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heartoftheweb
Posted: Wednesday, August 31, 2011 8:47:23 PM

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3some Curiosity is getting the better of me and I have to know. If you have had a 3some before, how would you honestly describe the experience? Would you do it again? Any down side?

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Guest
Posted: Thursday, September 01, 2011 11:11:12 AM

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I am a bottom gay transvestite, and have had threesomes with Male/Female couples twice. They were both good experiences. Both times we started out with me sucking the male and the female watching. I get turned on by exhibitionism, and really enjoyed being coached by a woman while being a cock slut for her man. One time the woman, a wife in that case, did not participate at all, the other time I performed cunnilingus on the female, and she used a dildo on me while I was fellating the male. Never done a threesome with two males or two females. But, I'm definitely interested. I think you have to be careful about the people with whom you play. I don't do SM/Bondage/Pain and would be reluctant to meet with a couple for that purpose. I used to fantasize about going out with my ex-wife as two girls on the prowl, and picking up guys for a group party, but that's probably never going to happen, unfortunately.
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Posted: Thursday, September 01, 2011 11:27:10 AM

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i lost what was at the time a good friend due to one...
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Posted: Friday, September 09, 2011 7:52:05 PM

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I've been in 3 threesomes, All involved straight people.
I've been in a FMF threesome twice with the same girl. We both focused on the man. There was very little physical interaction amongst the females.
I've also been in a MFM threesome. That was fun but a lot of work as their attention was solely on me. There were no physical interactions between the men. I know we had fun but I think I had the most fun.

In each situation emotions ran high and ran the risk of ruining a good thing. Fortunately all involved were friends and necessary discussions and care were implemented. Threesomes can be dicey. Be very careful whom you enter that agreement with. Have lots of candid discussions beforehand.
Basinah
Posted: Saturday, September 10, 2011 6:43:27 AM

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I have only been involved in a couple of tree-somes (and technically one 4-some) but my expereince, and that of friends I have discussed it with, is:

*It can add spice to an already strong primary relationship, but will tear a weak one apart.*

I admit I have a lovely time during my adventures, and would do it again in a heartbeat, * with the right people *. For my first experience, my partner became addicted to the rush, and "plain old me" was no longer enough for him. A lesbian friend of mine had the exact same experience, and I have heard it from others. That being said, these relationships already had other issues; this was just one more crack.

I agree with rockstar, lots of open, candid and sober conversation beforehand is very important.
one2run
Posted: Saturday, September 10, 2011 12:13:25 PM

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I've had both FFM & MMF They were both great and had each one more then once with the same people. The sex was great!! The girls were very good friends and played together very well. We all had wonderful times with this but it can be very bad ( later ) if not careful. I would say give it a try. Just know that everyone has to be open about everything and NO HOOK UPS on the side lmao. That can cause be trouble.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, September 28, 2011 9:19:48 PM

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why would 3 somes be bad there great the more the merrier!!! {}
Bsexxy
Posted: Wednesday, October 05, 2011 12:49:20 PM

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I've had a ffm 3some a 3 times my hubby n I with a freiend. Good experience but it did change the friendship. Your marriage HAS to be strong enough to take it. We have been looking to do it again but it is very hard to find a third willing woman. We would like someone we don't currently have a friendship with, but as I said that is proving to be hard to find. If anyone has a suggestion please let me know :-)
Guest
Posted: Thursday, October 13, 2011 9:20:15 AM

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I recently had a g/f after over 20 years of marriage. She is a friend of my sister. One night the 3 of us were chatting when my sister said she couldn't imagine kissing anther woman. So my g/f kissed her! I have never been so scared in my life as to what might happen. After my sister recovered, she went home and it hasn't been discussed since. It was so erotic though. G/f has moved on now as well
LaClint
Posted: Thursday, October 13, 2011 9:36:15 AM

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I have been in a few 3 somes 3 times MFM, an 5 more FMF, I had MFM with couples I had met one was an online meeting, one was a couple I met at a bar in Vegas. I had one 3 some with my wife it was with a friend. Every 3 some was very erotic an exciting each time very different. Down sides none. Do it again hell yeah!!!!
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, October 18, 2011 6:44:51 AM

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Coco
Posted: Tuesday, October 18, 2011 10:53:13 AM

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I have had many FFM threesomes and have never had one that ruined a relationship. You must be in a very strong relationships with complete honesty and trust. These types of encounters are not for everyone and so if the person is in a weak relationship adding a third equates to doom.

SWEETLADY1354
Posted: Friday, October 21, 2011 11:39:46 PM

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I am having a threesome experience with one of hubby's friends. It has been going on for more than 4 years. It is fun and all of us enjoy each others company. There is noting wrong with it and my hubby is very open minded and he is not jealous.
Buz
Posted: Thursday, October 27, 2011 6:20:56 AM

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I have never been in a bad threesome! Totally fun, erotic and amazing!!!!

Guest
Posted: Thursday, October 27, 2011 8:57:13 AM

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I've had some wonderful experiences - I spent an amazing summer with a girl who matched my libidinous hunger and we seduced several beautiful women together. It was great, lighthearted fun, and everyone enjoyed themselves.

