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osyou02
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 3:03:44 PM

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Ladies...how would you feel if you were physically stronger than your man? How do you feel about arm wrestling and wrestling as foreplay?
TheArtTeacher
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 3:11:29 PM

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I'm a small woman, with the upper body strength of a child. So I have never met a man who isn't stronger than me. But I would imagine that it would be a turn off for me.
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 3:16:40 PM

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I enjoy some wrestling, grappling and rough-to-playful fun as part of foreplay. Especially if it's part of him subduing me as I struggle against him when it comes to role play or rough sex.

I don't think arm wrestling would turn me on at all though. I like the physical and overpowering thing more than the games and points aspect that something as specific as arm wrestling would involve.

And it would be a MAJOR turn off if I was physically stronger than him on any level. lol


osyou02
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 3:36:07 PM

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Thanks for the replies ladies. I am very curious as my SO is very strong (although I do THINK) I am stronger than her. Interesting post Alpha Blonde that arm wrestling would not be of any interest as she has said the same thing. We haven't done any play wrestling as foreplay althoough I love it! I woulld like to try and be a little more physical/dominant and she hopow she reacts.

Ladies...more comments
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 3:50:39 PM

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osyou02 wrote:
Interesting post Alpha Blonde that arm wrestling would not be of any interest as she has said the same thing.


Yeah, my view of arm wrestling is something that guys do with each other when they're drunk as a little crowd of their buddies jeers and cheers. There's nothing sexual about it.

Contact wrestling is a little different - or at least it can be when done with someone you're attracted to. The one stipulation is that the guy ultimately has to be the dominant force in the match up and it has to end with getting pinned down or up against a wall and fucked hard.


blazestcyr
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 4:03:11 PM

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arm wrestling isnt my bag either...

sorry to say but i want my guy to be a wee bit stronger than i am...bigger too...

that is why i adore guy with a bit more to love...

however if he wants to play helpless as i dominate..i am allllll for it!


love what doll wrote...perfect!!!
osyou02
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 4:12:34 PM

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Thanks, Blaze and Doll. I am going to drop the arm wrestling hints and go more for the full contact wrestling. I certainly have the size advantage even though she is extremely strong. Question...how would you two like for this to be started? Playful tussling on the couch? Mounting and pinning you with your arms above your head in bed? You have helped with your comments and my SO's response to no interest in the arm wrestling. Now...I want to pursue (with your help) another erotic wrestling approach.
blazestcyr
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ooooo love that osy....& she will too!!!
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 5:13:21 PM

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osyou02 wrote:
Thanks, Blaze and Doll. I am going to drop the arm wrestling hints and go more for the full contact wrestling. I certainly have the size advantage even though she is extremely strong. Question...how would you two like for this to be started? Playful tussling on the couch? Mounting and pinning you with your arms above your head in bed? You have helped with your comments and my SO's response to no interest in the arm wrestling. Now...I want to pursue (with your help) another erotic wrestling approach.


Wrestling is basically a variation of rough sex, except in this scenario she fights back a little rather than just submits. Some women may just let you take take the upper hand with no resistance and let you pin them and control them. You have to know she's the playful/feisty type that's going to push back a little and make it fun, otherwise you're going to move straight into standard male dominant rough sex. So... you may want to talk about your interest in wrestling or get good at verbal teasing during foreplay to inspire her to wanna fight back.

You may want to just grab her unexpectedly and try to pin her up against a wall, controlling her wrists, using lots of dirty talk - then ease off a bit and give her a chance to 'struggle' against you. Then take it to the ground or force her onto the bed. Don't forget about controlling her lower body/legs as well. During this, you can be in a position to squeeze her breasts, push fingers into her pussy, suck on her neck, work a finger into her ass, tell her in an explicit way all the filthy things you're going to do to her. It should be energetic, sweaty, hot sex with rough, hard fucking, changing positions, and she should be active as well - not just laying there submissively. You are essentially wrestling her into positions where you can fuck her and get your mouth on her.

You can also go with a basic rear-naked-choke position, but instead of arm around the neck, use both arms around her upper body to pin them to her sides and then go for some deep up-thrusting anal. That's a fun one. :)


osyou02
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 5:18:17 PM

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OMG!!! Dancing Doll...you wanna wrestle!!!!!
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 6:00:05 PM

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osyou02 wrote:
OMG!!! Dancing Doll...you wanna wrestle!!!!!


