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Rank: Chat Moderator
Joined: 8/10/2009
Posts: 1,388
Location: around and about Hell, United States
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Hello A/all... please introduce yourself and tell us a lil about yourself, how long you've been in the lifestyle or if your new what brought you into the lifestyle.
No one can make you jealous, angry, vengeful, or greedy -unless you let him.
- Napoleon Hill
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Rank: Cock Connoisseur
Joined: 4/25/2010
Posts: 1,727
Location: Bend, United States
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I've been into the lifestyle for about a year and a half. I am submissive but have yet to find the perfect fit in a Master.
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 3/2/2012
Posts: 19
Location: caerphilly, United Kingdom
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Hello every1 my wife and I have experimented with a few things over the years but recently we have discussed things and now have alot more fun!!!!!
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Rank: Wise Ass
Joined: 11/12/2010
Posts: 4,955
Location: The center of the universe, Canada
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Good afternoon everyone, It's pretty evident what my name is, I have been into BDSM for about 10 years now in some way shape or form. I am very lucky to have someone in my life that trusts me entirely, and allows me to be her Master. She means a ton to me, and yes you know who you are winks
The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker 
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 9/4/2010
Posts: 20
Location: lost in thought, United States
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*clears throat*
hey everyone, names Cam been in the lifestyle for approx. 5 months now
its always been something i wanted to try and seemed right, but never thought i'd get the chance or find the right person.
Very happy i found someone like my girl.
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Rank: Brawling Berserker
Joined: 2/12/2012
Posts: 1,404
Location: Not on your radar, Norway
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Hi, I'm elit and I'm a pervert. *waits for the rest of the room to go Hello, Elit* I've been fantasising about light bondage and domination for a year now. *waits for the applause*
Lush has added a new feature! This link allows you to see who has viewed your profile lately and who might be interested in you. Please click it and give feedback for improving the site :)
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 9/11/2010
Posts: 1,004
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Rank: Story Verifier
Joined: 10/21/2010
Posts: 1,214
Location: United States
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I'm Ruthie. I've always been into elements of BDSM, ever since I began having sexual fantasies. I enjoy being dominated sexually, but I'm not into a 24/7 relationship. I am a straight girl, more or less, but I have strong fantasies of being dominated by an older woman. Sometimes I need a good hard spanking. It's hard to explain why. I like being under control, to be a man's slave in bed.
I am a whore. Find something else to fight about. - Nell Gwyn (to her coachman, who was fighting a man for calling her a whore)
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Rank: Internet Sensation
Joined: 3/30/2009
Posts: 3,977
Location: Cloudy dreams., Sweden
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Hello, I'm Cat. I've had one wonderful master in my life, I still think of him as my master even though we're now taking different paths in life. (Unfortunately we never got the chance to meet up.) I'm pretty much scared of most things BDSM. One thing is Spanking, it makes me cringe and feel uneasy. (One slap on the ass cheek can be fine, but slapping over and over again makes my mind go into "what have I done wrong, why am I being punished, don't you like me?" mode. What I have come to like very much is the switch of control. To be allowed and most importantly allow yourself to hand over control. Having a space where you can completely be yourself and express yourself without fear of being judged. Where you're not met with scepticism but encouragement and understanding.
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Rank: Her Royal Spriteness
Joined: 6/18/2010
Posts: 9,094
Location: My Tower, United States
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Hi, I'm sprite. i am a sub. i'm not really 'in' the lifestyle, but i do enjoy bondage and bdsm. a lot. i have a lovely wife, whom i play with on occasion (we have weekly Friday night bondage play sessions that we both enjoy) and a lovely Mistress who i get to play with several times a week here online as well (Curious Kitty or, as i call her, Mistress Laura). i am also a kitty girl, as probably a few of you know (hi Gypsy!).
 Blondie's been itching to share another adventure sometime soon...
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 5/3/2011
Posts: 29
Location: Upstate, United States
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Hi I am olderthandirt an I am a sub to my Mistress her name is MistressMichelle she has been my Mistress for several months and I trust her totally. She has certain orders I must follow every day. I must exercise and watch what I eat as to lose weight by her order. I can not please myself without her orders and must read the bible nightly. I have certain orders I must do every night (nipple clamps or butt plug). I am her slut and love my Mistress
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 6/29/2011
Posts: 373
Location: Philly, where Master is, United States
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Hi everyone..I'm a Switch..domineering and submissive..I do have a more submissive side ,,, but I also enjoy controlling my subs...I have been in the lifestyle for quite sometime and always loved being with dominant men...This a lifestyle that only works when one really wants it and feels it within themselves...to be able to trust that one individual with your entire life is an amazing feat in itself..I just do not care for wannabes..and yes there are many!!!!
doing my best to be good..