I've had casual threesomes, and liaisons involving more serious partners; most have gone swimmingly. It all hinges on all three being comfortable and unencumbered by thoughts of possession or envy. I've had one or two end because of this, but only one end badly.

I will be writing about one of my favourite threesomes shortly, involving a couple I knew in our early 20s. In the meantime, I have one up that I would very much love some feedback on. Chapter II introduces the third partner. Links are below.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, October 27, 2011 9:05:52 AM

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Your stories are fab Imp - I'd recommend them too...

On teh subject of threesomes, well, I've never had one...

However, I did have the most amazing dream about one last night (involving two of my very favourite Lushies!!!)

Ha, ha, still tingling at the thought of it!!! Thanks guys! hahah

Now, if a threesome would work out that way, I'd be all for it!!
beowulf69
Posted: Thursday, November 03, 2011 8:15:26 PM

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Threesomes are good. 2 girls and 1 guy are the best.

My first story for Lush is posted, The Goodbye Fuck.
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/the-goodbye-fuck.aspx
Unlaw
Posted: Wednesday, December 07, 2011 10:28:28 PM

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I've had both fmf and mfm...both were great experiences as I knew the people I was with, and we were all very comfortable with each other.
shelley2013
Posted: Sunday, January 01, 2012 7:22:13 PM

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ive had some good ones the only ones that kinda sucked was the ones i used to have with my ex. cause he rather fucked the other girl than me.
sbp
Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 10:44:17 AM

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I was 'given' my GFs best friend once as a birthday present and we had MFF sex throughout the night and the morning. We were all friends before and remained so after and repeated it a few times before I split with my GF some time later for completely unrelated reasons. I'm still friends with her best friend 12 years on ;)

I think that's pretty rare though from the conversations I've had with other people where things get to wierd and jealously sets in. I guess the old casino addage is true in this instance too, "Only gamble with what you're prepared to lose".
Hidesert
Posted: Saturday, February 04, 2012 10:42:37 AM

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Regaeman Man Don't think I have ever had a bad 3some, they are always good!!!
MissyLuvsYa
Posted: Saturday, February 04, 2012 8:53:53 PM

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I had a wonderful threesome once. In fact you can go to my Lush page and read about it. :)
Guest
Posted: Saturday, February 04, 2012 11:28:13 PM

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The sex is wonderful, but its the complications afterwards so pretty much only have one if ur in a very strong, secure relationship, and u trust ur partner completly
alexmarch
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 12:13:56 AM

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Been in a threesome only once - mmf. I was the new addition in an already established relationship. The sex was great and even though I am straight, I found it surprisingly natural to have guy on guy contact too. Great eye opener and lots of fun. It was only meant to be a one time event so there were no expectations...no pressure. Not sure what it would have been like if my own friend or partner were involved...then I could see how the aftermath could be awkward, especially if one or the other developed a stronger attachment or just the opposite, if they didn't want a repeat. Otherwise I would be open for another in a heartbeat.
Devon83
Posted: Friday, March 16, 2012 2:37:15 AM

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It would be nice to try!!!
BigOne1984
Posted: Sunday, March 25, 2012 2:34:28 PM

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3 somes are a good thing. My wife and I were in a 3 way relationship with another straight male for about a year. We're still married. He move away and we moved too. That relationship ended. It was totally fun and highly erotic. She loved having two cocks to play with all the time. She also loved having a cock in her mouth and one in her pussy. It was great while it lasted.
BSlain
Posted: Sunday, March 25, 2012 8:06:36 PM

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I find the idea of a threesome to be unfair. Simplest reason is the number, it's odd. I know people can argue the same amount of lovin' can be given to each person, but I don't believe that to be true. I feel that the amount of time could be shared but someone might feel left out for whatever reason specific to their situation. I suppose that's just me though, I may just be a selfish lover :p
Ruthie
Posted: Monday, March 26, 2012 10:58:13 PM

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I'm pretty sure I've answered this question before, but my idea of a threesome is me and two guys. My boyfriend's idea of a threesome is him, me and another girl. We just can't get together on the logistics. I want all the attention.
bidewey61
Posted: Friday, April 06, 2012 7:34:11 PM

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i've been in a total of three 3-ways...two were mostly mistakes. however, my first one (on wkends for a cpl years) were with a married cpl in their mid-40s (i was in my mid-20s) was a blast....i learned a great deal about sex from them...they taught me the playfulness an d adventure in exploring new things. some wkends the focus would be on her...other times him and sometimes me...there were times were it was very casual andnot really planned...other times, we played out scenarios and fantasies. we had a good friendship and i grew to love them both. i miss themn and recall them most fondly.
use a lot of communication (which is what intercourse actually means), honesty, a sense of fun, adventure, and respect. most of all have fun!
Guest
Posted: Friday, April 06, 2012 9:08:00 PM

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The first time I had a 3some was so awesome. My gf had a wine tasting party and when everyone had gone, her best friend asked if we could have fun. We had a great time but then things changed. They are fun but you have to know what you're getting into. I think my next story will be about that sex-perience. Have fun and hope to hear about it.
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