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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 9:27:58 AM

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It seems to me that in most porn videos the gal is wearing high heels. Personally, I'd be more interested in "things" other than some high heels that might poke an eye out...unless there is a foot fetish. I don't understand that either, but that's a topic for another day.Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed

So...LUSH LADIES...a bit of straight up honesty here, please..."Do you wear heels in bed (during sex sessions) and why?"

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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 9:34:40 AM

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Well, actually it's a shoe fetishist that would want a girl to wear heels in bed. A foot fetishist will usually want those shoes off ASAP.

I don't know the reasons why porn so often goes with the 'heels in bed', but I suspect there's a psycho-sexual logic to it. I've been requested to wear heels/sandals to bed (not by my current bf, but in the past), and I just figure it's a way for a guy to re-enact the things that he likes about porn. There are other little things that guys sometimes want, that obviously come from porn, too.

As for me, there is something about it that I do like, admittedly. Though the practicality of actually wearing shoes while I fuck on a bed is awkward. "Heels/shoes on" works much better when a bed's not involved.
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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 9:53:44 AM

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I agree. I have a pair of thigh high "fuck me" boots that work well out of bed. Same with some of my "higher" heeled shoes.
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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 10:34:34 AM

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chefkathleen wrote:
I agree. I have a pair of thigh high "fuck me" boots that work well out of bed. Same with some of my "higher" heeled shoes.


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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 10:38:06 AM

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I love shoes, and I love to wear heels which add to my 'sexiness' look and feel, but no I do not wear them to bed. On a side note, I also do NOT want a guy EVER cumming on them. Do you have any idea how much a nice pair of heels cost these days? In bed, bare is better, everywhere.

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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 10:48:47 AM

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I have worn Shoes and Boots, especially really sexy thigh highs while having sex at my partners request but it isnt a regular practice. I must admit is kind of sexy but can be awkward too. But I guess it really isnt that much different then keeping lingerie on while having sex. It all depends on what turns you and your partner on.

It does seem like women in porn always have sex with shoes on. But you cant take porn as reality. I mean how many women are wearing 6" stripper heels while cooking or cleaning the house, LOL!!
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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 10:53:13 AM

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God men are stupid. No offense men. But you need to understand that wearing heels is an art! They should have olympic games to see how far and how long a woman can walk in heels. And the winner gets to take the shoes OFF lol. They are PAINFUL! But god are they cute...
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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 12:52:20 PM

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The reason that heels are seen as sexual is because it perts up the ol' ass cheeks thus giving off that 'in heat' look - it's that whole evolution/primal instincts thing striking again.

I don't like wearing heels in bed during sex (or at any other time in bed for that matter!!), it's a lot to think about...trying not to injure him, or yourself when your wrap your legs round his back, during the actual sex. The boyfriend does like fucking me when I have heels on though, so I opt for the middle ground....I keep heels, combined with sex, for being bent over a table, that kind of thing. Not for being flat on my back in bed.
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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 3:47:42 PM

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Good new sheets can get very expensive too after the heels rip them up.
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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 3:49:31 PM

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Heels In Bed????

Ooooooooooooh Yes!

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(Plus, it gives you something to hang her panties on!)

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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 4:06:38 PM

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LittleBambi wrote:
The reason that heels are seen as sexual is because it perts up the ol' ass cheeks thus giving off that 'in heat' look - it's that whole evolution/primal instincts thing striking again.

I don't like wearing heels in bed during sex (or at any other time in bed for that matter!!), it's a lot to think about...trying not to injure him, or yourself when your wrap your legs round his back, during the actual sex. The boyfriend does like fucking me when I have heels on though, so I opt for the middle ground....I keep heels, combined with sex, for being bent over a table, that kind of thing. Not for being flat on my back in bed.



I've been asked a few times to wear them to bed and I've been happy to oblige...

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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 4:23:34 PM

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Like Bambi, if I'm wearing sexy stilettos or come-fuck-me boots it's more for sex against a wall, or bent over something or even on the floor. I rarely wear heels in an actual bed - although I've had requests on a couple of occasions to wear ballet shoes during sex and those are okay in bed. Otherwise, like someone else said, I'm more worried about putting out an eye with a stiletto heel, scratching up a guy's back with them or wrecking the sheets. If he was into that kind of thing though, then hey - I don't have a problem wearing them. Being naked while just wearing a sexy pair of shoes is definitely hot.


