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Vanellus
Posted: Friday, September 21, 2012 9:40:32 AM

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Dani
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Depends on how long I've known him or how comfortable I feel talking to him about it. And the conversation may not be so much a "sexy chat" as it is an in-depth and detailed conversation about sex. But nothing can ever draw me to a sexy chat with a guy. If I know that's his intention, I usually head the other way.



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anonymouslylush
Posted: Friday, September 21, 2012 9:51:40 AM

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slipperywhenwet2012 wrote:
Depends on how long I've known him or how comfortable I feel talking to him about it. And the conversation may not be so much a "sexy chat" as it is an in-depth and detailed conversation about sex. But nothing can ever draw me to a sexy chat with a guy. If I know that's his intention, I usually head the other way.


Well said! I agree.

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LadyX
Posted: Friday, September 21, 2012 9:53:27 AM

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slipperywhenwet2012 wrote:
Depends on how long I've known him or how comfortable I feel talking to him about it. And the conversation may not be so much a "sexy chat" as it is an in-depth and detailed conversation about sex. But nothing can ever draw me to a sexy chat with a guy. If I know that's his intention, I usually head the other way.


I totally agree.


Unless he's got multiple close-up shots of his cock in his profile...
sprite
Posted: Friday, September 21, 2012 9:56:23 AM

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LadyX wrote:


I totally agree.


Unless he's got multiple close-up shots of his cock in his profile...


or a great name like 'Boredandhorny'.

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Dani
Posted: Friday, September 21, 2012 10:23:07 AM

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LadyX wrote:


I totally agree.


Unless he's got multiple close-up shots of his cock in his profile...


Lol. Really? This is actually a huge turn off for me. In fact, while in a chat room, a guy asked me to look at his profile pics. He didn't tell me why. He wouldn't drop the subject, so I finally caved in and looked. And behold, it was a gallery full of cock-shots. After immediately clicking out of his profile, I didn't say anything. So 5 minutes later, he asked me if I looked and how I felt. And I asked him how I was supposed to feel. His exact answer was "Appreciative". And I asked him what I was supposed to appreciate? It was a dick. I've seen plenty in my lifetime and I'm sure I'll see plenty more (my exact words). And of course, his response was a whole lot of butthurt. Moral of the story: If a guy pesters you to look at his dick pics and you don't appreciate them, then obviously you're a man-hating lesbian who's so hard up for a good fuck that she takes it out on random strangers...especially those that beg you to look at pictures of their dick.



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LadyX
Posted: Friday, September 21, 2012 10:30:33 AM

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slipperywhenwet2012 wrote:


Lol. Really?


No, of course not really.

Looks like I could've used this, in retrospect:



Guys' fascination with their own dicks in general is a mystery to me. A funny one! LOL. But still a mystery.
Dani
Posted: Friday, September 21, 2012 10:40:36 AM

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LadyX wrote:


No, of course not really.

Looks like I could've used this, in retrospect:



Guys' fascination with their own dicks in general is a mystery to me. A funny one! LOL. But still a mystery.


LOL. I'm not dense. I knew it was sarcasm...I just needed an excuse to tell that story, as it seemed my only opportunity to do so.



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littlemissbitch
Posted: Friday, September 21, 2012 11:04:56 AM

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LadyX wrote:
Unless he's got multiple close-up shots of his cock in his profile...


this is my main qualifier! i mean cuz we all know that having a humungo cock makes you good at EVERYTHING...especially pretend sex on the internet ;)

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1nympholes
Posted: Friday, September 21, 2012 12:11:23 PM

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Lots of good replies above me. But so many things can draw a woman into sexual interest for a man or girl.

I have been chatting with a man much too young for me, but I have no age bias. We have talked about fly fishing, school and career opportunities and where he will want to applies his skills. So there has been no sex real or fantasy.

But he is so warm and pleasant and handsome too, if he were to whisper some sweet nothings in my ear, I know I would melt in his arms and he could have me any way he wants.








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Vanellus
Posted: Saturday, September 22, 2012 12:30:53 PM

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LadyX wrote:


No, of course not really.

Looks like I could've used this, in retrospect:



Guys' fascination with their own dicks in general is a mystery to me. A funny one! LOL. But still a mystery.