When I start up Dancing Doll's Erotic Wrestling Gym, you will get a free membership! glasses8

Here's a sample from the introductory first class:






See, people think I'm kidding, but I actually think this is a great business idea! geek


legallyme
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 8:56:43 PM

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Absolutley not I love being the alpha dog in a relationship if i was stronger than him that may even turn me on more
loveamongriots
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 10:38:23 PM

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COMPLETE turn off for me. And I'd join Dancing Doll's Erotic Wrestling Gym for sure!
Ruthie
Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012 11:08:15 PM

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It would be an absolute turnoff for me. I want to be manhandled.
SITTING
Posted: Tuesday, July 03, 2012 9:03:10 AM

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Turn off! I like being weak!
osyou02
Posted: Tuesday, July 03, 2012 11:10:15 AM

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Thank you to all the ladies who have responded. I really appreciate your views. Female muscle and strength is very erotic in my world. I am going to adjust my approach with my SO in hopes it will lead to some erotic wrestling foreplay.

As for your "free" membership doll...I ACCEPT! I am "OFFICIALLY" you first member and any ladies wanting to wrestle...bring it!
sweet_as_candy
Posted: Tuesday, July 03, 2012 12:04:08 PM

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I have to agree! A turn off for me too but I do love a good wrestle ;)




Kimasa
Posted: Tuesday, July 03, 2012 12:28:17 PM

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It would be a turn off. I love the feeling of being overpowered by a strong lusty man.

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
Nikki703
Posted: Tuesday, July 03, 2012 12:51:16 PM

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I am pretty strong, especially for my size, but it would be a big turn off if a guy was physically weaker than me. I think wrestling can be very sexual and a turn on. It is fun to be handled roughly by a guy during sex. But not arm wrestling. That is just how drunk men boost, or try to boost their egos.

Doll, Erotic Wrestling sounds like a great idea. I mean who would have ever thought Naked Yoga and Pole Dancing Classes would ever exist? Personally Im waiting for Naked Kickboxing!! LOL
lafayettemister
Posted: Tuesday, July 03, 2012 12:51:40 PM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:


Wrestling is basically a variation of rough sex, except in this scenario she fights back a little rather than just submits. Some women may just let you take take the upper hand with no resistance and let you pin them and control them. You have to know she's the playful/feisty type that's going to push back a little and make it fun, otherwise you're going to move straight into standard male dominant rough sex. So... you may want to talk about your interest in wrestling or get good at verbal teasing during foreplay to inspire her to wanna fight back.

You may want to just grab her unexpectedly and try to pin her up against a wall, controlling her wrists, using lots of dirty talk - then ease off a bit and give her a chance to 'struggle' against you. Then take it to the ground or force her onto the bed. Don't forget about controlling her lower body/legs as well. During this, you can be in a position to squeeze her breasts, push fingers into her pussy, suck on her neck, work a finger into her ass, tell her in an explicit way all the filthy things you're going to do to her. It should be energetic, sweaty, hot sex with rough, hard fucking, changing positions, and she should be active as well - not just laying there submissively. You are essentially wrestling her into positions where you can fuck her and get your mouth on her.

You can also go with a basic rear-naked-choke position, but instead of arm around the neck, use both arms around her upper body to pin them to her sides and then go for some deep up-thrusting anal. That's a fun one. :)


I'm totally on board with this. Wrestling a woman is one of the sexiest things I've ever done. Need a sparring partner? lol





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Dancing_Doll
Posted: Tuesday, July 03, 2012 1:32:51 PM

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lafayettemister wrote:


I'm totally on board with this. Wrestling a woman is one of the sexiest things I've ever done. Need a sparring partner? lol


I dunno LM... you might regret that offer. They call me 'Killer Doll' on the circuit. And I'm a BJ specialist... whoops, I meant BJJ specialist. clown





1Zratedgal
Posted: Tuesday, July 03, 2012 11:34:22 PM

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I look at this differently. Not in the arm wrestling but in the foreplay of wrestling or just playing around.
When things do get more heated, it's almost like rough sex but with the intent of adding to our pleasure.
Kinda like when a guy wants to do it in one position, but I rather be in a different one and I can force my way into it.
We both win and end up fucking like crazy anyways!

