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To tolerate such behaviour, Archadia is a learned behavior. Some women have been beat down so low & feel so pathetic & weak that when a real jerk comes around she falls head over heels for that aplha man eventhough she is being belittled & he's a real ass hole she thinks that's what she deserves & all she can get. & that's just to answer one of the vast aspects of why women stay & are attracted to those guys. Another one is that the alpha will exert a certain charm over the weak minded broken female & he will keep her captivated whether it be sweet talking or bribery. Sex, or even threats & she will keep coming back because in her mind the aplha male is all she wants to be & feels that the way he treats her is not cruel but normal. Its a sickness really & it usually leads to death. Now if that didn't answer the question idk what will. Best of luck.
-Leah.
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I don't care either way particularly, both have their appeals, and as other people have stated people are rarely 100% 'good' or 'bad'. We're all humans with a complete range of emotions and capabilities; bad will be 'good' at times; good will be 'bad'at times. I just like a man who knows who he is, what is important to him, and who can laugh at himself. Good or bad doesn't factor into it for me.
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Good effort at the question there WF, and i think you're right on the money.
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II like guys that are nice to me in public and treat ,e like a princess, then turn into a bad buy in the bedroom
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@wild_flower it's not all nuture, it can be argued that there is some nature involved too There is an evolutionary advantage to those attracted to people on the outside of society. For cavemen, if you live in a small tribe your offspring will be stronger and healthier if you're attracted more to men from other tribes than your own. In modern day life we exist within a larger society and the necessity to extend our pool isn't so prevalent but it doesn't mean that the urges that done us so well go away - it goes some way to explain why people find accents attractive. Some women will actively seek those who live outside of societal norms: Musicians, law-breakers, arseholes.
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MMmmmmm bad boys are good for one thing....Fucking!!!!!!!
And when they are done the dousing on my raging fire............I will always opt for Nice Guy!!!
Permanance commitment loyalty...........
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Nice guy that's a bad boy in bed.
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So basically is what were saying is that there is no right and wrong answer here. The lyrics 'lady in da street and a freak in da bed' go both ways for male and female, if you get my meaning.
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I guess I am lucky because my husband is a little of both. :) I love it too!!
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Bad Boy with a heart of gold
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