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Guest
Posted: Sunday, May 22, 2011 6:50:50 PM

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flytoomuch
Posted: Sunday, May 22, 2011 7:13:39 PM

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Well....I like BOTH.....I can tie the girl up with pink satin cords, tease her, touch her...tell her naughty stories....do role play....and then I can also enjoy her turning the tables and doing the same to me....I love both.
whysoserious
Posted: Monday, May 23, 2011 2:54:01 AM

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I love to be controlled............it´s a big turn on for me to have a woman in total control!!
Shari
Posted: Monday, May 23, 2011 9:09:08 AM

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Controlling someone is good, being controlled is the best
andyhants
Posted: Monday, May 23, 2011 10:21:03 AM

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Bit of both to be honest but I do love it when control is taken away from me...especially if it involves being tied up and blindfolded :-)
Pelicanbill
Posted: Monday, May 23, 2011 1:41:21 PM

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Both. I like being told where/what is affecting her at the time and also working her to get the best from me
Guest
Posted: Monday, May 23, 2011 3:38:01 PM

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I am perfectly happy being controlled. I love to please...
AlwayStiff
Posted: Monday, May 23, 2011 4:50:40 PM

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I love to be controlled. I like when I do not know what is going to happen next. Feeling helpless is a big turn on for me.
akwildman
Posted: Monday, May 23, 2011 7:44:32 PM

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I honestly don't know, I've never been controlled! I've enjoyed controlling though!

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Guest
Posted: Monday, May 23, 2011 8:17:59 PM

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controlled works for me
phillip
Posted: Monday, May 23, 2011 9:21:42 PM

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being controlled is wonderful.

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kinkydude
Posted: Monday, May 23, 2011 10:24:23 PM

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luv being controlled....
d anticipation is gr8 turn on 4 me
Magical_felix
Posted: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 7:27:03 AM

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Both, but it all depends on the woman. If she has a big dominating personality then it's fun for her to control me. If she tends to be a shy quiet person then it feels un-natural for her to take the reins in bed and I prefer to dominate her.



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Posted: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 7:39:28 AM

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I would say that I am a switch and it doesn't depend on the partner...We both travel quite a bit and it seems like whoever was just on the road gets "special treatment" when they come back home.

It feels great to have control, while on the otherhand completely trusting your partner to do as they wish with you..Embarassed

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Magical_felix
Posted: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 7:45:13 AM

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Dudealicious wrote:
I would say that I am a switch


laughing8

Sorry dude, I'm immature... Carry on.






Dudealicious
Posted: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 7:53:17 AM

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Magical_felix wrote:
Dudealicious wrote:
I would say that I am a switch


laughing8

Sorry dude, I'm immature... Carry on.




HAHAHA I won't even get suckered in to that one...nice try though! coffee

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Guest
Posted: Thursday, September 06, 2012 4:33:15 PM

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I prefer being controlling...but am always willing to be controlled when a woman knows what she wants!
Orallee69
Posted: Friday, September 07, 2012 11:06:02 AM

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I'm willing to "take her" when she wants/needs it but generally I prefer to give her total control until she's satisfied, however she will take it from me.
1ball
Posted: Friday, September 07, 2012 5:33:00 PM

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I've never been controlled, but I generally hate being controlled in other aspects of my life.

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WellMadeMale
Posted: Saturday, September 08, 2012 7:30:42 AM

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I couldn't imagine a more monotonous existence if I were in control 100% of the time during sexual play. It would rank right up there with abstinence or jerking off alone weekly - in the top three sandwiches I'd hate to be fed all the time.

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Posted: Saturday, September 08, 2012 3:59:38 PM

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I love controlling my lover, whether making love or fucking her hard. Blindfolds and light restraints, sensory deprivation, introducing new sensations and watching her reactions are a huge turn on. On the other hand, knowing that my partner desires me and wants to control my pleasure is also a huge turn on.

I guess what I'm saying is either way is highly erotic. As long as both my lover and I are eager participants, it doesn't matter to me. Keep things fresh and exciting I say
Guest
Posted: Saturday, September 08, 2012 7:32:29 PM

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I guess I would rather control than be controlled although if the woman wanted to be the controller for a bit of variety I can play that too.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, September 08, 2012 8:11:31 PM

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i want to play both,i think,i will enjoy controlling....i want to have her rough and slutty...like in some of the stories here by dancing doll
CenterLine
Posted: Saturday, September 08, 2012 8:47:06 PM

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This is a complex question. In a similar thread Kimasa was telling us about the physiopsychology of sexual hormones. Apparently being "controlled" ups the levels of oxytocin in the body which (in general) increases the sexual experience in women, whereas "controlling" somebody tends to up the testosterone levels, which obviously is more of a male thing. Biologically speaking, I'm kind of an exception to the rule (assuming I'm not in possession of some small intersex organ I'm not aware of - as could any of us be!) in that I like to be controlled.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, September 09, 2012 6:04:07 AM

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i prefer being in control sexually.
tbar0212
Posted: Sunday, September 09, 2012 6:58:57 PM

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For me it all depends, but most of the time i like being controlled, and submissive.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, September 09, 2012 8:04:06 PM

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After a fellow Lushie talked my wife into it the other night, I have to say, I love it when she ties me up and teases me till I can't take it anymore.
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To be Controlled Is something I often need, But an occasional Switch spices thing's up.



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Guest
Posted: Sunday, September 09, 2012 10:00:14 PM

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corne wrote:
After a fellow Lushie talked my wife into it the other night, I have to say, I love it when she ties me up and teases me till I can't take it anymore.


Fun Fun Fun
Guest
Posted: Sunday, September 09, 2012 10:00:55 PM

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corne wrote:
After a fellow Lushie talked my wife into it the other night, I have to say, I love it when she ties me up and teases me till I can't take it anymore.


You can tie me up anytime hun
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