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WellMadeMale
Posted: Monday, February 13, 2012 12:12:15 AM

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want to know them...before you fuck them...

Or -

fuck 'em before ya know them?

What is the difference? Can you tell?

If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
curvygalore
Posted: Monday, February 13, 2012 10:05:06 AM

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eh?????
WellMadeMale
Posted: Monday, February 13, 2012 12:27:47 PM

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curvygalore wrote:
eh?????


I was a bit into the bottle but...

Are some women really frog farmers? And if so, what are some men?

If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
Buz
Posted: Monday, February 13, 2012 12:41:12 PM

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WellMadeMale wrote:


I was a bit into the bottle but...

Are some women really frog farmers? And if so, what are some men?


I can't answer the first questions but YES some women really are frog farmers. Probably more than we will ever know! There are frogmen but if there are men farming frogs, it's only because they are forced to by their woman.a1089

Pour Wine

I'll have another drink now. Thank you.

Guest
Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 2:53:39 PM

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WellMadeMale wrote:
want to know them...before you fuck them...

Or -

fuck 'em before ya know them?

What is the difference? Can you tell?


When I was young,dumb and fulla cum, I would fuck them before I knew them. Then I got older.
The difference is that I can tell the difference now.
WellMadeMale
Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 3:54:05 PM

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chefkathleen wrote:
When I was young,dumb and fulla cum, I would fuck them before I knew them. Then I got older.
The difference is that I can tell the difference now.


Your response was more along the lines of what I was trying to bring forth.

I know women who've gone six to nine months before indulging in sexual relations with their man (how they kept 'him' around that long is beyond me)...but then again, I was once one of those guys (when I was 18 to 19 years of age)...and I really can't remember why I stayed around so long, back then.

I've known women and men who jumped on bones before the first date was barely two cocktails old.

I suppose the question for Auntie (and everyone else to answer/think about) was which direction seemed to dictate the most longevity with our mate(s). I've been with several women, but none of them for longer than five years (and that one was one of those one cocktail dates & straight back to her place sorta things).

There are a lot of couples here who visit the Lush forum, who have been with their mate / spouse as long and longer than five years. I was fit shaced when I typed the initial question(s)...but that's the gist of what I was asking. Thanks for the reply ChefK.



If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
nicola
Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 4:53:57 PM

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I think 3 drink minimum, otherwise people think you're easy.
sprite
Posted: Wednesday, February 15, 2012 1:26:37 AM

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2706ali
Posted: Wednesday, February 15, 2012 1:42:02 AM

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With me i have to know them as a person first and then the attraction to enjoy them a little more,takes hold......
spearone
Posted: Wednesday, February 15, 2012 4:05:06 AM

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I really need to get to know a person to get the chemistry moving! But, there have been a few instances when the chemistry worked rather too fast.. but all these relationships have had short lives!

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Guest
Posted: Friday, February 17, 2012 8:54:20 AM

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WellMadeMale wrote:


Your response was more along the lines of what I was trying to bring forth.

I know women who've gone six to nine months before indulging in sexual relations with their man (how they kept 'him' around that long is beyond me)...but then again, I was once one of those guys (when I was 18 to 19 years of age)...and I really can't remember why I stayed around so long, back then.

I've known women and men who jumped on bones before the first date was barely two cocktails old.

I suppose the question for Auntie (and everyone else to answer/think about) was which direction seemed to dictate the most longevity with our mate(s). I've been with several women, but none of them for longer than five years (and that one was one of those one cocktail dates & straight back to her place sorta things).

There are a lot of couples here who visit the Lush forum, who have been with their mate / spouse as long and longer than five years. I was fit shaced when I typed the initial question(s)...but that's the gist of what I was asking. Thanks for the reply ChefK.