Now if it is a group situation, then it becomes like a wild fuck fest frenzy of bodies and it really gets to be intense and fun too!
Trying to hold your own against a group of horney people is fun and tiring but the climaxes are well worth it!

Kisses!

Steph
shawnababy
Posted: Wednesday, July 04, 2012 12:35:36 AM

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All the men in my life are big and strong. Big arms, big shoulders and big chest. I stay in really good shape and I would say I have a well above average amount of strength for a woman. I like it when the guy pretends to let me take control and lets me ride him aggresively. In reality he and I both know he can do what ever he wants to me whenever he wants and I couldn't do a thing about it. I like it that way.
WellMadeMale
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I bumped into a friend of my female cousin when I was a few months older than the age we cannot talk about here @ Lush. She was a few months younger than me. She was a farmer's daughter. A working farmer's daughter. Tossed hay bales instead of driving the tractor - pulling the hay wagon.

One of them that Sprichler has talked about...except she was built like a brick shithouse. Look that one up , youngsters.

5'9" and about 140 tightly wound pounds of - wow/young woman. I was about 5'10" and 150 pounds. She surprised me (at least that's my excuse and this is my story).

She pinned my ass in about 90 seconds with a half-Nelson...and then...started dry humping me in front of many friends and some family. All the while she was whispering in my ear... "You don't want some of this do you...beg, tell me you want some or not!"

I was a bit disturbed by this turn of events. But I definitely wanted some, you can bet your ass I did.

Never tapped that.

Probably a good thing...she might have had me begging for some pegging.

I prefer vanilla too.

If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
tashitasha
Posted: Wednesday, July 04, 2012 7:06:18 AM

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Definitely turned off, i lovee stronger men :p

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sweetaz
Posted: Wednesday, July 04, 2012 7:23:19 AM

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I have no problems with being stronger but I certainly wouldn't add those activites your describing at the top of my list as foreplay.
swollen
Posted: Wednesday, July 04, 2012 6:04:18 PM

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Feeling 'powerless' against the physical strength, and weight of a male is a major turn on for me. Personally, I would hate to be either heavier or stronger than a lover.
hamz
Posted: Wednesday, July 04, 2012 7:29:14 PM

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legallyme wrote:
Absolutley not I love being the alpha dog in a relationship if i was stronger than him that may even turn me on more


I am glad there was at least one girl who found this a 'turn-on'. Just curious, have you ever had a chance to physically dominate a man and make love to him? (a bit like raping him, I suppose)

hamz
Posted: Wednesday, July 04, 2012 7:33:23 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:
I am pretty strong, especially for my size, but it would be a big turn off if a guy was physically weaker than me. I think wrestling can be very sexual and a turn on. It is fun to be handled roughly by a guy during sex. But not arm wrestling. That is just how drunk men boost, or try to boost their egos.

Doll, Erotic Wrestling sounds like a great idea. I mean who would have ever thought Naked Yoga and Pole Dancing Classes would ever exist? Personally Im waiting for Naked Kickboxing!! LOL



Nikki, I can see why strong women want stong (er) men. But for me it is also the other way round. I too am strong for my size. But strong women (one who can physically defend themselves if the need be) are a massive turn-on to me... I am lucky to have a like-minded wife (although, I believe, I am stronger than her) - and sex is just so much fun when you can be really rough to each other!! oh . just luv it..
totally support the erotic restling idea... membership please !!! Sword Fight
hamz
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1Zratedgal wrote:
I look at this differently. Not in the arm wrestling but in the foreplay of wrestling or just playing around.
When things do get more heated, it's almost like rough sex but with the intent of adding to our pleasure.
Kinda like when a guy wants to do it in one position, but I rather be in a different one and I can force my way into it.
We both win and end up fucking like crazy anyways!

Now if it is a group situation, then it becomes like a wild fuck fest frenzy of bodies and it really gets to be intense and fun too!
Trying to hold your own against a group of horney people is fun and tiring but the climaxes are well worth it!

Kisses!

Steph


Couldn't agree more with you Steph. Thats exactly what me and my wife do.. oh.. so much fun!! Sword Fight a win-win situation definately!!
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