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Dancing_Doll
Posted: Sunday, July 10, 2011 10:35:14 AM

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Keyheart wrote:
I know i shouldn't judge it because i have not tried it but...

But before i explain let me say this first, I am a very sensual guy. I love to feel connected with someone. AND NO I AM NOT GAY! I would rather eat my own vomit than have a guy do something to me or me him. I think it is wrong and disgusting.

That being said, I do think anal is absolutely awful. Something I never want to try.

For one, I do not see how it can be pleasurable. 2ndly, it seems like it would be too tight. 3rdly, i prefer (but dont always follow this) positions where i can look at my partner. Another thing it makes me feel gay, which is a major turnoff. I would much rather have regular sex with my partner.

The only good thing i would enjoy about anal sex, is that i wouldn't have to wear a condom/wouldn't have to worry about getting the girl pregnant.

I think it is utterly disgusting and I will never want to do it.


Uhmm... how did you come to fear that admitting that you are 'a very sensual guy' would cause us to think you are gay?

Your opening disclaimer "I shouldn't judge..." really set the ironic tone for the rest of your post. Vomit-eating aside, you might want to consider chilling down on the homophobia. It's fine that you're turned off by anal sex, but there's no need to use the thread as a platform for judging sexual orientation... Just sayin'.






clum
Posted: Sunday, July 10, 2011 10:43:59 AM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:

Your opening disclaimer "I shouldn't judge..." really set the ironic tone for the rest of your post. Vomit-eating aside, you might want to consider chilling down on the homophobia. It's fine that you're turned off by anal sex, but there's no need to use the thread as a platform for judging sexual orientation... Just sayin'.


Hear, hear!

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master117
Posted: Thursday, August 04, 2011 9:07:57 AM

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MMonroe wrote:
If a guy can stick his cock in it, chances are he will


This is probably the best explanation we can hope for. Personally, I've never tried it and don't feel any specific *need* to do so, but if a girl's into it, I certainly won't turn them down
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, August 10, 2011 4:29:53 PM

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I do find it quite amusing when women suspect that a man's enjoyment of anal sex with a woman suggests he might be gay. Like women don't have ass holes for fuck's sake?!?

Anal, done right, is an intense beautiful experience for both partners, whether it be slow, deep and gentle, or hard, fast and animal. And it's not just about enjoying her total submission, because prolonged for any amount of time, eventually she will ride that cock like Kali, and you will be the one gazing up in awe feeling fucked.

Women who don't enjoy anal, basically have a problem surrendering. And that is just a general extension of her need to control, which will no doubt permeate every other area of her life. So, paradoxically perhaps, women who don't want anal are actually the ones who need it the most. Anal will hurt them because they just will not relax and let go.
Pariah
Posted: Wednesday, August 10, 2011 4:43:11 PM

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Id say because its a tighter hole, also its just plain dirty really and not part of the norm. Me personally its not a huge want for me. Ive done it a fair few times and my gf at the time loved it when done right. It just another aspect of sex to explore.

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Posted: Wednesday, August 10, 2011 6:00:15 PM

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i don't know why but i really like it but only if the girls into it too
WanKaDDict
Posted: Tuesday, August 16, 2011 4:26:34 PM

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I'm still trying to persuade...

I will try most things and even negotiated a deal (not me but us) whereas I had my ass played with first - tongue, finger/s and a vibe. Bloody good session but no Green Light

She loves my tongue and fingers in there but still no to the pecker.

I'll keep trying though - and probably just because i'm not allowed.

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cromaH
Posted: Friday, August 19, 2011 11:53:16 AM

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Paige42985 wrote:
newb why are males so obsessed with anal sex. Most men I I know love it and I have to wonder why. That is the one act I refuse to do! It hurts and it is something I won't do! I am just curious


I have no idea, but I don’t like the anal sex
lfrancis
Posted: Friday, August 19, 2011 10:05:55 PM

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So, speaking from a woman's perspective... the same is true for gals who like to get it in the a... it is taboo and exciting... pluse we know we make you happy. Never did it til 40... lol... Life does get better after 40:)
NOLANCMike
Posted: Saturday, August 20, 2011 9:45:12 PM

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Never had it. Want to. She says NO.
bonscott11
Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 2:41:26 PM

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I"ve done it and love it. Though I don't get it as often as I want it. I love the feeling of having the tightness around me dick then havin just my head in there without anything around it. It feels completely different than being inside the vagina. Just an awesome feeling.
pleasuregiver9876
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:07:51 AM

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I love it but it is always up to the women if she wants to or not.
Michael_X
Posted: Friday, December 30, 2011 2:39:01 PM

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I enjoy doing it every now and then. It's a different feeling in my opinion. And also has a ummm. Guess you could dominating? Feeling as well.