Funny, it's worked both ways for me. One man, I waited for the longest time and ended up being with him 10+ years. Another it was right away but something in the chemistry between the two of us made us want to really get to know each other. Am still with him a LOT of years later.
I don't think it matters if there's sex between you right away. It's all in the chemistry. Pheromones perhaps? Although that term has been thrown around a lot.
Kayte7
Posted: Tuesday, February 21, 2012 4:27:00 PM

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sprite wrote:


Oh for CUTE. Neat colors, too!

Fantasy: imagination unrestrained by reality; fulfilling a need not gratified in the real world
ArtMan
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 10:17:07 PM

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After several drinks it just doesn't matter

You are invited to read Passionate Danger, Part II, a story collaboration by Kim and ArtMan.
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/passionate-danger-part-ii.aspx

a40funfitguy
Posted: Sunday, February 26, 2012 9:02:19 AM

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There needs to be some connection between the people involved! When having cyber sex especially, it makes for far better sex fun when you give a bit of time to know the other person's likes and dislikes..

Learning, laughing, making friends and having fun! Feel free to message - v open-minded, love friendship and / or 'fun' :)
abygaleturner69
Posted: Wednesday, February 29, 2012 5:05:07 PM

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Wow!! Most just want to "jump your bones" saying you have a nice rack or this or that and then want to cyber. Getting to know someone does make for better sex... Normally.
However there have been a time or two when all I wanted was to get luck with someone.. I didn't care and neither did they... We did it..

Abby
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, June 06, 2012 2:31:09 PM

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Honestly, I don't think it matters either way. Of course, this is coming from someone who has had wayyyy too many one-night-stands to count. If you take the time to get to know somebody, obviously, it will lead to more intimate sex but that doesn't always mean BETTER sex. There have been quite a few men and women I have met where my only thought was, "I bet this person is really good in bed..." a relationship never came of it though and that's fine with me. I don't have a preference. Of course, sex with my lover is beyond amazing, but I enjoy sex however and whenever I can get it. ;)
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, June 06, 2012 3:38:39 PM

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Wow! What's up with all the hating on women frog farmers anyway?


Guest
Posted: Wednesday, June 13, 2012 10:44:10 PM

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Mmmm, I don't know, maybe the high rate of divorce in America. Keep it going ladies, keep thinking men are the single minded, single focused morons describe in the piece. When both sexes realize how complex we both are, then maybe we can take a step forward.

Otherwise, you're a piece of ass, and we are just waiting to be sculpted.

Or, we can just let go of our own egos, think beyond the libido, and take it all in. All of it. Good and bad. Sometimes the mix is good.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, June 14, 2012 12:21:36 PM

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Regaeman Man Just chill WMM... this is too first base easy for your style LOL
WellMadeMale
Posted: Thursday, June 14, 2012 12:36:59 PM

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Honeybee000 wrote:
Regaeman Man Just chill WMM... this is too first base easy for your style LOL


Sometimes I throw myself curveballs, Honey. evil4

If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
Buz
Posted: Thursday, June 14, 2012 12:43:20 PM

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I've tried to be complex but that just gives me a headache.


WMM have you ever thrown yourself a knuckleball and got beaned in the nuts. Damn! That hurts!

WellMadeMale
Posted: Thursday, June 14, 2012 2:49:39 PM

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Buz wrote:
WMM have you ever thrown yourself a knuckleball and got beaned in the nuts. Damn! That hurts!


Fortunately, that only happens when I've been drinking quite a bit and I cross my legs while sitting funny.

Unfortunately, those conditions frequently happen.

They started for me around age 34. So you have a few years yet, Buz. Or, perhaps you'll never sit funny in your older years?

If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
cadbury13
Posted: Thursday, June 14, 2012 6:48:52 PM

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well...know the rules of the game and the gamer before you play it....simple philosophy....(not crudely comparing sex and love to a simple game...just a terrible metaphor lol)
Guest
Posted: Friday, June 15, 2012 9:32:04 PM

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The best sez I ever had was with a total stranger. It lasted all of 3 min.
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