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Posted: Monday, April 16, 2012 11:34:43 PM

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Not during every sex session, but I have done so on several occasions. When I have worn them, it was usually because it was part of some kind of foreplay (modeling new lingerie, a striptease, a roleplaying game, etc.) They've never caused any problems for me and having them on just adds a little something extra to the sex. I mean, a hot naked girl in a pair of bad ass heels...who's turning that down?! :-)
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Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 4:42:21 AM

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Mmm yes, I did it recently, stockings and heels, that was all (apart from panties swinging from a heel)

Rather well received it was too...
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Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 5:06:56 AM

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Mazza wrote:
Mmm yes, I did it recently, stockings and heels, that was all (apart from panties swinging from a heel)

Rather well received it was too...


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Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 5:32:50 AM

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Nothing better then a women in nothing but heels on her back on the bed while you grab her thighs dragging her closer and her legs spread so you slowly slide deep inside her
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Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 5:50:29 AM

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Stockings and heels are ok I guess ..... but last time the straps cut into my ankles. I think I need a bigger size ;)
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Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 5:56:36 AM

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Nooo, not on the bed, I'd probably injure him, or ruin the bedding, or lord knows what else.

In any other situation sure, I'm grateful for the height boost to be honest!
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Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 6:00:38 AM

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openminded55 wrote:
Stockings and heels are ok I guess ..... but last time the straps cut into my ankles. I think I need a bigger size ;)
I can just see you in a pair of sexy heels, you'd look so damn hot evil4
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Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 7:12:27 AM

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The bed is way to awkward, heels keep catching on things, ruins the mood totally. Much sexier when the lady wears them in the bedroom. Up against the wall or standing at the end of the bed in a very inviting position!!!
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Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 7:41:45 AM

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I know it's a question for the ladies, but a lot seem
to want to know why would a guy even like it.
____

I can very much appreciate a well-designed pair of heels
on a woman, and I've got to a point where I've a special
preference for certain styles; they're the finishing touch
that can make or break anything she's wearing, and thus
make or break my boner...so to speak.

That being said, why not keep the crowning feature on
in bed? In my experience, the higher the heel height the
more effort is put into her appearance, so why go to all
the trouble of looking so damn good, only to take them
off when the moment we've both been waiting for, happens?

It's not a requirement, and I'm not fussed if she keeps
them on or off, but it would please me greatly if she did. evil4

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Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 7:55:40 AM

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A sense of danger may add a little excitement to sex, but I’m not so sure that a high heel that could take my eye out is the kind of danger I am looking for. Pushed up against a wall in high heels, great. In bed, then it’s just one more article of clothing for me to remove from her body. And that can be fun too.
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Posted: Tuesday, April 17, 2012 10:07:41 AM

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No, i always take them off for a few reasons:
-I HATE shoes on my bed
-I normally like cuddling after, not so easy in heels
-They're just so uncomfortable sometimes
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Posted: Friday, April 20, 2012 5:01:50 AM

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I love wearing a high pair of heels sometimes in bed makes me feel sexy
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Posted: Friday, April 20, 2012 7:16:50 AM

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Heels no but I've worn boots in bed for men before. I only do it if a guy requests it and it's great to see how much it turns men on
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Posted: Friday, April 20, 2012 7:54:00 AM

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Heels and bed... what a palaver... But as others point out. Boots out of bed ooze sex and zing appeal. In fact, at times when I pull on a fave pair they can make me shiver as well as any horny guy!
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Posted: Friday, April 20, 2012 1:27:19 PM

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scarlettlopez wrote:
I love wearing a high pair of heels sometimes in bed makes me feel sexy


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Posted: Saturday, April 21, 2012 9:37:27 AM

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Heels.. In bed.. I would never. Most likely I'd injure him or myself and don't even get me started on the possibility of my precious heels getting dirty.
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Posted: Sunday, April 22, 2012 7:01:09 AM

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I have a pair of wedge combat boots I recently acquired and LOVE!!, I tried to work them into our in the bed games but my GF kicked me out, she said she didn't want my shoes in our bed LOL. Until that point though, those were the only shoes I had ever worn to bed I think it is really for people with fetishes and porno movies.
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Posted: Sunday, April 22, 2012 10:52:21 PM

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I'm not one for heels during. They seem to be enjoyed by both beforehand, but they rarely make it into the bed. On the rare occasions they do make it into bed, that's reserved for middle of the day when staying in bed afterward isn't an option. I hate having to worry about them during the cuddle time.

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