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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, January 31, 2012 10:34:12 PM

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control... honestly something about the roughness and having the power is extremely sexy!!!
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 01, 2012 11:02:04 PM

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Well usually I like the guy to be in control. Sometimes however I like to do the seduction Embarassed Embarassed and take control and that can be fun too. Depends on my mood.
SallyRAnne
Posted: Wednesday, February 01, 2012 11:11:02 PM

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I agree with Chrissie. It's about the mood, the desire, the timing. I need both. I need to flirt, take the lead, make the move, have him (or her) do as I need ... and then when the mood is right, to be taken, ravaged, commanded ... yin and yang
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 01, 2012 11:48:35 PM

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Yup agree withe the ladies above, I usually like to be in control but to be controlled by someone who knows what they're doing is a huge turn on too!

It really does depend on mood tho and who you're with.
winky
Posted: Thursday, February 02, 2012 4:44:31 AM

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i rather be controlled. its sexy when the guy is the strong one and like to throw me around in bed
MoonlightSerenity
Posted: Friday, February 03, 2012 3:47:40 PM

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I like both. However it is quite frankly impossible to control my other half, we're either equals or I'm being controlled. I do try though, whenever I'm in the mood for a challenge.

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Guest
Posted: Friday, February 03, 2012 4:21:48 PM

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I'll take a nice dose of both please. Letting him have control, submitting to him is so very sexy. Depending on my mood, I do like to be in control and seduce my partner. It's actually a win/win for everyone....
CharlotteRusse1
Posted: Saturday, February 04, 2012 7:54:30 AM

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I think I'd like to give up control more often than I get to. Not into humiliation but being controlled to an extent is a turn on. Love it.

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Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 10:02:30 AM

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i love it! I love being controlled and dominated and 'forced' (play force obviously) into doing things.. it makes me really horny!
Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 10:03:10 AM

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i love it! I love being controlled and dominated and 'forced' (play force obviously) into doing things.. it makes me really horny!
BustyMinx
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 10:35:08 AM

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Without a doubt... being controlled.

There is nothing better than a man taking control of me, having me exactly how he wants me and ravaging me...


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Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 10:47:06 AM

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Obviously, I enjoy being told what to do. It makes it so much more fun and exciting.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 12:16:58 PM

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Yes is the answer
Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 12:40:13 PM

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I used to be controlled a lot, I'd do pretty much whatever he wanted me to do.
However, my recent ex, I had to be in control. Grind on top of him, be the first
one naked (The guy usually is for me haha), straddle him and ride. I guess he was
shy or something, but after that he wasn't. I enjoy being in control, but I also enjoy
being controlled. Who ever makes the first move determines how it's going to play
out for me at least.t1517
YourRose__xx
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 5:07:45 PM

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controlled. without a doubt! ;) there's nothing i love more than to hear my boyfriend tell me to suck his cock.
i have no dominant-ness in me, i really cannot be in control, at least not when it comes to sex anyway.
there's something so sexy about him telling me what to do.

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I L o v e d Y o u A l l A l o n g .


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Frank
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 5:08:20 PM

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SallyRAnne wrote:
I agree with Chrissie. It's about the mood, the desire, the timing. I need both. I need to flirt, take the lead, make the move, have him (or her) do as I need ... and then when the mood is right, to be taken, ravaged, commanded ... yin and yang


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Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 6:57:25 PM

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i love to be dominated and controlled by a man, oh there's nothing like it.I have known this cop for a long time and just recently started telling him my secret fantasies...and lo and behold he likes the fact that i want him to dominate me-and the best part is -he's been helping me act out my darkest fantasies.Only problem is is that he's married-and i don't see him enough-i'm not getting my needs met.oh well.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 7:04:06 PM

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oh and i just started telling this guy-the married cop-that i'm his fuck toy and i'm his dirtly little slut-he loves that one.I love him to tell me to "get on my knees and suck his cock" oh god that is SO HOT!!!
Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 7:04:54 PM

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..and he handcuffs me too
mistress_kelsey
Posted: Sunday, February 05, 2012 7:17:20 PM

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i am a mistress and being in control is my greats turn on. i could never be controlled, i don't get anything out of it it a turn off for me. have and watch sub do everything i say is great and dominating them during sex is the best.
Guest
Posted: Monday, February 06, 2012 9:10:58 AM

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Well I'm getting hot thinking about being controlled by you right now!
Guest
Posted: Monday, February 06, 2012 1:53:11 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:


I Totally Agree With Miss Lovely Lady!!


Me too. But when I am with my husband or someone else it totally trust. I love to be taken and used roughly just as he wants. There is nothing like really rough controlled and forces sex with the right guy/s.
AndyG6797
Posted: Monday, February 06, 2012 11:18:20 PM

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I'd love to be controlled in real life or on skype. I think its hot being told what to do and forced to do it. =)
beinggood
Posted: Tuesday, February 07, 2012 9:45:35 PM

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i love being controlled

doing my best to be good..
BelleduJour
Posted: Monday, February 13, 2012 7:49:08 PM

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again, variety if key to a great sex life and there definitely times when i LOVE being controlled by my partner. and believe it or not, this can also be super HOT during phone sex ;-)

scarlettlopez
Posted: Wednesday, February 15, 2012 4:12:52 AM

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I love being in control but now and again i do like to be controlled and its in the rape fantasy thing way!
Budlee
Posted: Tuesday, August 14, 2012 6:33:16 AM

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I am completely submissive to him and his desires for our mutual pleasure.
JamieW
Posted: Tuesday, August 14, 2012 8:57:34 AM

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Bit of both :)
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