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illy
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 5:08:44 AM

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Guys, if you called / text your fuck buddy, but she said that she was on her period would you still want to hang out with her and would you rather her tell you that she's on her period or say that she's busy?
Guest
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 6:49:59 AM

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i am a bit of a romantic. so i think i would still hang out. watch a movie and cuddle up.
TraceyAmes
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 7:10:44 AM

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If you call a husband a fuck-buddy then I can give a definitive answer as I do not stray. There are many times when I am having my period and he is as horny as hell and wants sex. I am only too happy to oblige. The best solution is to place a plastic sheet over the mattress as per bed wetters and a towel over the plastic. That way the mattress does not get damaged and both people can have happy uninhibited sex. The only thing he will not do of course is to indulge in oral sex. Anal sex is also another great alternative.
alexmarch
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 7:24:28 AM

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Of course I'd want to, but it would be up to her - if she doesn't want the closeness, let alone sex, then you have to respect her space. If she is in the mood, however, then I see no reason why not to engage in whatever strikes both of you. I'd rather if she tells me what the situation is, so I can be respectful of her desires, one way or the other.
bigblue9094
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 3:17:21 PM

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There is always a shower. Besides it's proven fact that women are the most horny during the time of the month. It wouldn't bother me to hang with her or even have sex with her!
HK4167
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 10:54:54 PM

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Well, it depends on her. We can still hang out, or I goto her place and prepare her a pot of hot tea snuggle with her watchign TV together. If she's in the mood or being horny, I agree with above suggestions, just give her what she needs with some preparation ahead.

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redneckleader
Posted: Saturday, February 25, 2012 2:20:49 AM

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Of course willing to come over if she wants coompany as well. there are always things to do.
rushman1uk
Posted: Saturday, February 25, 2012 7:56:51 AM

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I'd still fuck her bootyshake
wking
Posted: Saturday, February 25, 2012 9:37:45 AM

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I absoutly would be with her i think that would be amazing sweet sex, and would love to give her pleasure during her time.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, February 25, 2012 3:12:38 PM

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Have you never shagged a woman on her period? once they get past the ewww factor they are so much more sensative than normal... Ever hear of doing it in the shower?
eddy1893
Posted: Sunday, February 26, 2012 8:53:54 AM

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Blow jobs and hand jobs would do lol
That1NJGuy
Posted: Sunday, February 26, 2012 9:41:49 AM

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First of all, majors points if she's honest about what's going on. But is her call on what she wants to do.
Ricky6999
Posted: Sunday, February 26, 2012 9:45:01 AM

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would definitely want to spend time with her, no doubts!
sbp
Posted: Sunday, February 26, 2012 3:06:25 PM

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It depends on if you put the emphasis on the 'fuck' or the 'buddy' part?!
Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 26, 2012 5:28:01 PM

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illy wrote:
Guys, if you called / text your fuck buddy, but she said that she was on her period would you still want to hang out with her and would you rather her tell you that she's on her period or say that she's busy?



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SydneySider
Posted: Sunday, February 26, 2012 8:39:55 PM

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If it was me and she still wanted to hang out, I would. And I'd want her to be open and upfront about why sex was off limits. If she is uncomfortable about the whole sex/period thing, then so be it, respect her wishes. One thing to remember is that we are talking about a fuck buddy relationship. Once you start hanging out, then it kinda goes against the idea of the fuck buddy. Once this starts to happen, you're no longer just fuck buddies, but maybe something more.



WellMadeMale
Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 9:54:32 AM

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SydneySider wrote:
One thing to remember is that we are talking about a fuck buddy relationship. Once you start hanging out, then it kinda goes against the idea of the fuck buddy. Once this starts to happen, you're no longer just fuck buddies, but maybe something more.


evil4 I think you're the only guy to answer so far, who comprehends the scenario laid out, man. I've had a few friends (with benefits) who like to hang out in public areas and we enjoy each other's company - hence the friendship aspect. But we don't just hang out at each other's homes to cuddle or spend the night watching The Wizard of Oz.

There's generally sex involved and if that's off the menu, so is 'just hanging out'. And it's always her call on that.

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Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 10:47:11 AM

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I'm happy to do whatever she - hang out or otherwise!