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Vanellus
Posted: Saturday, September 22, 2012 12:37:15 PM

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slipperywhenwet2012 wrote:


Lol. Really? This is actually a huge turn off for me. In fact, while in a chat room, a guy asked me to look at his profile pics. He didn't tell me why. He wouldn't drop the subject, so I finally caved in and looked. And behold, it was a gallery full of cock-shots. After immediately clicking out of his profile, I didn't say anything. So 5 minutes later, he asked me if I looked and how I felt. And I asked him how I was supposed to feel. His exact answer was "Appreciative". And I asked him what I was supposed to appreciate? It was a dick. I've seen plenty in my lifetime and I'm sure I'll see plenty more (my exact words). And of course, his response was a whole lot of butthurt. Moral of the story: If a guy pesters you to look at his dick pics and you don't appreciate them, then obviously you're a man-hating lesbian who's so hard up for a good fuck that she takes it out on random strangers...especially those that beg you to look at pictures of their dick.


How's this?

Vanellus
Posted: Saturday, September 22, 2012 12:40:04 PM

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slipperywhenwet2012 wrote:


Lol. Really? This is actually a huge turn off for me. In fact, while in a chat room, a guy asked me to look at his profile pics. He didn't tell me why. He wouldn't drop the subject, so I finally caved in and looked. And behold, it was a gallery full of cock-shots. After immediately clicking out of his profile, I didn't say anything. So 5 minutes later, he asked me if I looked and how I felt. And I asked him how I was supposed to feel. His exact answer was "Appreciative". And I asked him what I was supposed to appreciate? It was a dick. I've seen plenty in my lifetime and I'm sure I'll see plenty more (my exact words). And of course, his response was a whole lot of butthurt. Moral of the story: If a guy pesters you to look at his dick pics and you don't appreciate them, then obviously you're a man-hating lesbian who's so hard up for a good fuck that she takes it out on random strangers...especially those that beg you to look at pictures of their dick.


BelleduJour
Posted: Sunday, September 23, 2012 6:51:22 AM

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slipperywhenwet2012 wrote:
Depends on how long I've known him or how comfortable I feel talking to him about it. And the conversation may not be so much a "sexy chat" as it is an in-depth and detailed conversation about sex. But nothing can ever draw me to a sexy chat with a guy. If I know that's his intention, I usually head the other way.


I will agree with slipperywhenwet for the most part except that I have definitely engaged in some very tintilating cybering with the RIGHT MEN - that's key for me. Sometimes a sexy chat is just a sexy chat, an uninhibited and candid chat about sex without the need for a cigarette at the end of it. Those are wonderful and welcomed in my Lush world. You can learn so much about other people as well as yourself.

And like slipperywhenwet says, if I sense that a naughty chat is all a guy is after, especially if they haven't taken any time to find out a bit out me or share more about themselves, then f**k off!

Now to answer your actual question, what draws me to a sexy chat? A man who understands and shows respect, patience and above all else, has GENUINE interest in knowing more about me will usually (but not always) open the door to a more naughty chat if and when the timing is right.



TonyT
Posted: Sunday, September 23, 2012 9:27:07 AM

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BelleduJour wrote:


I will agree with slipperywhenwet for the most part except that I have definitely engaged in some very tintilating cybering with the RIGHT MEN - that's key for me. Sometimes a sexy chat is just a sexy chat, an uninhibited and candid chat about sex without the need for a cigarette at the end of it. Those are wonderful and welcomed in my Lush world. You can learn so much about other people as well as yourself.

And like slipperywhenwet says, if I sense that a naughty chat is all a guy is after, especially if they haven't taken any time to find out a bit out me or share more about themselves, then f**k off!

Now to answer your actual question, what draws me to a sexy chat? A man who understands and shows respect, patience and above all else, has GENUINE interest in knowing more about me will usually (but not always) open the door to a more naughty chat if and when the timing is right.



Well said. I think chatting can be very personal. I don't chat with very many because I want to get to know the woman a bit first so I know the things that turn her on. If those things aren't my cup of tea then it's not fun for me either. I think you have to have similar fantasies and interests

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Posted: Sunday, September 23, 2012 7:15:05 PM

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Ok...if you say....."are you wet and ready for me?""im horny are you?""and wanna have/sex chat?" In the first message you ever send me...its no fun for you! If you introduce yourself and ask questions and drum up some conversation...then you'll most likely get "fun" chat time. Atleast make an effort to show you can have a civil conversation and you're golden. But sometimes some people just have the charm and get lucky..haha
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