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AngelHeart01
Posted: Thursday, March 08, 2012 3:37:51 PM

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chefkathleen wrote:
I have never asked anyone their age when I'm interested in them. Whether we date or are just friends. It's just not important in my eyes.



I feel the same way.
sprite
Posted: Thursday, March 08, 2012 3:47:06 PM

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i try not to date older guys who wears diapers, not as a fetish, but a necessity. drunken
Guest
Posted: Thursday, March 08, 2012 4:17:32 PM

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i usually go 10 years up and 10 years down, im 37 so thats perfect
Scshavedmom
Posted: Friday, March 09, 2012 7:48:54 AM

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I don't look at age as much as a connection. When I was younger I had no problem with older men or women, not I guess it goes the other way.
aalily
Posted: Friday, March 09, 2012 12:25:25 PM

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Hard to say, you can get some super great guys in their 30s! And they've got a great career.. mm!
And i've always got on with older men, especially because by the time I was 13 I looked 20!
For a relationship though, 4/5 years is a good age gap for a man to be older, because if it's too big your goals are going to be too different
That being said, I never ask age. I don't think it matters if you feel something is there!

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sexyfun77
Posted: Sunday, March 11, 2012 8:45:49 PM

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its more about a connection than age
Resident
Posted: Monday, March 12, 2012 2:58:43 AM

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Younger: No more that 2 years. I've learned my lesson.

Older: Well...it can go as high as 30 years ;)


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Guest
Posted: Thursday, March 15, 2012 9:06:05 AM

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I'd date and fuck anyone under 35. I'm 18.
sexyeyes37
Posted: Thursday, March 15, 2012 3:22:42 PM

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15 years for relationship. 7 years for casual sec partner.

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Denny62
Posted: Thursday, March 15, 2012 4:26:29 PM

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It's all about a connection. One of my best sexual relationships was a 24 year age gap. The relationship was ongoing for a year and a half and we're friends to this day. It was a friends with benni's situation that she suggested and pursued. I was reluctant, and in hind-sight I'm glad she was persistent.
littlemissbitch
Posted: Thursday, March 15, 2012 4:30:44 PM

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i dont care so much about age...just as long as he gets my jokes and i get his...

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Digger
Posted: Thursday, March 15, 2012 4:58:00 PM

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I have been on both directions of the 18/33 year old gap, and it was great each time. It does make me feel old sometimes to be attracted to someone younger than my own son, but if they are legal and willing, does it really matter? The younger one can learn a lot and the older one gets to feel young again. Win-win situation.
jed
Posted: Friday, March 16, 2012 8:58:08 PM

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depends on the connection....10 years for relationship. 20years for casual sec partner.
sadies_sexy_side
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 3:47:40 AM

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I've been seeing a guy more or less just for sex 14 years my senior on and off for the last three years (I'm 29) - whenever he and I are single at the same time.....not sure if I'd have a actual relationship with him, but the sex has been eye-opening! Embarassed
Guest
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 11:21:38 AM

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littlemissbitch wrote:
i dont care so much about age...just as long as she gets my jokes and i get her's...


+1....Embarassed
Guest
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 4:29:50 PM

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BornyHouseHusband
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 5:07:22 PM

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20yrs I guess would be good although thats only older, stick to the legal requirments of the 16yrs old in the uk
BSlain
Posted: Sunday, March 18, 2012 2:03:54 PM

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I believe five years below or five years above is a good span.
That1NJGuy
Posted: Sunday, March 18, 2012 2:38:55 PM

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What I see, as older you get, its the connection that matters. So, I just go for the connection ;)
LatinSugar
Posted: Sunday, March 18, 2012 2:52:14 PM

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There must be an attraction of some sort to bypass the age gap. It is said that women mature at a quicker rate then men, alas age is just a number.

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simplyjohn
Posted: Sunday, March 18, 2012 3:44:20 PM

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well for skunks we can tell the age of partners sniffing and usually we go for someone around the same age. I believe for men and women age really isnt important, within reason, its down to desire.
Pelicanbill
Posted: Sunday, March 18, 2012 3:46:57 PM

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Anybody above the age of 16, which is the legal age here in NZ. Otherwise, if there is a mutual attraction age doesn't come into it
Clarkie1990
Posted: Tuesday, March 20, 2012 4:44:44 AM

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Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.


analbitch01
Posted: Tuesday, March 20, 2012 6:42:28 AM

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Age is only a number
Artfan
Posted: Monday, March 26, 2012 7:45:46 AM

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I don't have a number. But sometimes it's hard to relate to someone when there's a big age gap.
honeyx
Posted: Monday, March 26, 2012 7:55:25 AM

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I agree its all about connections, but saying that, I would feel really awkward having a relationship with someone who was around the age of my eldest who is twenty one
redheadalltheway
Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 11:31:30 AM

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I was once in a relationship with someone 18 years older, and had a f**k buddy that was 20 when I was 30. Age is but a number and as long as both are of legal age what would it hurt. My fiancee is only 4 years older than me, but the things we can try and do to each other surpasses anyone else I've ever been with.
Milly
Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 5:07:37 AM

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As far as dating someone younger, well it isn't long before it becomes illegal...
Other than that I really don't see age as an issue, it's more about how you match in other ways.
Moonflower
Posted: Monday, May 21, 2012 9:37:05 PM

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When I was single I never dated anyone younger then my little brother or older then my big sister--both are 6 years ways in either direction.
jerseylynn
Posted: Thursday, May 24, 2012 11:31:12 AM

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17 years older was the oldest i was with.

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