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Shylass
Posted: Wednesday, February 01, 2012 2:01:01 PM

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Do you think there is someone for everyone, or are some people meant to be single, or do neither matter to you?

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JesseS
Posted: Wednesday, February 01, 2012 5:21:43 PM

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This is one of those questions that can generate pages of philosophical, psychological and even religious turmoil. However, I think that what should be critical to you is the simple to ask, yet difficult to answer, questions of, 'am I happy' and/or, when presented with options, 'will this or that make me happy.' The quickest road to discontent is to try to please others against the desires of self. If one finds a complimenting partner, great. If one does not find said partner, they are at least better off than if they tried a force fit.
Shylass
Posted: Wednesday, February 01, 2012 5:31:36 PM

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JesseS wrote:
This is one of those questions that can generate pages of philosophical, psychological and even religious turmoil. However, I think that what should be critical to you is the simple to ask, yet difficult to answer, questions of, 'am I happy' and/or, when presented with options, 'will this or that make me happy.' The quickest road to discontent is to try to please others against the desires of self. If one finds a complimenting partner, great. If one does not find said partner, they are at least better off than if they tried a force fit.


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suezq
Posted: Wednesday, February 01, 2012 7:58:08 PM

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I do believe there is someone for everyone. But, not necessarily one someone for everyone. Maybe different someones at different stages of your life. Circumstances don't always allow them to find each other though.
musikboy
Posted: Wednesday, February 01, 2012 8:09:11 PM

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Well i dont think so.. But i just hope there is someone for everyone..
Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 02, 2012 12:19:24 AM

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I believe people are compatible with a lot of other people but whether you meet any of these people at a time in both of your lives when things will work out depends on very many factors. Since it is complicated people like to reduce it to fate but I don't believe there are meant to be's. I think the best anyone can do is to is just be open to the possibility.
Pelicanbill
Posted: Thursday, February 02, 2012 2:06:56 AM

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There are people out there who are your soul - mates. The JOB is finding them!! I thought I had found one on here - turns out the
baggage was too heavy, even with both of us trying to lift it. It just proves that there are people for you, you' (or they) just have to find the right
person. Sometime, somewhere.
loud_bkr
Posted: Thursday, February 02, 2012 4:35:10 AM

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Yes, I believe there is someone for everyone, though you may never meet them!! LOL


Phantomrose
Posted: Saturday, February 04, 2012 1:09:12 PM

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I also believe that there is someone out there for everyone, and I believe in soul mates. People just have to keep searching! :)
MMonroe
Posted: Saturday, February 04, 2012 1:34:48 PM

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I hope there's someone out there for me, and i hope i get a chance to meet him!



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Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 10:18:45 AM

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I don't think that some people are "meant to be single" necessarily but nor do I think there's someone for everyone. Human relationships are infinitely more complex than the idea of soul mates. Anyone can find love but that doesn't mean that that person is meant for you; that's just the way things panned out.

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, February 07, 2012 4:23:14 PM

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I don't think anyone is "meant" to be single, I think it's human nature to love and be loved.
As to whether there's someone for everyone?
I doubt it, I find it hard to believe that there is one specific person in the world for me - a 'soul mate'.
I think we can be suited to any number of people, especially as who we are develops and changes through our lives.
TastyMissPT
Posted: Tuesday, February 07, 2012 5:23:30 PM

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No. My one person could be someone in Cambodia. The perfect man was looking for the perfect woman, and when he found her she shunned him because she was looking for the perfect man. Think about it.
crickeydick
Posted: Tuesday, February 07, 2012 5:35:38 PM

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I thought I had the one person for me and so I did until life played its hand and now I have the opportunity to find the next one for me... all I can say is that nothing is predictable and we need to keep an open mind and be willing to adapt to the unpredictability of life...
crickeydick
Posted: Tuesday, February 07, 2012 6:11:12 PM

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Posted: Tuesday, February 07, 2012 6:57:33 PM

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I think so.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 09, 2012 4:40:44 AM

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Well... I'd like to believe the romantic idea that theres someone for everyone but no, harsh reality is not everyone is meant to have someone.
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Posted: Sunday, February 19, 2012 7:28:10 PM

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I believe it is as Suezq said. There is probably someone for everyone, but they have to meet each other at teh right time in each of their lives. All of that is mostly a matter of chance. Also, because the one constant in life is change, sometimes that perfect someone becomes less thnperfect as you both change. I believe the human animal, while tending to monogamy, is probably not meant to select and stay with one partner for life. I believe serial monogamy is more likely the biological tendency.

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Posted: Thursday, February 23, 2012 4:05:27 AM

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One is lucky indeed if he/she can find that really special someone. It happens to people... has happened to people around me. Its also great to have some close friends who are all really really special!!

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Posted: Saturday, March 24, 2012 6:27:27 AM

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I used to believe there was someone for everyone. But that thought has just gone out the window for me.
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Posted: Sunday, March 25, 2012 1:12:04 AM

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If you think about it, almost everyone finds somebody at some stage in their life. If people were like jigsaw pieces with only a certain few "right" people to join with out of the billions on the planet, then the odds would be very much against this.

So I conclude that there are many possible "right" partners for each of us.

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Ruthie
Posted: Tuesday, March 27, 2012 1:14:57 AM

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I used to think that there was someone for everyone, but then I met someone for whom there couldn't possibly be someone for. It would be unrealistic for me to believe that I met the only person on earth like that, so there must be others.
Buz
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 6:13:37 AM

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I believe your soul-mate is available somewhere.

Guest
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 7:25:34 AM

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I hope that there is a soul mate for everyone. I think most of us would meet our soul mate at some point in our lives.
TJRogue
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 8:05:01 AM

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It is a very romantic notion that there is someone just waiting for you out there. I do beleive in soul mates, though not everyone will find his or her soul mate. But I do not believe that there is only one someone out there for you. There are many people that you could be "your someone." Fewer that could be your soulmate. And while I don't think that anyone is destined to be single, it is a sad reality that some never find that special someone. Nevertheless, it is hard to resist that romantic Hollywood movie where the two distant souls stumble across each other in an unlikely way and in doing so, find their soul mate. A toast to you finding your soulmate.
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Posted: Sunday, July 15, 2012 7:09:10 PM

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Short answer, No, there's no such thing
Shylass
Posted: Sunday, July 15, 2012 8:56:36 PM

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menarealwaysignorged wrote:
Short answer, No, there's no such thing


I'm going to hazard a guess that you're single. coffee

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1ball
Posted: Sunday, July 15, 2012 8:58:46 PM

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I think there are many someones who are suitably compatible for any one person. Like so many other things, compatibility with a particular person is a scale from -100% to +100%. The negative numbers are where the relationship would be worse than none. If you can find someone who remains in the high positives, they would be indistinguishable from a destined soulmate.

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littlemissbitch
Posted: Sunday, July 15, 2012 9:01:40 PM

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i think there are lots of someones for everyone. i also think if a person stays single for a lifetime its by their own choice...whether they know that or not.

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LordOmega
Posted: Sunday, July 15, 2012 10:38:00 PM

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I think there is someone for everyone. In fact, I believe in soul mates as well.

However, I do believe that there are people who unfortunately don't know themselves well enough to know when that right one is a part of their lives sometimes and they never get the chance they should.

Others, it just hits and happens.

Either way the one true thing is know yourself. If you do, then that someone for you will be easier to spot.

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