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 1/5/2012
Posts: 20
Location: United Kingdom
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Hi all, I was (well i still am) into BDSM 9 years ago with my now ex-boyfriend. The connection you get being able to trust that person with your life is amazing. However after I broke up with ex-boyfriend I met my now husband. He is not into it at all (i went from one extreme to the other), I have kept myself under control (thats the only way i can think of calling it) about BDSM, but i'm starting to hanker for it. I used to be very dominant, but now as I find myself IRL becoming more and more in control (being a mother, wife, look after home finances and run my own business), i'd rather like to try being a sub. Luckily I may have found an outlet with two new friends i made recently, at the moment we only go out in corsets and jeans and talk about our experiences, and things we enjoy having done to us, but maybe it might progress, I don't know.
To add I don't feel as close in trust as I do with my husband as i did with my ex and I think its because of the lack of BDSM, if you've had the connection you will know what i mean, as i do trust my husband and I am close, but its not the same.
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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 3/21/2012
Posts: 1
Location: United States
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Hi guys, I'm Jae. I've been interested in BDSM stuff for a few years now, but I'm still sort of dancing around the edge of the pool so to speak. I had an ex-boyfriend who I convinced to get a little dominating in bed, but he was never really comfortable with doing very much, and that's really as much as I've ever gone into it with another person.
I'm still keeping an eye out for my way into something a little heavier, and I've been hoping Lush might be that chance. So I guess if anyone's looking into a new sub, I'm your girl.
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 2/11/2012
Posts: 13
Location: overijssel, Netherlands
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hiya everyone *bows* im submas , i have been a sub (pet) for about a month now and i have a wonderful mistress. i always had the fantasy of being controlled and having someone dominate me, and a little over a month ago i came upon this site while browsing stories. it opened me up a little more. im a really shy person ever since i was little... which is why joining here was a big step.. and even a bigger step for me was to get a mistress, but i somehow succeeded and i dont regret anything :3 you will find me often in chats just sitting in a corner being quiet.. im not great at opening conversations o.o and im a kitty for my mistress :3 im her pet, there are a lot of reasons why i decided to become a kitty so i wont name them all >.< feels like im opening up a little to much. i will also be writing stories soon once i get some inspiration, they will be about my adventures as a male kitty sub :3 they will mostly be fantasies and desires... since im fairly new to being a kitty and my mistress is taking it really easy so i havent experienced a lot yet. for the people who are wondering, currently its only online between me and mistress, i do follow her orders and i do whatever she says in real life, but she lives in a other country so i dont actually get to see her :( i hope one day it will be fulltime real life tho .. but for now thats just a dream. well if you want to know more just say hi to me some time in the chat, im ussually in the basement :3 ty for listening.
o.o
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Rank: Cum Enthusiast
Joined: 8/23/2010
Posts: 2,184
Location: With my forever <3, United States
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hey everyone! I've been into this lifestyle for almost two years now.
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 12/6/2011
Posts: 36
Location: United States
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I've never considered the lifestyle before. However I have a lady friend for about 6 weeks now who thoroughly enjoys our chats much more when I tell her what to do. Her enthusiastic responses gives me a sense of power over her that we both relish. Does that make me in the lifestyle?
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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 3/18/2012
Posts: 1
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Hi,
In person, I'm neither, but online I like being a dom. On and off for a couple of years.
At the moment, I have an online sub who is loyal and aims to please me.
One thing that we like to do is for me to find a guy online to cyber with her while I observe. Then afterwords, I'll call her and have her cum for me.
So far, so good. She enjoys it and so do I. We're always looking for some straight guys out there to help out.
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 5/21/2011
Posts: 121
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Jenny here. I like to be bound and treated roughly during sex, much more then my husband will do. I like to be controlled and even treated nasty while I play on line. BUT, I do have a real life, responsibilities, and things that I simply will not do, which has made it extremely difficult to find anyone to have any kind of ongoing relationship or fun with. So, I am not actually 'in the lifestyle', just wish I was. I AM submissive but do have my rules that need to be followed just as much as a Dominant one does. So in conclusion, I fear that I am the 'hopeless case' no one wants to talk about.
