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Posted: Thursday, December 08, 2011 12:02:43 PM

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i have requested this of a few of my past girlfriends, none of which were open to the idea. however one of my ex's expressed how utterly kinky she was, after we had split, and now i wish i had taken advantage of that. so please....feedback is appreciated. thanks
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Posted: Thursday, December 08, 2011 12:19:10 PM

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My reply may not be the best to gauge your replies by since Hubby and I have been in the lifestyle for many years!

But to answer your question, YES! As I know it will get him off! Much like I enjoy seeing him with another woman!

Kisses!

Steph
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Posted: Thursday, December 08, 2011 1:22:34 PM

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Surprise, surprise....Nope

I've always been attracted to men who are a bit possessive and who don't share well. Also, I don't find the idea appealing at all.
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Posted: Thursday, December 08, 2011 3:43:59 PM

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mabye
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Posted: Thursday, December 08, 2011 4:07:15 PM

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I don't think he would ever ask me to,, he enjoys when we have another male watching,, but I doubt he would want to sit out on the action. But I mean if he really wanted something like that,, I would do it,, but I don't think I could really get into it. dontknow
elainehoney
Posted: Thursday, December 08, 2011 6:42:05 PM

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thinking on that one, but then again, what's there to think about??
Guest
Posted: Thursday, December 08, 2011 8:19:17 PM

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yes....I would invite him back to our bed too
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Posted: Thursday, December 08, 2011 9:03:00 PM

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Absolutely but sadly he never will

Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X

Guest
Posted: Friday, December 09, 2011 2:44:00 AM

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never ever
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Posted: Saturday, December 10, 2011 1:22:04 PM

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thank you for all of the replies. and i am getting the general consensus is that it depends completely on the person, as does everything else in life.

poizen- why wont he??
Dazzling- i think most women couldnt get into it, if they were really committed to the relationship. my question is, when does lust prevail over love if the love is strong enough? or should it ever?
Guest
Posted: Saturday, December 10, 2011 2:03:14 PM

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I don't think I could. Part of being in a relationship, for me, is allowing myself to be completely vulnerable with that one person. To do that with someone else would be beyond me.
naughtykim
Posted: Saturday, December 10, 2011 3:34:34 PM

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i sure would but i dont think he would ever be into it
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Posted: Saturday, December 10, 2011 3:56:15 PM

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Hubby and i have talked about it at length and i would do it...
skeldana
Posted: Sunday, December 11, 2011 12:16:38 AM

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Being lesbian ...
IF a woman I was with wanted to see me with another woman ... why not ? To be with a guy? No way.
Shazz
Posted: Sunday, December 11, 2011 4:03:16 AM

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We have talked about it and we almost certainly will at some time, but not yet.

Ask me anything at:
spring.me/shazza1991
Guest
Posted: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:11:33 AM

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Severely doubt the day would ever come when my b/f asked me to sleep with another man - but the hell ... I wish it would.
SylviaK
Posted: Sunday, December 11, 2011 9:31:57 AM

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With another man? Not very likely at all.
But with another woman? Less unlikely.


"Don't Believe Everything You Think"

Guest
Posted: Sunday, December 11, 2011 1:00:58 PM

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Maybe...
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Posted: Sunday, December 11, 2011 9:22:58 PM

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hmmmm.....i don't think i could/would actually fuck another man while my boyfriend watched but i would def be into flirting, picking up another guy and maybe giving him a blowjob etc. while my boyfriend watched.

Guest
Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 1:09:30 AM

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I'm not in a relationship at the moment so I don't have a man as such. However, No! I don't think I would. Not while he was watching anyway. Threesomes or more are OK when you are single but they can put a strain on a relationship. If your relationship can handle it though, I say go for it! LOL Alison
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Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 1:20:07 AM

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I've thought about two guys before but don't know if I'd just sleep with a guy and let my partner watch unless it was his all time fantasy. If he'd join in then it would be yes
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Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 2:14:17 AM

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nope... I'd be thinking too much about what if he changes his mind - when he can't. I would never let him sleep with another woman.
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Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 7:06:44 AM

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Yes for sure , if it pleases him and I fancy the guy ....why not everyone wins ....
Guest
Posted: Thursday, December 15, 2011 4:27:41 PM

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Maybe double standards, I would sleep with another guy but would goad if he went with another woman.
AnnieLuvsToFu
Posted: Thursday, December 15, 2011 5:47:38 PM

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Of course! I have many times and my husband loves to watch me and I love to watch him with another woman too. I love the look on her face as my husband gives her pleasure.
mywife78
Posted: Wednesday, January 04, 2012 6:47:32 AM

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Have once. And we went through a rough patch working out the after ripples....
mywife78
Posted: Wednesday, January 04, 2012 6:48:44 AM

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Have once. And had a very rough patch as we worked through the after-ripples. Having said that...with better planning, yes I would again.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 04, 2012 7:08:03 AM

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We have once, it wasn't all that great. Now with another woman, OH YEA
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