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im 20 and struggle to keep a convo going with a woman that is aged for example 10 yrs older than me
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be funny be interesting be flattering (dont go overboard here, its a fine line) dont whine, dont be needy and dont cling :)
good luck!
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its not how i am with women its when i tell my age they dont seem to want to make conversation
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Is your age on your profile page? If not then put it on, it might save you a lot of wasted time.
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mickyb wrote:its not how i am with women its when i tell my age they dont seem to want to make conversation
then dont do that ;)
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I have no problem talking to anyone as long as they are respectful, polite and can use proper English. I can't stand texting lingo when I am talking to someone. Spell out the words how are you, not hru. Age does not or should not determine whether you should be spoken to by women who may be older then you. Realize that not all women are on Lush for sexual chat and knowing who is and who isn't is the first step, read profiles to help you with that. Just be yourself and be honest. Fill out your profile and share some of yourself with the Lush community. Pick out an image and use it for your avatar, it can be of anything that you find interesting (just follow site rule when choosing one). Those things will help as most of us take the time to view profiles. Good luck and I hope things get better for you :)
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You are only as old as the person you feel.
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I have a few friends who are alot younger than me and I have some great conversations with them.
The trouble for me would be that I have a daughter of 21 and would struggle to feel comfortable with a sexual conversation with someone who is younger or the same age as my daughter.
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mickyb wrote:im 20 and struggle to keep a convo going with a woman that is aged for example 10 yrs older than me
:( Welcome to the human condition. When I was 20, I didn't want to have conversations with women who were more than about 5 or 6 years older than I, as I didn't think of them as possible sexual/relationship partners. Perhaps what you should figure out is why you are so keen on that concept (not that I'm attempting to talk you out of that, mind you). We can't really help who we are attracted to. Some women just totally flip me out and leave me stunned, others...they could be butt assed naked and throwing themselves at my feet and I wouldn't even notice 'em. And I don't make every girl/woman drool with anticipation or want to jump my bones either. I think that's kind of how it's supposed to be. Those (of any age) who can hold a conversation with me while not looking away, are those who I typically enjoy talking with or listening to. As you grow older Mickey, you should discover similar results. Experience man, you can't beat it. Unfortunately, it's also one of those things where you can't fake it - til you make it.
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Sirene_Jaune wrote:You are only as old as the person you feel. if that was true, i wouldn't be allowed on Lush *giggles*
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I mostly like guys close to my age or a little older. It's the maturity level mostly.
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YES!!! I love younger men!
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mickyb wrote:im 20 and struggle to keep a convo going with a woman that is aged for example 10 yrs older than me
:( Of course you do and this will get worse until you are around 30. At that point your lifes experiences will start kicking in to help. For me a 20 year old is boring as hell and just because that cock stays up longer doesn't make it more interesting or for that matter better. Now, you may find some cougar that just wants cock and that's fine but do wear a sock and do get tested for STD's often if that's your frequency.
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When I was a younger guy, they certainly did. They taught me a lot.
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i do love older women :D they know what they want and have many skills in bed.
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i seem to feel more interest towards younger men nowadays.my last bf was 7yrs older i
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mickyb wrote:im 20 and struggle to keep a convo going with a woman that is aged for example 10 yrs older than me
:( It's all in your confidence and the ability to articulate/communicate effectively. No matter the age (younger/older) ... if you have that, you can converse with anyone (as long as you are both speaking the same language, lol). Good luck!
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mickyb wrote:im 20 and struggle to keep a convo going with a woman that is aged for example 10 yrs older than me
:( Are you talking about online or IRL? I am 22 years older than you but I have no problem talking with 20 yo as long as tbey keep my interest. Most 20yo seem to be more into themselves trying to prove how great they are. Just try to start a talk and go with the flow. Be polite, show her you are interetsed in what she is saying. Speak english (or what ever language you both speak) and not hip-hop slang. I want to hear I am a fun girl and not a "dope bitch". I dont want to hear that from anybody! I actually enjoy chatting with younger people. It gives me a new perspective on things. But with me, talk is as far as it will go. I am not really interested in more than that.
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Yes. (As long as he has a brain in his head. Otherwise, the other has no real appeal.)
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It would depend on the ages of both parties. As a 36 year old I find men more than 8 or 10 years younger to be lacking in maturity, however if I was 46 and he was in his 30's it would be different. Having said that though, there is always the exception. I have met some men more than 10 years younger with whom I can have a conversation and are capable of more than monosyllabic answers and constant references to sex.
In my experience, sexually, most men in their early to mid 20's are primarily concerned with self satisfaction rather than shared mutual pleasure.
I personally prefer men that are my age and older.
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it all depends on the person. you can find ppl of all ages that you have something in common with. i have men and women of varying ages that i chat with. my first question is not how old are you and i don't stop a conversation when i find out an age. one of the things about a chat is that you don't get to judge ppl by what they look like, what they wear, their age, their height, their race.... you get to know their mind. it is the way it should be. just my 
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This depends, and as odd as it may seem, seems to vary with my menstrual cycle. When I'm ovulating, I tend to just want to fuck and a young stud is perfect. But the rest of the month, I want someone who will treat me right, and therefore, want someone more mature.
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years ago it was taboo to see older woman with a young men but nowdays "age gap" thing is completly normal.I think that age does't matter at all as long as both of them enjoy themselves.
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