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Hi; just wondered if any of you girls like to be spanked? If so, why? What do you like about it?
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johnnyk_2004uk wrote:Hi just wondered if any of your girls like to be spanked? If so why? What do you like about it? "Your girls"? I only have one daughter and she hates being spanked. 
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ali2teaseu wrote:johnnyk_2004uk wrote:Hi just wondered if any of your girls like to be spanked? If so why? What do you like about it? "Your girls"? I only have one daughter and she hates being spanked. should have read you girls!!
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Yes but only lightly. Haven't ever indulged in any hardcore spanking. I dont know what i like about it to be honest, usually sends a tingle right through me.
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I remember I saw some TV show on Spike that said getting spanked sends nerves or "tingles" through the nervous system that helps turn you on. I don't remember the exact technical terms they used or how it really works but that's the basics. And the show was Manswers if you wanted to know.
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I love it, not exactly sure why, but I do.
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TheChrisJ wrote:I remember I saw some TV show on Spike that said getting spanked sends nerves or "tingles" through the nervous system that helps turn you on. I don't remember the exact technical terms they used or how it really works but that's the basics. And the show was Manswers if you wanted to know. I watch that show.. They showed me what to do to take a stripper home..!  Ooh and I enjoy being spanked, only while having sex though or fooling around, otherwise it hurts..! 
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No spanking for me! You whack my butt I'll whack you back buster! 
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It's all about endorphins - getting hurt can turn you on. Some more so than others. And the psychological submission thing is pretty cool as well.
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I LOVE to be spanked...when it's done properly and by someone who loves me as much as he possesses me....
I don't analyze why I like it. Some things are just fun because they are fun.
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TheChrisJ wrote:I remember I saw some TV show on Spike that said getting spanked sends nerves or "tingles" through the nervous system that helps turn you on. That'll be why then.
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I've read the pain and pleasure centers of the brain are very close to one another. Sometimes, stimulating the pain stimulates the pleasure.
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techgoddess wrote:I LOVE to be spanked...when it's done properly and by someone who loves me as much as he possesses me....
I don't analyze why I like it. Some things are just fun because they are fun. 
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MMonroe wrote:Yes but only lightly. Haven't ever indulged in any hardcore spanking. I dont know what i like about it to be honest, usually sends a tingle right through me.
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Let me ask you gals this: do you like the simple act of spanking or does it have to be during?
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I'm a bit scared of spanking... I must say... But Im a scaredy cat. I've not tried spanking outside of the bed or where ever the sexact takes place. I do not like a casual spank on my rear when the person pass me by. It tend to make me see red and hunt persons like that with knives all around the house. EDIT: Geez... I seem like a teen...
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During is good, but i wouldn't complain about a quick slap on the ass during the day... of course it has to be by someone I'm actually with, not just some randomer
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i love being spanked when i'm making love but only if i'm on top, wow it is a real turn on for me, just love that little bit of agression from the man. It usually happens just before i orgasm as well. 
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"Do you like it on the bed?
Do you like it made red?
I do not like it on the bed,
I do not like it made red.
I do not like it on flesh that's bare.
I do not like it anywhere."
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johnnyk_2004uk wrote:Hi just wondered if any of you girls like to be spanked? If so why? What do you like about it? I don't mind a well-timed smack on the arse, but it has to be during the heat of the moment. I don't think I'd like a random one throughout the day.
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roccotool wrote:"Do you like it on the bed?
Do you like it made red?
I do not like it on the bed,
I do not like it made red.
I do not like it on flesh that's bare.
I do not like it anywhere."
~Dr. Seuss, kinda To hell with Seuss....I love it on the bed, made nice and red, on flesh that's bare, or anywhere... as long as it's you doing the spanking Roc...
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Hmm I followed this interesting discussion.. and it looks like there are three main theories:
1. Has to do with the close physiology between either the nerves leading from the bum area or closeness of the center in the brain, somehow activating one another (like the arm hurting during a heart attack)
2. Endorphines release, i.e. somehow the pain releases internal substances causing pleasure
3. Psychological meaning, i.e. submission, recreation of parent-child relationship, humiliation
... I am not sure what seem to be most important.. Or even if it is the same from one person to the next as far as what attracts you to it..
Or maybe.. It is a combination of all 3.. That would be my guess..
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hangin wrote:Hmm I followed this interesting discussion.. and it looks like there are three main theories:
1. Has to do with the close physiology between either the nerves leading from the bum area or closeness of the center in the brain, somehow activating one another (like the arm hurting during a heart attack)
2. Endorphines release, i.e. somehow the pain releases internal substances causing pleasure
3. Psychological meaning, i.e. submission, recreation of parent-child relationship, humiliation
... I am not sure what seem to be most important.. Or even if it is the same from one person to the next as far as what attracts you to it..
Or maybe.. It is a combination of all 3.. That would be my guess..
Zed Or maybe it's just fun for some and not so fun for others....
~~TechTwo wrongs don't make a right, but three lefts do...
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Lisa wrote:I don't mind a well-timed smack on the arse, but it has to be during the heat of the moment. I don't think I'd like a random one throughout the day. Agreed.
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ellastar wrote:Lisa wrote:I don't mind a well-timed smack on the arse, but it has to be during the heat of the moment. I don't think I'd like a random one throughout the day. Agreed. I agree too! Right in the action it's perfect, but I've been smacked on the ass causally before and oooooo- I wailed on him!
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roccotool wrote:Let me ask you gals this: do you like the simple act of spanking or does it have to be during? It should be during - foreplay, etc. I like to be teased and spanked ... soft and firm rubbing of my ass cheeks followed by love pats. i like it when he pulls back to slap, but rubs instead. drives me crazy!
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Yeah I agree with Tech on this one: It feels great, It's a real turn of factor, makes me feel like a sexy naughty woman getting spanked and that is it. It is just great with a partner you really trust it is not done from hatred or dislike. I also love little Love tap's as an ex used to call them during the daytime say like when your cooking or just walking up the stairs to bed at night, it is just FUN hee hee giggle giggle ha ha
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think its something I would like to try............only as part of foreplay though
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In my head, I like the idea of it, minus pain, purely because I think to allow someone to spank me would mean I had to trust them utterly and completely, which in turn would mean I felt safe enough to be that vulnerable. But NOOOOOOOOOO to any pain of any kind, and not for humiliating reasons.
It's pure conjecture, though, as I would never allow anybody to do it.
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Every now and again. Not dramatically though.
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