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Age is just a number but doesn't say anything about level of maturity or character. I fall for the latter, a stable man with balls and character. So yes I tend to fall for older guys lately, but don't get me wrong there are older men that will always stay a duckling as there are younger men that are extremely wise and mature for their age.
I don't care for the age, I first want to get to know a person. The biggest difference for me in age has been + 13 and -8 and I didn't have a problem what so ever to been seen in public with them. In both cases I was proud because I loved them.
I am curious though do men go for older women?
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I agree with Ricky .. well said that lady .. how very mature and sensible she is.
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I don't "go for older guys". I like my partner, younger. 
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PersonalAssistant wrote:I don't "go for older guys". I like my partner, younger. 
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to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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I much prefer older guys tbh, i think its probably the maturity level that attracts me...and the fact that they actually appreciate every part of a girl, personality and looks, where as at my own age (18), tend to find that most guys, not all, but most are immaure and mainly care about sex, and looks. xD
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yes...which mostly has to do with their confidence, swagger, and wisdom. plus they usually know how to treat a woman sexually and take their time...
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WellMadeMale wrote:
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you are the exception to the rule, mister .... lucky you!! 
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When I was a teenager I always liked older guys. Now I'm in my late 20s I still like them. So I'm guessing I like guys my own age and beyond now?
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Definitely!!! I get turn on more by them, their words, their experience....
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Older does not always mean they act their age and/or better in the bed. I dated an older guy when I was 21, he was 27, and trust me, he was not that good in bed. If I tried to express what I wanted sexually, he would tell me to keep quiet and half the time acted out like a kid with a temper tantrum. Luckily, that didn't last.
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I do like older men but there has to be some kind of connection, either the way he looks or acts.
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Definitely. Although the possibility of greater stability and maturity is alluring, being with someone who has been around the block, had more experience, and knows what they want is even more attractive.
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I love older men. To me they have the best pillow talk. They may not have the stamina of younger men but they know how to make one good, no, GREAT fuck well more than enough.
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i am 52 alot of my friend's are in there 20s 30s. i just get along good with them hang out go to dinner and they will tell me anything. like one person said age is a number. if you think young and stay up on stuff. and yes i love younger women .
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It's got nothing to do with age, more mutual respect and that twinkle in his eyes when we talk
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Yeah, definitely. I've always been attracted to guys much older then me. (10 or so years)
They've more experience with relationships and generally know how to treat you better. A higher maturity level is also a big plus.
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MY FIANCE IS ALMOST 10 YRS OLDER THAN ME AND WHEN I WAS 19 I WAS MESSING AROUND WITH A GUY 39, WHEN I WAS 20 I "DATED" A 48, 42,40 AND 32 YEAR OLD. THEY JUST TURN ME ON, GUYS MY AGE DO NOTHING FOR ME AND I MEAN NOTHING, THERES NO REAL ATTRACTION.I HAVE AN OLDER DEMEANOR AND I DATE GUYS THAT FIT THAT DEMEANOR.
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I definitely go for older men. They just know how to treat a girl in public and in private. Older men have fucked me better and more passionately than almost any other type of guy I have been with.
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I come from a long line of women that go after older men. For me as long as they can still get it up, be of use with it, and kept in good shape (no saggy man boobies!!!) I am perfecty ok with being with an older man. They are generally more mature and hopefully know what they are doing by the time I get them!!
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I never thought I would but when I was 19 I was at a family BBQ and my stepdads nephew who was 33 was introduced to me. We got talking into a discussion about things like (don't laugh) taxes, global warming and the effectiveness of protests. Next thing I know, we were upstairs in my bed, having great sex.
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yes! there is something very sexy about an older man...
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Older women ..does that count?
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Well if I was a lady I wouldnt . noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo !! They are generally skint, flabby, dim, unattractive physically, slobber when they eat, have teeth missing including front ones, drive boring cars, spent all day on Lush getting a hard on looking at forum posts, snore in bed, have no sense of humour whatsoever and have bad flatulence.   
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usually......but not too old.
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older men have found interest in me since as long as I can remember. I have had many experiences with men 20+ years older than me, I guess I have a daughter/niece complex, want to please
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I'd say +5to 10 yrs from my age, would be more mature, more mellowed, more wise. my aged guys still squeal when they see boobies, and over use the word fuck, imma fucking fuck u... its a put off
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Normally a guy has to be a mininum of 5 years older but I have dated someone 15 years older than me.
There is a huge difference in the maturity and respect levels. Plus I like to go to nice bars and nice restaurants, most guys my age think a nice restaurant is Pizza Express or Nandos.
Older men are more self assured. And they aren't scared by the fact I like to be submissive that I like being spanked. The confidence is there.
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