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snowmynx
Posted: Wednesday, June 20, 2012 1:30:19 PM

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Hi peeps. . . ive been with my fiance for around 4 years and we are getting married in october, and at first our sex life was amazing. It was every night every way imaginable, but then i fell pregnant. After having our baby, who is now 16 months old, my sex drive seems to have disappeared completely, except for when my other half goes out. When im indoors alone, i become extrmely horny, and masterbation has become a daily routine for me, but as soon as h2b comes home, it disappears. Any avice on this??

Also, since we no longer have sex regularly, it has become a struggle for him to last more than a few minutes, and we both end up disappointed. even if we do it a few days in a row or multiple times a day, it doesnt make it any better. . . any help and advice would be much appreciated people. :)
fish1212
Posted: Sunday, June 24, 2012 10:03:04 PM

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"except for when my other half goes out."


Ya
What time and how long is he out
1Zratedgal
Posted: Monday, June 25, 2012 11:06:36 PM

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Snowmynx,

Start talking to him NOW!!!
And the two of you need to see an intimacy / couples counselor QUICK!!!

If you don't get a handle of this now, your marriage is almost certain to fail!

For you love and the strength of your relationship, see someone and get help together!

Kisses!

Steph
Nikki703
Posted: Tuesday, June 26, 2012 9:23:03 AM

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1Zratedgal wrote:
Snowmynx,

Start talking to him NOW!!!
And the two of you need to see an intimacy / couples counselor QUICK!!!

If you don't get a handle of this now, your marriage is almost certain to fail!

For you love and the strength of your relationship, see someone and get help together!

Kisses!

Steph


I agree with Steph. Find out the problem NOW and fix it before its too late.
blazestcyr
Posted: Thursday, June 28, 2012 3:34:44 PM

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i totally think most couples sex life change after babies...me i wanted more sex after..i gave birth..i loved my body...i loved every lb, mark...& felt incredibly sexy...my bf...it is RARE her & he hubby have sex after 10 years & they were like rabbits..but she felt as if her body was not perfect anymore...

so first u have to be really honest with yourself...

is it just easier to do it yourself, faster....less hassle?

is our fantasy life better tha actual sex?

do you still find your hubby hot & sex worthy??

premature ejaculation can be take care of by a hand or blow job before...

is time a issue too>.having a toddler u just have zero time for sex

masturbating...because u have more of a sex drive is completely natural

avoiding sex with.it..is..a issue...

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