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hornyryan
Posted: Friday, August 17, 2012 4:38:59 PM

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do girls like nice guys? or am i just not looking at the right kind of girls, cause every time i date a girl and we hit 6 months she either brakes it off or she gets so crazy that i have to brake it off.
blazestcyr
Posted: Friday, August 17, 2012 6:30:16 PM

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i hear this all the time..i like good guys...

i think the wrong girl for you... likes the bad boys

women who have emotional issues go after guys who treat them like dirt..

so to me... i tell u guys,,, who say this

it is possible that perhaps u like crappy girls?

or perhaps..6 months is all that that girl might do at this time in her life

she is OUT there keep looking & stop dating to "type"

give OTHER ladies out there a second look

u have a pattern too...

good luck
CenterLine
Posted: Friday, August 17, 2012 6:30:36 PM

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My experience with the "nice guy" conundrum is that it's mislabeled.

It doesn't have a lot to do with how nice you are. Without knowing anything about you personally, I'll give a general answer. It's usually a lack of confidence in who you are or a lack of interest in who you are. Don't be self-obsessed, but don't be obsessed with pleasing your partner to the exclusion of anything else. Just be interesting.

As for those of your girlfriends turning out to be crazy, you might just be inclined to date crazy bitches. I get it, I did it for a long time. Dated a stripper. Dated a couple of go-go dancers. Dated a pornstar of sorts, (and never slept with her- thanks, high school), and some crazy ass hippies. I liked all of them a lot, and they liked me, at first. Some of them decided I was boring by their standards of fun, some of them cheated on me, and one of them stabbed me.

Dating's hard. I had actually decided to stop pursuing dating and sex at all about a year before I met my girlfriend (I'm with now), and that's what I needed. If you're having "nice guy" issues, though my best advice is to act interested in the girl, but act interested in who you are too.
CenterLine
Posted: Friday, August 17, 2012 6:31:24 PM

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And oh yeah, be interesting.
CenterLine
Posted: Friday, August 17, 2012 6:32:04 PM

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*interested.
TreeSuh
Posted: Saturday, August 18, 2012 2:18:31 PM

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I hate the saying Nice guys finish last

You dont get dumped because your too nice.

Your being dumped for another reason, Nice but lazy, Nice but not confident, Nice but jealous....

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