There's really no reason to come out to your family, at least none that I can see. There's really no reason to come out to your friends, unless you are interested in some of them sexually. Telling your husband is good. You don't have to tell other people about your sex life you know. If one of your friends or family sees you in an intimate situation with another woman, then you can say, "Oh, I'm bi." It's really nobody's business buy your own, and your husbands.

I think most people are probably bi-curious. I don't put that as my status because I have satisfied my own curiosity and now know how I feel about it. My first sexual encounter with another girl was one of my best friends. I didn't consider myself bi then, and still don't. I am sexual. Very sexual. I really have this thing for big strong dominate men which is how I identify myself.

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I am a whore. Find something else to fight about. - Nell Gwyn (to her coachman, who was fighting a man for calling her a whore)

Never had a strong need to tell friends or family that I was BI. Why would they care?

A few friends know. that need to know because I have the hots for them. There is that girl I met a the beach club a couple of week ago. She knows

Of course if DD,Lady X or Nikki703 did not already know, I surely would tell them. Don't you think they know?

Unless you feel a strong inner need to tell people or you're about to start a serious relationship with a women then I wouldn't tell anyone.

I've never told any of my family or the majority of my friends because quite simply they don't need to know.

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My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx

I am Bi and have been since I was a teen. The only people I told back then were the friends I experimented with. I never told my mom and since she died when I was 17, I never got around to telling her, although I had a feeling she knew. After my divorce, when I became more actively Bi, the only people I felt a need to tell were my daughters since I much rather them hear it from me. I told them as soon as they were old enough to understand what it meant. And even now, while I dont hide my Bisexuality, I dont openly flaunt it either.

You say you are Bi-Curious? Then why the need to tell anyone since you only have interest and have not yet done anything? Would you tell about your fantasy to be with 6 guys at once? Just wait and see how things go before worrying yourself with "coming out" since you really dont have anything to come out from....................At Least Not Yet! Just enjoy exploring your sexuality and see how it goes.

DD, Only when your drunk, huh? Dirty Martinis, Right?...............................Nikki makes mental note. HAHA!!

I do not think you should hurry to act on your feeling of 'needing to come out' about this. Tell your husband, he is the ONLY one who needs to know about your desires right now. If things progress to more activity, then I believe you will find an oppurtunity will arise to share with others as needed. There is no reason to rush into an announcement. Let things take there course and work out smoothly and naturally.

Wishing you the best.

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If you ignore beauty, you will soon find yourself without it.................Frank Lloyd Wright

I always practice obedience, when it's in my best interest.

It is your decision and if you want someone to know then tell them. Of ourse your husband should be told and after that it is no ones business but yours and those you want to know. Enjoy your sexuality without regrets.