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If a man struggles with ED, should he become a monk or keep trying to have sex, in spite of failures
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keep trying to have sex (unless his plan was to become a monk all along, in which case, he should follow his heart!)
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He should try the drugs and keep trying to have sex. Speaking from experience, it's worth it.
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sprite wrote:keep trying to have sex (unless his plan was to become a monk all along, in which case, he should follow his heart!) Thanks for that answer. Now to "slightly" borrow from this thread..."Would you have patience with a man who had ED difficulties?" Rick
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I have ED myself and it's pretty bad. I don't want to become a monk but I don't even think about dating anyone. Recently I tried a Cialis pill and it got hard, but there was no sensation and I couldn't milk it. I don't know if I would be more comfortable in a romantic situation where there actually was a woman who wanted me, but I haven't met her so far.
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asleep wrote:
Thanks for that answer. Now to "slightly" borrow from this thread..."Would you have patience with a man who had ED difficulties?"
Rick
depends - if it was the love of my life and he was wonderful in every other way, yes - if it was a one night stand, no. *shrugs* i'm shallow like that.
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Each man with ED is different sometimes drugs have no effect and they lose interest in trying and make their wife feel undesirable. I've lived with this for 13 years next month and have remained faithful to him even though he never even touches me and makes me feel dirty for masturbating. Sometimes I think there is more going on than just straight ED.
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sprite wrote:
depends - if it was the love of my life and he was wonderful in every other way, yes - if it was a one night stand, no. *shrugs* i'm shallow like that.
Sorry...I disagree with you. You are NOT shallow!!
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I deal with sexual dysfunction in my office on a regular basis. The first thing you need to do is find out the cause. Is it your prostate? Medication? Diabetes? High blood pressure? or something else. Once you have found the cause try to treat the cause first. If that does not work I give my patients Levitra. I have had good success with that and it is so much cheaper than the other pills. At WalMart its $9 a pill instaed of almost $30 a pill for the others.
As for your partner any woman who is not willing to work with her man on this issue and be supportive of him and understanding has no buisness being with him and he deserves someone more mature and loving. Don't waste your time with a woman who has a problem with your ED.
If you have any other questions please feel free to ask. I do not know ewverything about the topic but I will find the answers for you if needed.
Good Luck!!
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I agree with most comments but I wouldn't think of it as "trying" to have sex. You can still be having sex you know. Intercourse isn't the only way. Relax and enjoy the other ways.
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PartyGirlMolly wrote:I agree with most comments but I wouldn't think of it as "trying" to have sex. You can still be having sex you know. Intercourse isn't the only way. Relax and enjoy the other ways. A sweet answer!!
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I think you should keep trying. Seek the advice of a doctor to check if your prostate is enlarged, anemia, or diabetes. Get your thyroid checked too. If not then try acupuncture. I know...needles but it really works. I have seen to many men do the drugs for helping ED end up with some major complications. I tell people it's your body saying "hey, get me checked out". I'm no doctor, but it can't hurt.
There is a lot of things you and your partner can do that is pleasurable. Give it try, you just might find out its a lot of fun!
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I once overheard a lady say that if her man could no longer get it up, he better go get the viagra. I believe she is right. A man must please his woman. If she wants fucking, he better find some way of making it happen 
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corne wrote:I once overheard a lady say that if her man could no longer get it up, he better go get the viagra. I believe she is right. A man must please his woman. If she wants fucking, he better find some way of making it happen That is right hun
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