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Posted: Friday, December 30, 2011 3:27:37 PM

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celebate wrote:


Women who don't enjoy anal, basically have a problem surrendering. And that is just a general extension of her need to control, which will no doubt permeate every other area of her life. So, paradoxically perhaps, women who don't want anal are actually the ones who need it the most. Anal will hurt them because they just will not relax and let go.



Umm..... no



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Posted: Saturday, December 31, 2011 3:08:21 PM

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Well..... in my case I never really liked it.. but he was too fast and too hard so I always said 1-2 times a year.... but now he has calmed down and takes it a bit slower and I sometimes initiate anal sex!!
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Posted: Saturday, December 31, 2011 5:23:56 PM

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To say all men are obsessed is simply not fair...
but there are some that seem to be, so to them I say ok you want anal sex here's the deal you let me shove something in your ass, maybe a big vibrator or a shampoo bottle and you let me fuck your ass, then the next time you want to fuck mine your on.

It has been scientifically proven that any woman can be satisfied with only 3 1/2 inches --- and it doesn't matter if it is Visa or Mastercard
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Posted: Sunday, January 01, 2012 11:30:36 PM

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I have not done anal....I have talked to girls who have an hated it, and ones who have loved it. I think itis fun to talk about as a taboo thing....but, cant imagine anything better feeeling than when I am behind a woman with my cock in her pussy....holding her hips...that is the best feeling ever to me. I dont need more. And I certainly am not the type to need to use something like that to demonstate power over someone. I like a partner in bed and life.
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Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 5:59:23 AM

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Its a taboo thing thats why i like it but I'm not OBSESSED by it, my current parter won't do it so thats that!

other times i have done it was at the request of the girl so that completely discredits the title of the thread!

Guest
Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 7:24:35 AM

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cheekymonkey wrote:
Its a taboo thing thats why i like it but I'm not OBSESSED by it, my current parter won't do it so thats that!

other times i have done it was at the request of the girl so that completely discredits the title of the thread!



She's not a keeper then?

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Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 7:37:14 AM

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As i said, its not all about Anal sex!! dontknow
veryoral_69
Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 7:41:16 AM

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I'm not a huge fan of anal....i've done it of course and have dated a few girls who were really into it. I think most guys like it because it seems so dirty...so forbidden. My experience is that a tight wet pussy is much more satisfying.
Poet27972
Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 2:56:54 PM

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Its not just anal sex I'm obsessed with, it any sex at all. Givin that, I would have to say that I find anal sex very enjoyable, both receiving and giving. As long as both people are attentive to each other it can be great. Its not something you want to push on the other partner though, they have to willingly receive.
wetpanty
Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 3:10:38 PM

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its usually tighter !!!
Pelicanbill
Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 3:36:08 PM

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I would not say that I am obsessed. I consider it as another act of making love as opposed to having sex. So long as the woman is up for it
and you respect her feelings I cannot see anything wrong with it, or it being an obsession.
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Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 3:49:59 PM

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i have done it on occasion. i would not veer towards the ass everytime i have sex. but i think it is the heat of the moment thing. i have never asked for it but the girls have. i think you will find that a guys first time doing anal it is usualy the girl who asks for it.
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Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 3:58:34 PM

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i am not obsessed with it just something differnt for a change
Mobius_NR
Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 5:29:32 PM

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The women I know who enjoy anal sex tend to be submissive women. the women I know who dislike anal sex usually are controlling women. Men - at least THIS man - likes that it's taboo, very warm, snug and a very accepting thing for a woman to submit to. At the same time it's not the Holy Grail of sex, so if a woman doesn't enjoy it or is flat-out afraid to try it, she has every right to set that boundary.
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Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 11:04:17 PM

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depends on the gal ur with, if u do it right, she can have the most amazing orgasm, so it all about if she wants it or not, us guys are only there to please My 2 cents

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Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 11:11:30 PM

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For me not only does it feel very good, it's also a dominace thing. Sometimes I like being dominate in bed and that is the best way I've found to satisfy that urge. I've had anal performed on me, too, when I was dating a guy. It was quite a submissive feeling too. I liked it a lot myself as long as plenty of lube is involved.

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Posted: Wednesday, January 04, 2012 7:40:26 PM

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It is not all males that are obsessed with anal sex. The few times I have had anal sex 90% of the time it was requested by the woman; and the other 10% it was only after a conversation with women who had never tried anal and wanted to try it to see if they liked it. They did like it, enough to do it again, but it wasn't a priority for those women
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