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This might have already been covered but i cant seem to find it. My wife has cheated on me numerous times and actually has tried to get pregnant this way, which oddly enough doesn't bother me as much as it should. Though she has not been totally faithful I have and wondered if it would be wrong if I got some strange on the side?
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She could hardly justify an expectation of fidelity. But if your relationships has devolved to this point, why stay married?
Sensei's altimeter is reading 9000'. Suddenly the engine noise level drops a lot. The engine on the door side of the plane is quiet. We hear, "Shit! Fuck me!" from the cockpit, then the pilot yells, "Everybody out! Now!" Airgasms Induce Orgasms
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1ball wrote:She could hardly justify an expectation of fidelity. But if your relationships has devolved to this point, why stay married? I agree completely, if she is cheating on you to get pregnant....I think it's about time to end the relationship. Think about this, she goes off and does her thing with some random dude and ends up pregnant. The random dude disappears into the shadows not knowing he has knocked up your wife, and is never heard from again. That would mean that you would be personally and financially responsible for this child. Is that something you want? To resent your wife and bring up a child in a hostile evironment? This child would call you dad it's whole life....do you have the conversation down the road with him or her? "Actually Sam / Tammy, while I am very grateful that you have called me dad your whole life the truth is mommy was a little slut and cheated on me. She has no idea of who your real father is. Good luck with finding who they are!!"Not a situation I would ever like to encounter.
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I'm thinking that you're not telling the community everything. If I were a betting man, I'd say that you are enjoying some things about this relationship you haven't shared with us, yet. In any relationship I've been in where I had discussed monogamy and then expected it from my partner, only to learn later that she'd stepped out on me...That was the end of that, as quickly as I could effect the transition. So, spill. You're kind of liking the situation, aren't ya? She trips your trigger with something or a lot of somethings she's doing -or- providing?
 The best thing you can do for your fellow,
next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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ok you got me yes i am turned on by her little escapades, the whole pregnancy things scares me a bit, but she is very tight and will do just about anything so yeah I keep the relationship going for a reason and overlook some stuff to keep it together
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Dude, if she's cheating and you're thinking of cheating why are you still together?
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Why don't you just agree to have an open relationship and more importantly, have a talk about a possible future pregnancy?
Because she's tight? For goodness' sake, my doctor says I'm tight (I can sense a new story there), but if a man only wanted me because I can grip his penis with my vaginal muscles, would ask me to do anything, and was only slightly concerned that I may get pregnant with some stranger's baby (not to mention the possibility of getting and passing on nasty diseases and infections), I would think something was wrong with him mentally, or that he was horribly shallow at the very least.
Why not ask her if it's fair to cheat on her as she's cheated on you? What are you wanting, validation from strangers?
And for goodness' sake, have that chat about her getting pregnant! Because chances are, it's going to be an issue that will come up sooner or later, in a much scarier form than just a possibility.
Ut incepit fidelis, sic permanet.
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Is talking on here cheating?
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MrsCorne wrote:Is talking on here cheating? The OP never said it was here, and mentioned that she was trying to get pregnant.....I am not too sure that happens "here"
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MrsCorne wrote:Is talking on here cheating? If your spouse did it, would you consider it cheating?
Sensei's altimeter is reading 9000'. Suddenly the engine noise level drops a lot. The engine on the door side of the plane is quiet. We hear, "Shit! Fuck me!" from the cockpit, then the pilot yells, "Everybody out! Now!" Airgasms Induce Orgasms
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