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TVPHIL wrote: I have masturbated every day for the last 50 years. I got married 39 years ago. Wifey discovered this two years ago and totally flipped out. After a week of screaming and demanding she talked to on and off therapist/counciler and was told "He is a guy get over it" so she did. Last August she discovered me at again and filed for divorce.
What I want to know is are you ladies offended by this? I have heard doctors say masturbation while in a relationship means nothing and "the more you get the more you want". The same doctor said 95% of men admit to masturbating and the other 5% are lying.
Do you think a controlling wife has the right to control even this? Wow. You know, it's probably just too easy for me to say this only hearing one side of the story, but it sounds to me like you'll be better off without her.
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littlemissbitch wrote:i told my husband years ago that i masturbated every day and he made me feel like a jerk for it..almost like i was cheating. weird. I think that's wrong. HOWEVER.... *IF* both sides are into it, I can see making a "rule" for my girl that she's not allowed to touch herself without permission.... and scolding her when she's naughty and taking her over my knee for a spanking.... But I think THAT sort of thing is not anything like what LMB is talking about.
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 My wife is fine about it. It gives her a break!   I positively encourage her to do the same as well!  Repressed sexuality is so wrong.  To argue as well, use that passion better! 
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He can masturbate whenever he wants. I encourage it when we are not together. It's good for his health. ;)
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What do you mean CAN he? He has two hands and a dick so, yeah, I assume he can. DOES he? Not very often. I prefer to keep him so pooped from the real thing that he doesn't really miss it. Plus we use mutual masturbation a lot as foreplay so no one really misses it.
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masturbation keeps it all in good working order.... that is my thought... (but i do love to watch).....
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littlemissbitch wrote:i told my husband years ago that i masturbated every day and he made me feel like a jerk for it..almost like i was cheating. weird. I do hope he pulled his head out of his ass and apologized for being a narrow minded Neandethal. If my significant other ever said something like that, she better be ready to drop to her knees at least once a day. Otherwise things would get unpleasant for both of us...
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LauraLee_sugah wrote:masturbation keeps it all in good working order.... that is my thought... (but i do love to watch)..... 
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