|
|
Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 3/7/2012
Posts: 3
Location: United States
|
I'm in college now and there is an aboundance of beautiful, sexy girls out and about. To be honest, I'm not too sure how to start things of with any women here though. So I guess what I'm asking is for "do"'s and "don't"'s on how to talk to girls in college
|
|
Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 8/7/2009
Posts: 10,561
Location: The Other Side Of The Mirror
|
Just be friendly as you would to anyone. Do not try too hard, do not brag about how great you are but it si OK to be confident without being arrogant, Do not tell them how great they are but it is OK to compliment her. Women like guys who are attentive but not pushovers. So dont be a yes man and agree to everything she says. I like it when a guy is a little mysterious about himself, I dont want to hear his life story the first time we meet. Just be yourself. Most women can essily see through a guys line of BS and it is a big turn off.
A lot depends on what you are looking for too. Are you looking to find a GF or just sex?
Also, show interest in what she has to say. Girls love guys who listen. Good Luck!!
|
|
 
Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 10/19/2011
Posts: 737
Location: where bugs die
|
listen to them..ask questions about them...never talk about your past gf's....
be confident...be humorous...most ladies love the funny guys....
be yourself...we hate to find out that u faked an interest in what we are doing to get into our pants
& everything what nikki said..she hit ..it.
|
|
Rank: Advanced Wordsmith
Joined: 9/20/2011
Posts: 80
|
Listne!
|
|
Rank: Alpha Blonde
Joined: 2/17/2010
Posts: 4,340
Location: In your dirty fantasies
|
Be chill. Have a sense of humour. Get involved in the college scene (sports, frat, gym, pub nights and parties). Don't try too hard. Just talk to women like normal human beings but with a bit of flirty edge. When it comes to sex and hook-ups, always be willing to take it or leave it - don't be desperate or chase after a dead end. Have fun - but not at a woman's expense. Be discrete if you're having casual hook-ups (don't blab to all your buddies in rez or in your frat or give away embarrassing details) and try to respect the importance of a reputation on campus. When girls see you live by the code and have a certain level of maturity when it comes to dating/interactions, you will be seen as more attractive. Lastly, women tend to like upbeat, attractive, positive people - if you're feeling emo/depressed, don't bring it to the party. Don't talk about exes, family issues, how nice guys finish last or angsty personal dilemmas when you first meet someone. As long as you make sure she's smiling, laughing and having fun, she'll be more likely to want to hang with you again in the future. 
 The complete 50,000+ word novel, inspired by the original short story, is now available for instant download on Amazon.com *Forum Announcement and More Dirty Details* *** Click here to read my NEW Hardcore rough sex story. Now a Lush Editor's Pick selection! ***
|
|
Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 3/11/2012
Posts: 115
Location: United States
|
just be freindly honest and polite, they will notice you.
|
|
Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 4/16/2012
Posts: 250
|
Join a fraternity that has a good reputation. I'm in college and most of my friends dig fratguys. Also, try being a varsity at a sport, it helps build a solid image.
|
|
Rank: Her Royal Spriteness
Joined: 6/18/2010
Posts: 8,101
Location: Oz, United States
|
be friendly. if you're sitting near a girl in class, make it a habit of smiling, just being nice, talking about school stuff, like you would a guy, get to know her, be relaxed, be YOURSELF, and be patient. :)
 Bitches in the Basement on Amazon by our own Dancing Doll
|
|
Rank: Constant Gardener
Joined: 9/30/2009
Posts: 9,498
Location: Cakeland, United States
|
9inchyoungcock wrote:I'm in college now and there is an aboundance of beautiful, sexy girls out and about.
To be honest, I'm not too sure how to start things of with any women here though. So I guess what I'm asking is for "do"'s and "don't"'s on how to talk to girls in college Do: walk by her and attempt to bump into her breasts with your elbow or brush her nice little firm ass with the back of your hand/knuckles. This is an excellent initial ice breaker which allows you to say: "Pardon me, I'm so sorry." Look sheepishly away from her and Do.Not.Smile. at this point in the game. Smiling while apologizing is creepy. Don't: walk by her and grab her tight, round, squeezably soft buttcheeks. This will lead to assault charges at the worst, knuckle sandwich at less worst, or just a slap in the face (it will get her attention however). +++ Do: Let a young woman know you are scoping her out. Sly grinning is helpful at this point (from no further than 10 paces away), establish brief eye-contact. Don't: Leer; Be rubbing or scratching your crotch when she is scoping you out; Flip your tongue at her (between your fingers); Drool +++ Do: Allow her to overhear that you think 'aloud' that she's quite attractive. Example -- whilst talking to your wingman: "The impish blonde in the white blouse sitting near the fountain...It would be a shame, if she already had a steady boyfriend." Don't: Allow her to overhear you state: "That impish blonde with the big fucking tits falling out of her bra, I'd eat a mile of her poo, just to see where it came from." Armed with this brief list - go forth and conquer. Report back with your results next month.
 The best thing you can do for your fellow,
next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
|
|
Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 5/31/2012
Posts: 397
Location: Bare Beach USA, United States
|
Nikki703 wrote:Just be friendly as you would to anyone. Do not try too hard, do not brag about how great you are but it si OK to be confident without being arrogant, Do not tell them how great they are but it is OK to compliment her. Women like guys who are attentive but not pushovers. So dont be a yes man and agree to everything she says. I like it when a guy is a little mysterious about himself, I dont want to hear his life story the first time we meet. Just be yourself. Most women can essily see through a guys line of BS and it is a big turn off.
A lot depends on what you are looking for too. Are you looking to find a GF or just sex?
Also, show interest in what she has to say. Girls love guys who listen. Good Luck!! Nikki gave you good advice, just be real. The one thing I would add nothing can kill a potential friendship faster than too many "I's and Me's. We like to think you are interested in us as a person not just what we have between our legs.
The girl who started early at this game of sexual pleasure, This girl that never seems to get as much as she wants, at least from the right people. But now certainly the woman that will test all the paths of pleasure with you.
|
|
Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 5/18/2012
Posts: 6,674
Location: BabyGirl Island, United States
|
Just be yourself
"I went into the woods because I wanted to live deliberately. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life... to put to rout all that was not life; and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived." from Dead Poets Society
|
|
|
Guest |