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control... honestly something about the roughness and having the power is extremely sexy!!!
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Well usually I like the guy to be in control. Sometimes however I like to do the seduction  and take control and that can be fun too. Depends on my mood.
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I agree with Chrissie. It's about the mood, the desire, the timing. I need both. I need to flirt, take the lead, make the move, have him (or her) do as I need ... and then when the mood is right, to be taken, ravaged, commanded ... yin and yang
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Yup agree withe the ladies above, I usually like to be in control but to be controlled by someone who knows what they're doing is a huge turn on too!
It really does depend on mood tho and who you're with.
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i rather be controlled. its sexy when the guy is the strong one and like to throw me around in bed
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I like both. However it is quite frankly impossible to control my other half, we're either equals or I'm being controlled. I do try though, whenever I'm in the mood for a challenge.
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I'll take a nice dose of both please. Letting him have control, submitting to him is so very sexy. Depending on my mood, I do like to be in control and seduce my partner. It's actually a win/win for everyone....
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I think I'd like to give up control more often than I get to. Not into humiliation but being controlled to an extent is a turn on. Love it.
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i love it! I love being controlled and dominated and 'forced' (play force obviously) into doing things.. it makes me really horny!
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i love it! I love being controlled and dominated and 'forced' (play force obviously) into doing things.. it makes me really horny!
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Without a doubt... being controlled. There is nothing better than a man taking control of me, having me exactly how he wants me and ravaging me... Mmm yum yum 
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Obviously, I enjoy being told what to do. It makes it so much more fun and exciting.
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Yes is the answer
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I used to be controlled a lot, I'd do pretty much whatever he wanted me to do. However, my recent ex, I had to be in control. Grind on top of him, be the first one naked (The guy usually is for me haha), straddle him and ride. I guess he was shy or something, but after that he wasn't. I enjoy being in control, but I also enjoy being controlled. Who ever makes the first move determines how it's going to play out for me at least. 
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controlled. without a doubt! ;) there's nothing i love more than to hear my boyfriend tell me to suck his cock. i have no dominant-ness in me, i really cannot be in control, at least not when it comes to sex anyway. there's something so sexy about him telling me what to do.
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SallyRAnne wrote:I agree with Chrissie. It's about the mood, the desire, the timing. I need both. I need to flirt, take the lead, make the move, have him (or her) do as I need ... and then when the mood is right, to be taken, ravaged, commanded ... yin and yang Love it!  The office?
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i love to be dominated and controlled by a man, oh there's nothing like it.I have known this cop for a long time and just recently started telling him my secret fantasies...and lo and behold he likes the fact that i want him to dominate me-and the best part is -he's been helping me act out my darkest fantasies.Only problem is is that he's married-and i don't see him enough-i'm not getting my needs met.oh well.
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oh and i just started telling this guy-the married cop-that i'm his fuck toy and i'm his dirtly little slut-he loves that one.I love him to tell me to "get on my knees and suck his cock" oh god that is SO HOT!!!
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..and he handcuffs me too
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i am a mistress and being in control is my greats turn on. i could never be controlled, i don't get anything out of it it a turn off for me. have and watch sub do everything i say is great and dominating them during sex is the best.
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Well I'm getting hot thinking about being controlled by you right now!
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Nikki703 wrote:
I Totally Agree With Miss Lovely Lady!!
Me too. But when I am with my husband or someone else it totally trust. I love to be taken and used roughly just as he wants. There is nothing like really rough controlled and forces sex with the right guy/s.
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I'd love to be controlled in real life or on skype. I think its hot being told what to do and forced to do it. =)
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i love being controlled
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again, variety if key to a great sex life and there definitely times when i LOVE being controlled by my partner. and believe it or not, this can also be super HOT during phone sex ;-)
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I love being in control but now and again i do like to be controlled and its in the rape fantasy thing way!
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I am completely submissive to him and his desires for our mutual pleasure.
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