
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Posted: Friday, December 16, 2011 4:03:20 PM

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I hate a man fucking my mouth/throat.

When I'm giving you a blowjob, I'm- giving you a blow job.
If you want me to go deeper just add a small amount of pressure on my head, I'll get the hint.
I'm very good with hints.
Don't shove my head down your cock, I'm fully capable of doing that myself.

Lean back and enjoy it for [beep's] sake!


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Posted: Friday, December 16, 2011 5:10:54 PM

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Well said Cat Big Hugs

I don't find giving a blowjob degrading in the least. BUT I do see that it could be considered degrading in a porn video when they start slapping the girls face with their cock dontknow
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marian wrote:
This is my first topic. I'm kind of new to Lush Forum so maybe there is a topic like this somewhere dontknow

Still here it is.

I recently read somewhere -- "finally a video I liked .. not the usual degrading bj"


Do you consider giving a bj degrading ... If so why?



coffee Why do you thik it degrading and do you also think the dinning at the Y is a degrading act or do you like it when he is licking? 675-lick I think it is a great part of giving each other plesure and is the greatest thing to give for both man and woman... :d/
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sprite wrote:


yeah, i know, i need to take these questions more seriously. Hey, Nikki! seriously, if i was making porn, it would make most guys blush! want to make some porn with me? we'll have Doll direct! omg, it's gonna be scary! *giggles*


Can I waaaaatch? :D maybe some backstage passes? :D
airforcenympho
Posted: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 9:05:29 AM

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Giving a blow job is an erotic and intimate act. It is a big turn-on wither to initiate arousal prior to a good fucking or sucking and licking long enough to give your partner the gratification oforgasm and ejaculating down my throat. I dont see anything degrading about it at all.


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