I'm sorry- I know I shouldn't be posting here but I can't help myself.

According to that chart floating around I am fat, which I was fully aware of anyway. I am a size 18 and have tits and an ass to match. I am not 'blobby', I still have curves in the right places and I'm not bothered about my size. I've heard everything derogatory there is to be said, so now I just don't care. I dress well, I'm confident and happy in my skin and I have decent face.

I have never been with a guy the same size as me, get this- I don't find fat guys attractive. Rich coming from me, right? But that just proves it- it's about personal preference. My best friend is a size 8 and she's beautiful and when we've gone out together in the past she's turned round afterwards and asked me how I consistently manage to pull guys that she'd thought we're out of my league (now there's some brutal best friend honesty for you!)- turns out that usually she's been after the guy in question. Another friend who is the same size as me is very self concious and shy and hasn't been laid in 4 years.

Physical attractiveness is a major player and nobody is suited to every man's taste, but a lot of what matters is personality. There is no definitive answer on this one- there is always gonna be an exception to the rule.

Again, sorry for posting in here!

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Professio in silentium.

Haha, I don't usually post unless a topic really takes my fancy... I shall try harder though :)

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Professio in silentium.

Yeah .. assholes. I mean, even if they thought that about "fit girls" .. still assholes.

I have a really good friend who is totally attracted to larger guys... especially if they have a belly. She says it reminds her of a teddy bear, the better to cuddle. She is a "Fit" girl, and super cute.

Oh my god she is probably a huuuuuge pain in the ass... The bigger dude can't runaway as fast!

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I like to think it's a combination of practice and natural talent.

You're pretty fit aren't ya... You can bring that ass over here for some practice.

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Come in already, it's unlocked, dummy... But yeah, come in cause I'm about to go in through your out door.

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I like a woman with curves. I think women are sometimes their own worst enemy when it comes body size. They seem to think men want those skinny models. Most men I know like a woman with a few curves.

I cant say i like bigger girls I like girls who are confident and like themselves. I am an ass man cant deny that but i like a girl that keeps her body in shape. Examples J-LO Nice body, Christina now nice body, Eva Mendes nice body, Zoey Saldana to small for me. I need curves and someone how can have my back in a fight lol. I just realized I like latinas who knew!

The problem is defining the word "bigger"I think Voluptuous does it for me,a well rounded lady with all the right curves.I can see her now lol/

Very well said :)

I suppose I shouldn't be posting here as well.. but then again it is an interesting topic and one I have to deal with being a bigger girl myself and recently I have gotten to see it from a different perspective..


I used to think it would be wonderful if i met someone who liked bigger girls, and it happened a couple of times, and as it turned out the guy seemed more interested in my size than anything else, and i felt the same way I used to feel with the guys who wanted me to be smaller..


Physical attraction is very important and size does play a role in that, but having said that if someone is too focused on size, be it smaller or bigger.. it never is a good sign.. I think personality goes a long way, an d how long are we going to have elastic skin and stay the same size??..gravity and age does take a toll on everyone!! :)

Big women are not shy and really try to please their partners.

Amen girl, YOLO!

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My mother always told me that the way you feel about yourself others will see the same. I dont always find that to be true. I think with todays society you have to a certain size to have men or women fall all over you. I dont feel that way. I think curves are beautiful. I think fluffy men are very sexy, and very very passionate lovers. They are also great cuddle buddies!! You have to have confidence in yourself. Have confidence in your body, and know that your personality is worth more then your outsides. If someone doesnt give you the time of day because your curvy or fluffy, well then thats their loss. They could have just missed on the best friend they never had or mind blowing sex or the man or woman of their dreams. We are all beautiful, skinny, fluffy, tall, short, or any race. :)

Thick or thin
Short or tall
Black white or asian
I love them all
:d/