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Hmmm. consider I am with a man who is 28 years my senior, i would have to say, Yes! <3 I Love my Older man <3
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Joined: 6/6/2011 Posts: 63 Location: Ask & maybe I'll tell you
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I'd say anything past 50 is to old for me. No, I don't have daddy issues, but I've always been attracted to men, not boys. Part of it is the stablity that comes later in life, that and most men know exactly what they want and they know a good thing when it comes there way. Most older men with a younger girl won't cheat, but anybody who's loyal is ok in my book.
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we all are looking for some thing. it seems to me a women is looking for a good provider. the word provider can mean different things to different people. provider can mean financial security, a good father, a good lover, adventure etc. i am 55 and young women still hit on me. i have had relationships with younger women, but it always seems like it is for financial security, or the chance of adventure. i am retired.
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Joined: 3/31/2011 Posts: 65 Location: Winsor
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i lov a man over 60 theres just somthing about them i love older men
ask me anythin tell me your secrets becuase im here to be somebodys best friend
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Joined: 5/2/2009 Posts: 1,018 Location: United States
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I have aways been interested in older men. Dated a few and was not disappointed.
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Joined: 4/9/2011 Posts: 17 Location: Melbourne, Australia
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I am an older male (check my bio). I am currently having an affair with a younger female with a gap over 30 years between us. I love her freshness, her open attitude and have found myself almost in a second life. She loves my experience, my mature approach, my respect for her as a woman. We are soulmates and we accept unconditionally everything about each other's past and current life.
It comes down to who the couple are. And for those who may think it - I don't have money. And for others - I am not hung like a donkey.
We have mutual respect, and our common thread is she likes older guys and I like younger women. End of discussion.
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I definitely prefer older men, they're just more passionate and sexually smart.
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Mycatsnameispuss wrote:I am an older male (check my bio). I am currently having an affair with a younger female with a gap over 30 years between us. I love her freshness, her open attitude and have found myself almost in a second life. She loves my experience, my mature approach, my respect for her as a woman. We are soulmates and we accept unconditionally everything about each other's past and current life.
It comes down to who the couple are. And for those who may think it - I don't have money. And for others - I am not hung like a donkey.
We have mutual respect, and our common thread is she likes older guys and I like younger women. End of discussion. That's the best way to put it. I totally agree with you.
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Joined: 6/25/2011 Posts: 114 Location: My Condo, Belize
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I have always liked older men; even to this day. However, now that I am older (early 40's) I also enjoy time with a younger man. ;) I am actually bi so you could say older men or women and younger men or women. To put it simply, age does not matter to me. I have never understood the cliche of "to old" or "to young". But then again, body type and skin color don't matter to me either. Abby
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Joined: 4/24/2011 Posts: 238
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I must confess of my crush with older men in general.. there's a certain sex appeal in their confidence, gentleness, quiet bravado which really attracts me.. :)
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When I was 18 I had a relationship in secret with a 49yo guy for 5 months, he posted an ad on craigslist and rewarded me generously whilst we were 'going out' I loved the sex and he didn't mind spending money on me, not giving me money, just presents now and again like a bracelet or a meal out.
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YES. YES. YES.
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I have always enjoyed the company of men older than me but there was always a limit. Age hasn't been the drawing factor, though there is a trend.
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Joined: 6/23/2011 Posts: 49 Location: London Baby!
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Sometimes, but it does make me laugh some of my friends and even my older sisters and mums friends partners who are like late 40s thinking they could get with 20 year olds! I like men that are a couple years older than me, from when i was much younger (edited by admin for content)
It depends on the man, and on the woman
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yes i think it is hot. No i don't like all older men but some are really hot...but yes most of the time when i am at a store and i smile at a older man i am just being nice..but sometimes it is a little more;)
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Joined: 3/2/2010 Posts: 3 Location: Oregon
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I have enjoyed reading these posts. I think being an older male that a younger woman may appeal to me. I believe they would be willing to try new things and keep me on my toes LOL
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Joined: 3/21/2011 Posts: 295 Location: United States
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For me this is a hard question. I am dating a younger guy, which is perfectly fine, though I have never really done that before. It seems to be working better then the other ages of guys I have dated. However, when it comes to walking around or watching television or just general daily activities. I find my eyes land on the older men more often and not the younger ones.
If you can't fuck yourself ... who can you fuck?
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Joined: 8/21/2009 Posts: 733 Location: Prague, Czech Republic
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suezq wrote:Been there, both ways, and although it may sound cliche, it really depends on the individuals involved and what they are looking for in a relationship. When I was 17, I was with a 30 year old guy for a while. We had lots of fun, and he taught me a lot, but we both knew it wasn't forever, but just for right now. If there is a large age gap, I think it is rare for it to work long term, but even that isn't impossible. [You're quite right it isn't.]
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Joined: 11/23/2010 Posts: 28 Location: United Kingdom
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 Oh my yes yes yes
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Joined: 10/10/2011 Posts: 75 Location: United States
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Like the prior posters, I don't know what you mean by "older" men, but... I've never been with someone who's younger than me, and I doubt I ever will. When I was 19 (I'm 21 now), I dated a man who was 39 for 9 months, so yeah, I have kind of a rep for liking men that are older than I am. I've gone on several dates with men in their 30's, and often get hit on by men in their 40's. It's always been this way; I don't know why. I am often attracted to me in their 40's, but--at this age--my attraction "cutoff" is about 45.
I don't know if that answers your question.
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what do u mean older? For me, i like guys some what elder than me, like 3-6years. Some girls like elder guys and some like younger. It depends.
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Joined: 1/4/2012 Posts: 91 Location: In Your Dreams, United States
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I generally prefer an older man to a man my age or younger
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Joined: 6/8/2012 Posts: 902 Location: Mystic Falls, United States
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LOL..Yep... age limit 3 to 10 :)
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I am attracted to confidence and purpose. Often that is found in "older men". They know what they want and how to get it. I find that incredibly sexy.
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My husband is 20 years older than me.
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Joined: 2/16/2011 Posts: 473 Location: United States
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Two words: Sean Connery
Otherwise, my husband is two years older, but the one I most wish I had run off with when I had the chance is seven years younger
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Yes older guys seem to treat you better,they can go the distance where as most younger guys are a little trigger happy.also older gents are moe mature they know what they want and go after it..
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My husband in 14 years older than me. He is 33 and I'm 19. Family has issues with it but the age difference doesn't bother nor does it really matter to us.
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Joined: 2/24/2012 Posts: 193 Location: Where the water flows, United States
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Hell yeah I'm 22 an i love guys at least ten years my senior. Idk exactly what it is. Has nothing to do with sex I just.... I'm lying it does have a few things to do with sex and conversation, I like them period.
Anything you think is sweet, I'm a little more than that.
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Joined: 1/6/2012 Posts: 3,294 Location: Trumpton, United Kingdom
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It depends on the person as to whether I'm attracted to them or not. The first guy I seriously wanted to have sex with is about 15/16 years my senior. And he was proper nommy!
Ut incepit fidelis, sic permanet.
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