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curiousdi
Posted: Monday, August 06, 2012 12:45:50 PM

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in a relationship with a guy and i am not sure what to do.. i mean i know what to do when it comes to fucking and sucking
what i don't know what to do is....
it is all about his needs being meet. him getting sucked on and then me fucking him
how do i get him to give me what i want and need. which is lots and lots of foreplay til i cum, my pussy licked, sucked and fingered til i cum and then finally my pussy fucked long, hard and deep.
lost at what to do to get what i want

It is what it is
1ball
Posted: Monday, August 06, 2012 5:29:34 PM

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If he seems uninterested in pleasing you, there probably isn't much you can do. If he's just unskilled/unaware of your dissatisfaction, withhold what he wants, coach him and reward him when you get it.

My latest story is too hot to publish. My most recent story before that is Even Stranger In Lust
Guest
Posted: Monday, August 06, 2012 5:43:01 PM

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curiousdi wrote:

in a relationship with a guy and i am not sure what to do.. i mean i know what to do when it comes to fucking and sucking
what i don't know what to do is....
it is all about his needs being meet. him getting sucked on and then me fucking him
how do i get him to give me what i want and need. which is lots and lots of foreplay til i cum, my pussy licked, sucked and fingered til i cum and then finally my pussy fucked long, hard and deep.
lost at what to do to get what i want


If someone truely loves you, they would want to satisfy your needs. Yes I love to be suck on as much as the next guy. However, what really turns me on is actually giving oral. Outside of really enjoying the taste, I also enjoy seeing my mate tense up and explode. It turns me on. Whistle
littlemissbitch
Posted: Monday, August 06, 2012 11:30:48 PM

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curiousdi wrote:

in a relationship with a guy and i am not sure what to do.. i mean i know what to do when it comes to fucking and sucking
what i don't know what to do is....
it is all about his needs being meet. him getting sucked on and then me fucking him
how do i get him to give me what i want and need. which is lots and lots of foreplay til i cum, my pussy licked, sucked and fingered til i cum and then finally my pussy fucked long, hard and deep.
lost at what to do to get what i want


you need to tell him...sometimes we even have to draw pictures for them ;)

but really communication is the best way and then if he still isnt meeting your needs you'll know to move on to someone who does :)

littlemissbitch ~ professional face ripper offer, at your service..
TomasDeLuc4
Posted: Tuesday, August 07, 2012 12:07:46 AM

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littlemissbitch wrote:


you need to tell him...sometimes we even have to draw pictures for them ;)

but really communication is the best way and then if he still isnt meeting your needs you'll know to move on to someone who does :)


This ^
Pretzel
Posted: Wednesday, August 08, 2012 7:54:03 AM

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what kind of guy is he? if he is a hard head then maybe the right thing to say is hey! wtf?
if he is a timid man that needs encouragement then maybe.. "i love the way you go down on me"?

I think littlemiss said it though, there has to be some sort of communication otherwise what's the plan? wrestle him to the floor and hop on his face? I'm sure some guys would love that actually.... hmmmm a1089


blazestcyr
Posted: Wednesday, August 08, 2012 8:06:27 AM

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being selfish in bed cannot be cured...move on..please....

a guy who does not give in bed ..will not give in ..life..
Driver1963
Posted: Thursday, August 09, 2012 7:28:38 AM

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blazestcyr wrote:
being selfish in bed cannot be cured...move on..please....

a guy who does not give in bed ..will not give in ..life..

Amen! For me part of the joy in sex is having a lady enjoy it it as much if not more than I do!
Dani
Posted: Thursday, August 09, 2012 9:12:19 AM

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I don't buy the timidity thing. If he makes it known that he wants his dick sucked, then he should know that you want to be pleased in different ways as well. It's one thing if he's oblivious. Then the simplest thing to do is to just tell him. I've found that women who are the least sexually satisfied are the ones who are least vocal about what they want sexually. Even if it means guiding his hand or his head to where you want him to touch/kiss you, you need to express what you want to HIM. That's the easiest way to produce results. Perhaps he doesn't know HOW; then in this case you should teach him. And if for any reason he refuses, then it's time to move on.



Baby put your arms around me, tell me I'm a problem...

Kinkme
Posted: Thursday, August 09, 2012 12:21:57 PM

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In general I'd agree with Littlemiss....but we really need more info. If your guy is a "cocky all about me kinda guy" in general, you might as well move on. Sounds like you want a man that appreciates you and lives to please you for the wonderful creation that you are. If so, that guy will NEVER put you first in any area of life. BUT if he's just insecure, inexperienced, or just "shy" in bed, he could be a blank slate just waiting for you to form into exactly what you want! You can train him because once he know what you need, he will bend over backwards to give it to you. In bed and all areas of life! Maybe in his last relationship, going down on, or fingering her was out of the question.
I'll bet you know which guy you have.
bonscott11
Posted: Friday, August 10, 2012 4:09:48 PM

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If he don't give you what you need he doesn't get what he needs from you. He will get the hint and if he doesn't talk to him about it and let him know that you want to show him what you want. Have him relax and use your hands to guide his hands or his head to do what you want him to do. He will get the hint or should and after a couple of times he should be able to do it himself without you showing him.
mounderman
Posted: Friday, August 31, 2012 8:18:02 AM

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he needs to know how you feel. If he is not willing to do what you want at least a little bit, then he doesnt deserve you
Guest
Posted: Friday, August 31, 2012 10:36:18 AM

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Balzestcyr is 100% correct. A guy that is going to satisfy you is going to do so because he wants to. If he is a good lover, he will do it because he loves to make you feel that way. If the guy has to be told..........then it will be a hollow attempt at best.
tellme001
Posted: Friday, August 31, 2012 11:25:44 AM

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someguys are just for themselves,I personally enjoy making my woman moan with pleasure . just ask him or watch a soft porn from x-art.com that might give him the hint.
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