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Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 7:38:06 PM

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annabeth1278 wrote:
you catch your girlfirend making out with another girl. Are you going to freak out? What's your opinion about lesbos?isjda


I would have thought I had died and went to heaven. Isn't this every guy's fantasy come true. We love each other and I would not be intimidated if she wanted to explore her sexuality.
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Posted: Friday, August 24, 2012 5:14:26 AM

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Difficult question to answer. The horn-dog in me wants to say "hey, I'd be up for that! Lemme join in!" but the emotional side of me wants to say "I'd be hurt. I'd question why. Am I not good enough for her, what;s missing from our relationship?" In the end, I'd talk it out. If it turned out to be just curiosity, I could live with it, we're all curious at some point and sometimes it just takes over, even if you try not to let it. Sex is a powerful thing, if you let it. If, on the other hand, it turned out that she was harbouring loving feelings toward the woman, I'd be hurt by her lack of honesty, even though I could see her reasons behind hiding it.

My opinion on lesbos? They're people, plain and simple.
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Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 11:05:11 AM

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If she knew she was being naughty having been caught in the act, then she would have to share! Stiffy would be out in a minute!

After Devi performed penance for a long time according to the instructions of Gautama, Mahadeva finally appeared before
Her and said that He would grant Her whatever boon she asked for. With great respect Devi prayed that She should
become half of Siva Himself saying, “I cannot live any longer with a separate body, for if separate, I may make another
mistake like this and then shall have to undergo all the hardships of penance and suffer the pangs of separation”.

Parameswara therefore acceded to Her request and so united with Her as ARDHANAREESWARA (the Lord with a halffemale
form). This is how Amba, the Mother of the universe, became one half of Siva.
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Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 6:08:20 PM

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...that's a complex one.

My girlfriend is pretty damn straight, and we're pretty much monogamous. There's just enough wiggle room on both of those things though that this post got me thinking a little more than I thought it was going to. I would probably be okay with it, as long as we talked it out later. I would have a harder time if she was with a guy, only because we aren't technically open at all, but if she were exploring something I would take it a little better. Since my pansexuality is well established though, I'm not sure I would get the same leeway if she found me making out with a guy. I doubt any of it would be relationship ending, but that's why communication is good. We're supposed to discuss it before we play with others and only do it together, but does a drunk kiss count? Yeah, but it's the difference between slapping somebody in the face because your pissed, and breaking their kneecaps with a sledgehammer. It's bad, but not by comparison.

Regardless, I think that people should adhere to the agreements and arrangements they have with their partners, and probably assume that they're monogamous until there's a good reason not to anymore. As for what I think of "lesbos", my response is "Why was that part of the question?" This has little if anything to do with sexual orientation, and much more to to with the nature of monogamy and trust and double standards in relationships. To answer though, many of my friends are lesbians and I have no problem whatsoever with them, but I'm quite certain my girlfriend is not one.
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Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 10:36:58 PM

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If I caught her I would only be mad because she never told me! Then I would join in lol
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Posted: Sunday, August 26, 2012 4:24:42 AM

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It's happened to me. My ex-wife and her best girlfriend had a lot in common, including a strong desire for each other. Did it bother me? Hell no! Was it the reason for our divorce? Hell no! end of story.
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Posted: Sunday, August 26, 2012 11:57:26 AM

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Wouldn't the answer depend on entirely on whether your sex with her was currently off the scale unbelievable or diminishing in both frequency and satisfaction levels??!!
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Posted: Tuesday, August 28, 2012 8:58:46 AM

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she wouldn't do it because of the nature of our relationship. However, I would prefer all aspects of each other's sexuality be up front so surprises like this wouldn't be surprises.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 08, 2013 8:00:10 PM

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if my wife is gonna cheat , then I'd much rather it be with a woman than a man . not saying I'd have to join in or even watch because if you ask , I'd say hell yeah but for her to be alone with another woman . . . I'd be ok with it . and yes I've watched my wife make out with another married woman while her husband was sitting there also and it was in a bar .
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Posted: Tuesday, January 08, 2013 9:16:12 PM

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I would love it. I would ask to join in though.Making out with two women at once is awesome. I did it once when I was in the military and was with two dependant ladies who very "friendly" with each other and I was privileged to be invited to join them.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 08, 2013 9:16:43 PM

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its happened and its the best feeling in the world
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Posted: Wednesday, January 09, 2013 5:55:04 AM

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99% of women are total airhead hypocrites. They would sooner get eaten by their BFF. Then fuck you. It would be totally ok for your wife to lay the first bozo who comes along on a motorcycle,but when you mentor a bright ambious female subordinate at work,well band pow zoom off she goes.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 09, 2013 7:32:44 AM

