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Posted: Tuesday, August 28, 2012 2:48:17 PM

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HI

I am very slave sweet boy , 24 years old , looking for mistress (in real life also ) . i love creative punishments for me.
I do watch bdsm , mistress , femdom porn videos , thats my main internet hobby


eocpez2
Posted: Wednesday, August 29, 2012 9:19:00 AM

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When looking for a Dom/me carefull consideration is needed. Saying you have no limitations can open the door to many things that you have not thought about. When you find that right person to submit to, you should make sure to talk about what you do and don't like. For instance, you say you "love little painful sex". If you don't make it clear where that pain barrier is, you may be taken somewhere you don't enjoy. Have patience and be picky. Finding a Dom/me is not an over-night project. Extensive communication is the key to making it work. Talk talk talk and when your done talking, talk some more. You have to be sure the person you submit to will have the qualities needed to take care of your needs, the guidance to lead you as you require. Its not, "hey your a Domme, I'm a sub, let's get this started". Wanting a Domme in real life as well as on Lush, you have to be sure the person you choose is not just role playing. If you are looking for smething real, make sure its real before you commit and feelings get hurt. I hope you find what you are looking for.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, August 29, 2012 10:15:13 AM

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Idk if I could be a dom just yet. I do rp as a sub with someone I really love but its just that rp. Reading ur comment ecopez idk if I could handle someone truly taking it beyond rp & dominating me. I'd love to discuss this with u though. I am intrigued.
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Posted: Wednesday, August 29, 2012 10:34:47 AM

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oh look! it's this thread again....
MoonlightSerenity
Posted: Wednesday, August 29, 2012 10:41:44 AM

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Sprichler wrote:
oh look! it's this thread again....


Why yes it is!

I wonder how long until they find the search feature or actually look at the forum or read profiles or actually get a brain.....

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TheDevilsWeakness
Posted: Wednesday, August 29, 2012 11:36:24 AM

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One more thing...
Maybe to stop the multiple "Looking for..." threads from popping up all the time... Maybe a sticky thread called "Looking for a Dom(me)/sub" would do the trick?
Just a suggestion.

MoonlightSerenity
Posted: Wednesday, August 29, 2012 11:48:10 AM

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TheDevilsWeakness wrote:
One more thing...
Maybe to stop the multiple "Looking for..." threads from popping up all the time... Maybe a sticky thread called "Looking for a Dom(me)/sub" would do the trick?
Just a suggestion.


That could cause more pain than good for everyone who does post in it. As most who post these sorts of threads know bugger all about what they are wanting and how to go about getting it and so get hurt very often. I've seen too many subs hurt because they didn't get to know their Dom/me.

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foxjack
Posted: Wednesday, August 29, 2012 11:55:13 AM

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I thought this was a bot at first.... sad...
jerseylynn
Posted: Wednesday, August 29, 2012 11:57:41 AM

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Come on people, why would he post it under somebody else's forum window? Let's have a lil compassion and instead of blasting a person and making them feel unwelcome, offer them a hello and a lil bit of advice in how to find one on this site. As many of you can see, Lush isn't anything like other sites.

BTW I soooooo have to agree...really???? no limitations...do you like scars? do you like to be belittled or humliated, do you like to be passed around a group of strangers pleasing everyone (if that is what is expected of you), do you want to be whipped, do you want to have things pushed inside of you...see where i'm going with this..as mentioned by Ecopez2...you need to have a lil idea on what limitations you do have and you can always explore more with your Mistress. With no limitations that opens the door to some extreme situations. Seen it to many times and saying you have no limitations will chase away anybody really worth knowing.

Use the first few conversation as kind of an interview, find out what she is into, see if your interests are compatible. If they aren't then that is a quick way to end a relationship.

Edit above and add in how long have you been in the lifestyle. Have you had a rl relationship or online before. You need to sell yourself as there are many others here looking for a Mistress too. Make her see your forum post and want to talk to you. Don't make people guess as it might be a turn off or thinking that you are lazy and looking for the first one to appear.

Hope that helps and good luck on your search.

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sprite
Posted: Thursday, August 30, 2012 9:34:00 AM

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slave_james wrote:
HI

I am very slave sweet boy , 24 years old , looking for mistress (in real life also ) ,i dont have any limitation . i love little painful sex and creative punishments for me.
I do watch bdsm , mistress , femdom porn videos , thats my main internet hobby




everyone has limitations. you'd best re-think that when you find a Mistress, otherwise it's going to end badly, trust me on this - be honest, realize your limitations, and communicate them - if she's a good Domme, she will be asking you what your limits are and respect them, AND if you say you have none, she will most likely drop you. i would. just friendly advice.

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/hardcore/west-coast-games-part-one-the-beach.aspx
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Posted: Thursday, August 30, 2012 12:47:12 PM

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Thanks for good information
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