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illy
Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 11:30:05 AM

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sbp wrote:
It depends on if you put the emphasis on the 'fuck' or the 'buddy' part?!


Well, maybe I should have been clearer. I meant fuck buddy as in someone you are seeing casually. I guess the answers depend on the level of intimacy you have together. Fuck and feel ok to hang out or just fuck and have no communication in between. If the fuck buddy was replace with the word boyfriend/husband I would have thought the boyfriend/husband would have been more sensitive. The answers so far seems like they are coming from guys who have a steady gf or wife

SydneySider wrote:
If it was me and she still wanted to hang out, I would. And I'd want her to be open and upfront about why sex was off limits. If she is uncomfortable about the whole sex/period thing, then so be it, respect her wishes. One thing to remember is that we are talking about a fuck buddy relationship. Once you start hanging out, then it kinda goes against the idea of the fuck buddy. Once this starts to happen, you're no longer just fuck buddies, but maybe something more.


I think what I was trying to say was, if the guy that you were seeing casually (not your boyfriend) and every time you got together was just to have sex or you hang out at the beach and sex after, would he still want to hang out like watch a movie and make out, play around but not actually have intercourse with you if you had your period? At the end of the day the question is would you guys care if she was on her period and you would be happy not to have intercourse but just fool around?

I understand that coming over to watch a movie & cuddling may be warning bells that one person is falling for the other - and that's a different matter.

To the guys that have posted, thanks for your thoughts :)

Love to hear more on this :)
WellMadeMale
Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 12:28:40 PM

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words and slang phrases have commonly accepted meanings. Fuckbuddies/FWB, etc are a bit different than the other relationships you are now referring to.

Again, it depends on how 'she' is feeling and whether she wishes to have some cuddle company or just be alone to her own convention. I've known a few women who didn't wish to leave any days of their months...without some sexual activity/excitement in their life. I've known quite a few more who would just prefer to avoid getting carnal when Aunt Flo comes to visit...but would like to spend quality time bonding with me, etc...

It would be pretty callous of me to tell them - "Well, since we aren't fucking and you're not sucking - I'm going to go shoot some trap or a round of golf today, maybe I'll see ya or call you later tonight to check in on ya."

evil5

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MissyLuvsYa
Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 12:39:36 PM

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I think most guys could care less whether your on your period or not.
Deadneo
Posted: Tuesday, February 28, 2012 3:08:25 AM

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Fuck buddy is for sex, less than cuddling, so I'd aim for a release either way, if there would be no way of that happening I dont see a reason for either of us meeting with each other. Right?
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 29, 2012 3:56:04 AM

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I would choose to hang out if she was ok with it. Sometimes its nice to actually have conversation
charl1e5
Posted: Saturday, March 03, 2012 1:37:18 PM

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I dont always go to see my fuck buddy for sex, I often just enjoy her company, so it wouldnt matter to me, I would prefer her to tell me its her period so I wouldnt upset her by trying for sex.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, April 22, 2012 1:36:05 AM

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I would ask her if she was up for anything.

I would never actually have sex with her while she is on though, I would rather do a lot of foreplay.
birddog93
Posted: Sunday, April 22, 2012 8:00:47 AM

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Michael
Posted: Sunday, April 22, 2012 8:49:42 AM

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My 'fuck buddy' was always a friend first, but since I know women frequently feel pretty tired at that time of the month, she may not want any company.
So I would be available as a friend first, yet still remember that some girls just love sex all month long!





Guest
Posted: Sunday, April 22, 2012 9:24:58 AM

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The huge part of all this to me is if she still wants to hang out. Ive had fuck buddies that would come over on their period and not say anything to me and it wasnt a huge deal. If they want to come over and enjoy eachothers company without actual sex then yeah it might be more than a sex thing then but its not off limits. At the other end though I would much rather be told ahead if she is on her period. I dont mind having sex than and have done it plenty of times but its just nice to know ahead what they are looking for.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, April 24, 2012 5:22:23 PM

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I would still pal around. It doesn't have to always be about sex imo. Just curling up on the couch with her would suffice during that time period. No pun intended
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Posted: Tuesday, April 24, 2012 9:49:18 PM

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And hey, there's always anal.
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