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My wife would never do that... so..... not really an issue. But if she wanted to, and I was also involved... oh yeah! I did see her tongue kiss one of her sisters when drunk one time. They were just playing around and NOT serious, and it was not a lips on lips tongue kiss... you know just that playful tongue crap they do sometimes.... but it was HOT! lol
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Posted: Thursday, January 10, 2013 10:41:23 PM

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I have been lucky enough to enjoy this and still love it everytime.
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Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 3:57:31 AM

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i have nothing against lesbians or gays in general.. it's just their sexual preference... shrug...

my only concern i guess would be the reason behind her wanting to be with another woman... if it was a casual relationship i wouldn't even think about it tho lol
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Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 5:48:15 AM

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yeah all kinds of problems here the main one being trust in each other
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Posted: Sunday, April 14, 2013 12:04:53 AM

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well, I actually caught my wife at the time doing more than making out with another girl, which is what led to the divorce, so if it's not something ever discussed between the couple, there could be problems.
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Posted: Sunday, April 14, 2013 12:22:43 AM

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I have known guys that went off the deep end when they experienced this, but personally I find it even more stimulating later knowing where her mouth has been, and I wished I could be there too.
But the best situation is to be in the middle...



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Posted: Sunday, April 14, 2013 12:45:48 AM

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I'd watch..............for a while, then I'd jump straight in ;-)
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Posted: Sunday, April 14, 2013 1:45:18 AM

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It would never happen but if it did I'd love it and encourage it. At least, that's what I think. In reality - I'd find out at the time!

Not if my wife ended up losing interest in me though. That wouldn't be ideal.

For me, I've always thought such pictures were sexy but it's not going to get me off.
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Posted: Sunday, April 14, 2013 3:12:08 PM

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i would watch then ask if i can join threesome baby
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Posted: Friday, April 19, 2013 11:03:59 PM

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Hey, I have no problem with lesbians. (I'm not being cliché with this next statement) Hell, one my best friends is a lesbian. Though if I caught my wifey cheating on me (although I know she never would as she's too morally and spiritually sound) with a female or otherwise; it's over. Cheating is the worse thing you could do to someone you love.
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Posted: Sunday, June 09, 2013 8:44:06 AM

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I think I would like to see that.
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Posted: Sunday, June 09, 2013 5:24:04 PM

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Not a guy so my opinion may not mean a thing. Some of seem to not be threaten and some do.

In my case, my husband and I had participated in group sex any number of times and always I found a woman for at least part of the evening. So no surprises.

But he found with young girls on two ocassions and left me. He is a good guy and a valued friend, but he still left
Anika






The girl who started early at this game of sexual pleasure, This girl that never seems to get as much as she wants, at least from the right people. But now certainly the woman that will test all the paths of pleasure with you.
1lush
Posted: Monday, June 10, 2013 2:58:36 PM

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I would simply stand and watch to see where it was going. If she was having a good time I'm sure in time she would see me watching and hope she invites me to join.
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Posted: Monday, June 10, 2013 9:37:37 PM

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i'd be crushed.

cheating is cheating is cheating. i'm not an advocate of the double standard.



also, not sure if the guys saying they'd ask to join in are being serious or have watched one porno too many because chances are, if you caught her with another woman, you're either not satisfying her or she rather make out with her than you.
Guest
Posted: Monday, June 10, 2013 10:19:39 PM

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Lesbos? Really? Can you check which decade you're currently living in and where?
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Posted: Tuesday, June 11, 2013 7:58:01 AM

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Lesbos is actually the Greek island that "lesbian" is derived from (due to the ancient Greek poet Sappho, who was a Lesbian lesbian) ;). https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbos

I realize that the OP didn`t have that in mind, but it`s interesting that this bit of crude slang parallels a historical truth.

As for the OP:

After I recovered from the shock (seriously, my wife isn't a very sexual person to start with so her getting it on with anyone other than me would be a shock, let alone her being bi/lesbian), I'd want to know what was up with that. If she was exploring a bi/lesbian side that was new to her (and, of course, to me) I might well let her go on exploring and negotiate a bit of an open marriage. After all, I`m bi-curious myself so might like to do a bit of exploring, too.

However, it`s hard to say without being there. It`s easy to think it through when it`s a hypothetical. Not so much when it happens.


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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, June 11, 2013 11:12:27 AM

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Pinch myself ... hard ... is the first thing I would do if I caught my wife with another woman ... lol ... as it would be very unlikely that would ever happen ...

After pinching I would cry in pain from the pinching and smile smile smile ... and oh yeah ... watch watch watch ... ;)
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Posted: Tuesday, June 11, 2013 11:46:22 AM

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I would, see it as her cheating.
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