If you ignore beauty, you will soon find yourself without it.................Frank Lloyd Wright
I always practice obedience, when it's in my best interest.
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 332,199
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Hello everyone. I am a complete newbie in need of full training. Lately I have found myself fantasising about humiliation.
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 7/20/2009
Posts: 210
Location: Rivendell, United Kingdom
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Hi everyone, im Dontholien and i think im into BDSM. Ive always known i like my man to be rough with me but i think im now realising its me wanting him to have power over me. Im quite a submissive person and that definatly comes through in the bedroom but im not too sure if the whole master/ slave thing is for me. I am a total novice at all things bdsm so i found (now this sounds really nerdy) a score sheet type thingy online with lots of suggestions on it that your ment to score on a 1 to 5 to kinda get an idea of your own likes, what you would like to try and whats an absolute no no. Ive found that i like restraints though its the strength of a mans arms that turns me on more than hand cuffs and i found out im curious about spanking & whips  I can say that bdsm really isnt a lifestyle thing for me atm, im more at the point where im learning about myself and im learning more about bdsm and that there is more to it than whips and chains
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 8/26/2011
Posts: 212
Location: Northeastern Untied Sates, United States
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Hi, I'm John.
I'm not in the lifestyle, but have a curiosity that won't go away. I was briefly introduced as an online experiment with a friend.
I was very surprised by my reaction to being a sub... I found it to be powerfully erotic. In talking to a few friends, I have switch tendancies as I like to control and be controlled depending on mood. The idea of my being a sub is strange to me, because I've always been a hghly competitive person and usually question authority. The idea of me being a dom is just as odd, since I respect my lover and love pleasing her... I will not hurt or humiliate.
I've experimented with blindfold play which I found to be very sensual. I'm not into pain or humiliation, but would be willing to try about anything else.
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 3/4/2011
Posts: 319
Location: Sitting in Heaven watching you, United States
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Most people know me i have been in the lifestyle for 47 yrs
VERITAS VOS LIBERABIT
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 5/12/2010
Posts: 381
Location: On my cloud, United Kingdom
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It took me a long time to realise that I'm a sub (I really don't know how it took so long), so I'm still new to the whole thing. I think what attracted me most was the need to be owned, to know that I am serving them, pleasing them and my pleasure is for them.
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 332,199
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Hiya all! been in the scene for awhile now(feels like forever!) Nice to know we have a place to go to for stuff like this! I'm pretty easygoing, so stop by on my profile and say hi if you'd like:)
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 1/7/2012
Posts: 821
Location: United Kingdom
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I'm a sub and I have had a Master since the start of the year. I love Him so very much and He takes it gentle with me and introduces new things to slowly for me to get used to them. My relationship is irl and is a 24/7 one.
Teased and Tormented -My very first story and competition entry is now up!
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 332,199
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Hello everyone my name is Princess... I'm a 24/7 slave.. and I adore.my master.. he's a very strong and wonderful teacher and lover and knows excactly where my boundaries are and knows how to test them.. I have actually only Benn "in" the lifestyle for 6 days now but.... I've always been submissive and loved the kinkier side of sex... if you wanna know more give me a holler ... *giggles* I hope to get to know everyone here a lot more
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 5/16/2012
Posts: 381
Location: United States
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My wife and I have had a DD (Domestic Discipline) relationship for about 5 years, but I've been into spanking my partners virtually my entire adult life.
My novel, The Society, is available now in the Kindle Store: http://www.amazon.com/The-Society-ebook/dp/B00BPF9U2I
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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 6/27/2012
Posts: 2
Location: United States
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Hello,
I am very new to BDSM. I believe I am a sub. I say this because I have dom tendencies. I am looking for a mistress to teach and guide me. I will appreciate any advice.
Looking forward to meeting others like me.
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 6/24/2012
Posts: 119
Location: Marietta, United States
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I am a Master and have been for 15 years. I love this lifestyle, because of the freedom and the passion that is a part of it daily. I currently have one slave and she is incredible and a member here at Lush *waves to SlavePrincess*. Feel free to talk to me if you are new and learning as I want to see everyone enjoy this lifestyle and in a safe way.
If you have read 50 Shades of Gray and think that you are ready to be a dom or a sub. Then you have a lot to learn.
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